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Originally posted by: wendy25

See hav shehnaaz is not a kind of person who would immediately make sense, she is a complex personality... Tbh I adore VG-SidNaaz bond..but whatever i know from their personalities, some distance is needed. Shehnaaz is kind of person who follow her guts more.. And we have seen most of the time she is right in long run and wrong too.. Basically she lacks the art of concealing her emotions and reacts impulsively... And another thing she doesnt sugar coat or articulate her pov well, hence misunderstood by many. We have seen how many people she has let off the hook, coz she is unable to defend or explain her actions.. including Sid sometimes..

And No, No one really was attached to shehnaaz.. people took liking in her coz she seems to be accessible and easy to manipulate but when they discover that its not the case, they develop grudge against her. No one ever accepted and supported her without ulterior motive except sidharth. But i agree for future shehnaaz need to clear with her words.

Bhau is a duffer. Thatman spoke rubbish about her in house and expects her to be in touch.. Their are people who can pretend , sana is not one of them. You think sidharth is in touch with him except by chance meeting in party? But Since shehnaaz is a soft target, its easy to take dig on her than him.

None was well wisher of her in that house, so either she can be in touch with them for the sake of formality or can avoid them, coz either way its fair..

I totally agree with what u r saying ..and as far advice bhau is concerned I said in a post that I never liked him and his game ..he did belittle her ..and shehnaaz was more kind there I feel ...and my thoughts are more for her professional and casual relationships ..I know she has sid backing her and even a professional team but people who are too close to her know how she is but professionally the field which she is in little bit diplomacy is needed which shehnaaz I feel will get with maturity.....on a personal level this quality is good that you are what you are on face and go by your heart ..infact sid understood her this quality but people who are professionally with her or are not that deep friends might be feeling wondering what happened..not everyone in this world will wish good for you and they might be in your professional circle or sometimes even personal because of situations..at that time I feel she may have a difficult time ...

Originally posted by: hav123

I totally agree with what u r saying ..and as far advice bhau is concerned I said in a post that I never liked him and his game ..he did belittle her ..and shehnaaz was more kind there I feel ...and my thoughts are more for her professional and casual relationships ..I know she has sid backing her and even a professional team but people who are too close to her know how she is but professionally the field which she is in little bit diplomacy is needed which shehnaaz I feel will get with maturity.....on a personal level this quality is good that you are what you are on face and go by your heart ..infact sid understood her this quality but people who are professionally with her or are not that deep friends might be feeling wondering what happened..not everyone in this world will wish good for you and they might be in your professional circle or sometimes even personal because of situations..at that time I feel she may have a difficult time ...

Diplomacy is demand of industry indeed..

But I doubt, that i ever want her to be one.. The one quality that connected her with audience was she is unfiltered, raw and real.. Diplomacy is manipulating one's own behaviour and thoughts.. If sana adopts this quality, i wonder what changes it will bring in her..So instead of being forced buddies, better limit personal interactions and focus of professional excellence.. I have seen Superb Professional collaborations, without a hint of personal friendships..That kind of maturity i feel will dawn with time, since she is in mumbai.. The city itself will teach her a lot and above that she has best kind of people around her to learn from..

We have already seen sharp change in her merely in 6 months that too when she was locked in house, imagine what a year or two in outer world could do

In the end Whatever way she choses, her happiness and wellness is foremost thing i wish for in Long run.

Originally posted by: hav123

See bhau iv I don’t know..I made post connecting to vg more ...but frankly speaking I never liked bhau..he was playing double games ...he botched about everyone behind there backs and was sweet on face ...shehnaaz was really sweet to her but I didn’t like the way he called her rakhi Aunty and shamed her jsit because she told him that he can’t sleep so much ..I never liked him ...so as a perosn his opinion doesn’t matter much ..he has a habit of saying such things of anyone points out his negatives ..he did same with sid ...anyways it was in B.B. and if we consider it was a show and let bygones be bygones..shehnaaz would not have done it intentionally..she hardly had time to be I touch with anyone ..and nevertheless she is not in touch of anyone it’s her choice which is completely fine ..she knows fifi and vg are the only people who wish good for her ...she didn’t have that intimate bond with bhau..if bhau feels so she is proud it’s his opinion ..but I’ll be the last perosn to believe she has become proud as she is too simple and down to earth perosn to be like this ..this is one of the reason sid fell for her ..she has no air about herself...

bhau even I don’t like but even after he used all wrong words she was in very good terms with him! So that was my comment and if he said she is proud that’s his choice, like I said he didn’t abuse her in the interview and said she is proud of her popularity and didn’t call, I feel that’s his choice and not a big deal, unlike 3-4 members he didn’t conspire her, so let him feel that way! Simple! It’s his thought! As far as she has air about herself and that’s why she doesn’t talk, I never said but yeah she talks based on her moods and she can hurt people if she feels that they hurt her (they might not have, but if she feels they have) is what I agree too

Originally posted by: jayasharma25

Just to add to what you are saying we all are a sum total of our experiences and over a period of time develop our coping mechanisms. So many times it is mentioned here that Sana does what she feels like,Sana does not take opinions of others etc. I honestly feel that most of the time what she would speak big to just so that people would have a certain image about her. Case on point when she told Himanshi/Rashmi that she can make multiple boyfriends...no where in her past or present actions we saw that she is like that. She took her commitments very seriously. Hence I feel that her coping mechanism is to cut off from people if she is not comfortable. She could not do it in BB house as there was no where to go to...but once outside why would she be in touch with people who belittled her.

Absolutely...

And it has not even been 20 days since she came out from house without msk baggage..In her tight schedule, Bagga,Vikas and even tony themselves came to meet her, hasn't got to spend time with her family and friends,hasn't given single IV and here BB idiots expect her to leave everything and contact them, why? Coz they have been so nice to her? If anyone, i feel it would be vishal and madhurima she would like to meet rather than them.

Originally posted by: Kar_Nan

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Originally posted by: Ashhima3

bhau even I don’t like but even after he used all wrong words she was in very good terms with him! So that was my comment and if he said she is proud that’s his choice, like I said he didn’t abuse her in the interview and said she is proud of her popularity and didn’t call, I feel that’s his choice and not a big deal, unlike 3-4 members he didn’t conspire her, so let him feel that way! Simple! It’s his thought! As far as she has air about herself and that’s why she doesn’t talk, I never said but yeah she talks based on her moods and she can hurt people if she feels that they hurt her (they might not have, but if she feels they have) is what I agree too

It was not an opinion, it was meant to be a dig! When you say these things in front if media, its basically a subtle sugar coated attack at someone's image. bhau is old and mature enough to know that.

And the point here is he has no right to feel that way since he never genuinely was connected to Sana and neither was her well wisher.. That Rakhi aunty thing spoilt things between them.

I for the one feel, her moods are backed by reasons, the point is she choses not to explain or is unable to.

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Sana is an tough nut to crack. If u see it quite.minutely , she was the ultimate loner in the show.

And its cos she is very hard to understand, and is easily misjudged.

Apart from sid who took extreme pains to do phd on her ,other ppl wont bother. And that was another reason why sana was so scared of sid leaving her . And she took extreme steps herself to manao sid. She wld never do that for anyone. Other ppl also got pissed with her in show. But she didnt try much there. Cos he was the only one who knew her inside out.

If u see clealry in show ,yes she was accessible. Ppl used to talk to her. She wld also talk to everyone. But was she on no one's priority list except Sid's.

with others they didn’t have to try as no one was attached to her and the fact remains that she needed people who can give her attention and she was good with Vishal too and inspite of having lot of disagreements about Madhurima’s eviction and even his fighting with Sid she used to like Vishal’s company as he used to give attention! With others she would go spend some time and come back as per her convenience, so why would they come to her or she would manao them? If she wanted to spend time she would talk to anyone who wasn’t in great terms with Sid!

Originally posted by: wendy25

It was not an opinion, it was meant to be a dig! When you say these things in front if media, its basically a subtle sugar coated attack at someone's image. bhau is old and mature enough to know that.

And the point here is he has no right to feel that way since he never genuinely was connected to Sana and neither was her well wisher.. That Rakhi aunty thing spoilt things between them.

I for the one feel, her moods are backed by reasons, the point is she choses not to explain or is unable to.

so what if he takes a dig at her? Everyone has their choice! Don’t they? I disliked Devoleena’s actions after trolling started, but was she wrong first when she just said she didn’t like Sidnaz chemistry? No! It was her opinion and even if it meant to be a dig, things can be ignored, honestly things went haywire only after fans reacted to it!

Same way even if took a dig, it’s his opinion, didn’t Sana in talking terms with everyone in the house? Even after being called Rakhi Sawant by both Rashami and Bhau and what not! Didn’t she go back to them? Why? So, no point making mountain out of molehill! Everyone can have their opinion and because we like the person we feel bad! But if you look at it generally it’s not at all a big deal like now twitter is trying to make or the way it’s being discussed in the thread!

Originally posted by: hav123

My opinion is not based on Mahira paras or rashmi Aarti on a larger frame ....I’m talking more for her personality...there are incidents when she has broken relationship without any explanations and that has hurt people...sid is the only perosn who was able to crack her ..shehnaaz is a mysterious personality..she is unpredictable...you never know which moment what she might feel and act completely differently ..she can definately be shocking ...only sid is the perosn who can understand her motives and can understand what’s going on her mind and her heart and why she does certain things

Few days back I wrote certain things about sana and was called out for that here. And now everyone seems to be discussing the same.

I am watching bb again and although its a done story but it reflected the nature of contestants which holds true even today .

I have two aspects of sana's personality and nature which have me thinking deeply .

1) She has a very very intense obstinate streak in her where she thinks that only her pov is right. And most of the times doesnt even listen to good advice ,not even from sid. That is why sid stopped interfering between her and paras.

As uma said ,she learns the hard way only. MSK is a recent example.

She has always maintained that sidharth mere se ladai karta hai. When fact was he was his softest self with her initially. But was pushed to a point where he just lost control. Salman even commented on this that she doesnt understand that what if sid did the same.

She needs to work on this. She needs to understand and accept that she needs to listen to people who care for her.

2) she lacks consistency of thought. And so its difficult for the other person to understand her. She will have a ugly fight with someone ,you as a freind take a stand for her ,and in next 30 minutes she would be giving hifi to that very person and you would be left high and dry.

She needs to work on this. She needs to give time to every emotion and reaction. She needs to cultivate a consistency of thought and action so that people around her can act accordingly.

Being highly impulsive is not a trait that goes well in a industry where networking plays a major role.

And again I will say this is my analysis of her as a person having observed her in bigboss . Have tried to avoid qouting incidents from bb as examples , but analysis can only be done based on BB13 as that is all that we have and it was a reality show and they were all real in there.

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