Originally posted by: prerna4rishav
I have a question. When do you guys think that RB truly started changing ?
For me, as I always believed, was Prem's death. 💔 The way that impacted him, was the 2nd most turning point after AP's inevitable distance. There was a scene where RB shares his concern with Gupta about tensions increasing between AP post Prem's death. Gupta, knowing RB's past deeds, asks him if RB had any hand in this or if he is happy at heart. And I was shocked to see RB's reaction. I generally avoid watching episodes around Prem1's death and kidnapping, too stressful for me. So this I probably watched 2nd time in 18 yrs. RB shunned Gupta saying this is not a time or thing to joke for him. He was truly concerned for Prerna, that at this point if Anur
ag is also not there, how would Prerna manage.
This was the time he truly started raising above everyone else in love. To know that there is a man in the world, to whom you mean the entire world, that there's a man who always always thinks about YOU first, who always values your emotions, gives importance to what you feel and how you feel, always thinks of whether you are doing just fine or not - what more could someone ask from life ? ❤️ The way RB managed Prerna, a broken mother post Prem's death, it was written all over the book that if there was anyone who deserved Prerna, it was him.
How beautifully described!❤️
Yes, he began to evolve after the growing distance between A and P started to manifest. It happens, you know, that we think we want a certain thing but as soon as we get it we realize this is not what we want but our ego wanted. That's what happened with him. All along he was scheming to separate A and P but when he saw a shattered P, that sight chilled him. He realized that all he wanted was for her to be happy. That's when he began to understand the meaning of 'Love'.
And Prem's death was when the transformation took its peak. There was no going back for him from there. It jolted him out of his egoistic slumber. All he wanted was to comfort his beloved P, to see her settled again with her husband. Her divorce made him really very sad and empty. But even then the desire to make P love him remained😉. He finally let go off that desire post the 8-year leap when he decided to unite P and A.
If you love something let it go,
If it comes back to you it's yours
If it doesn't, it never was.
P came back to RB. She was always his. In fact when RB was just not ready to accept her, she finally gave in to his wish, agar yahi apki marzi hai to yahi sahi. Shayad hamara sath yahin tak tha. Apna khayal rakhiyega. Bye! And he came back to her the moment she let him go.
She also came back to him after death. I am sure that was CVs' idea and the aatma meeting was EK's wish. 😆
Edited by sonnet11 - 6 years ago