Today's AnuJaj scene... A facade - Page 6

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

I know grace. You have been one of the saner posters here. I love reading your posts. Please keep them coming!

Thank you DG for the nice words. I will not stop posting just because my posts are not in line with a fandom's wishes. Prerna said, 'people can hurt you, only as long as they are connected to you'. And i think it is applicable here too. 😆

Originally posted by: Soanz.19

Grace, when you're making a post on the main forum you can't ask people to refrain from opening and commenting on it as long as the replies remain civil. What posts you choose comment or not comment on is completely your choice. Doesn't mean the other person needs to do the same. That's what my understanding is of how the forum works.

I never said not to comment. What i meant is that, if it is disturbing you to the extent that it is affecting your energy level, then better try to ignore such posts. That's it.

It’s okay, guys. We can’t stop someone from expressing their point of view. It’s okay if they do. Refrain from replying to such posts if it bothers you. I don’t mean to offend Bajaj fans, I myself am a Bajju fan♥️. Whatever grace said, that’s her point of view. It’s not a necessity to accept it. Let’s maintain a healthy environment. Again, I’m not trying to blame any one here. All of us have good intentions, but sometimes situation just goes out of control, due to differences in perceptions and outlook.

Originally posted by: grace4317

Reemz.... Relax. Why are you getting so affected about a fictional character?
Fyi, Anurag is not a diety to me. He is only a fictional character whom I like more than Bajaj. So, it is quite normal that all my posts will be pro-Anurag or pro-AnuPre. But that doesn't mean that i will justify his every action. The reason why I am not taking the throwing off the bridge as a serious issue is because I have watched it only in its metaphorical meaning. There is a saying na, the more you fly high the more impactful will be your downfall. The whole bridge scene was a symbolism of it. Anu let Pre ride high in the glory of his love by pampering her & sharing his dil ki baatein and as soon as she reached the state where she felt like she has conquered the world, he pushed her down, crushing all the dreams all at once. Anu can never be spared for this merciless act that has caused a deep scar in Pre and the reason why I am fine if Pre will never trust him ever even after the truth unfolds before her. But the decision should be hers, isn't it.

Having said that, I also understand why Anu had to take this extreme step. Because CVs had already shown us before that, how Pre immediately got calmed down by Anu, after both the times she witnessed AnuLika PDA. Infact, after the second time, she herself was calming her down saying it was Anu's plan. The only reason why she asked Anu to hug her was because, the fear of a possible separation subconsciously got triggered, which she had right back from the time she had started loving him. Otw, Pre had immense trust in Anu. So, to let her hate or forget him forever, Anu had to give her an impactful shock. And to show this impact CVs had to dramatize the whole scene. That's my perception of that whole pushing off scene. Otherwise, if I had to take it in the literal sense, then I will have to believe that the passersby/onlookers of Kolkata who were there at that time it happened, are heartless, because they allowed the person who pushes a lady down the bridge in broad daylight to go scott-free. Any sane crowd would have manhandled him then and there.

Coming to the matter of separating Sneha from her, I only have to say if Pre can ignore her mother's pain of separation for 8long years, who had taken care of her for 20+years, then Pre's pain is nil in front of that. Ok, I agree that she didn't want to reveal her existence all these years for her safety or whatever. But, what about now? Don't bring up the excuse CVs gave. Because, it was as lame as their story writing capability. Above all, since the CVs had made it evident that throughout her pregnancy that Pre least cared about her baby, I will accept what they wanted to show us. Because the way they handled a pregnant Pre was totally ridiculous. So, I am not going to bother about Prerna’s separation from Sneha. I will just believe that Kuki helped Pre to some extent to forget about what happened with Sneha.
And still if you can't accept why I still support Anu, then I would request you to please agree to disagree. And kindly realise that how you are letting a fictional character affect your energy.
Have a nice day.

Grace it would be good if your line of reasoning stays consistent throughout because at the moment it is not. You are conveniently shifting from one topic to the other , comparing pre’s pain to her her mother’s pain just to prove your point. If you want people to participate in a healthy discussion, then please learn to accept the flaws of the character you adore and learn to listen to the view points of others. At the moment it feels as it you are just making the threads to instigate the Bajaj fans which in reality may not be true at all.

Originally posted by: grace4317

Bold - These words of Bajaj plus some other hints did make me doubt that Bajaj was using Pre as a pawn to execute his revenge against the Basus. But his body language when he enters BB and throughout while being there, gave a different vibe. His face expression when Komo was mocking & obsessing over Anurag made be think like Bajaj was having a soft corner for Anu. Like he didn't like Komo mocking AnuPre's love. The only thing he did was, he became selfish and made use of the first opportunity Anu went weak to get Prerna on his side. And Anu too knows it. That is why Anu was authoritative in his tone. Anu was sounding like, 'I knew Pre was with you and I was fine with that because she was safe with you; then why did you had to come back to Kolkata'. Club this conversation with Anu's first reaction when Bajaj reminds Anu of his promise to return, and try deciphering their body language & convo. You will understand what i meant.

The anujaj convo was different... may be purposely kept like that...but Anu was Defo talking as if bajaj broke some deal or promise....n it was more like questioning him how did he let prerna come back being aware of the danger...i still see that possessive Anu who can do anything for prerna when he was talking to bajaj and had the same authorative tone woth Bajaj...

Originally posted by: grace4317

I never said not to comment. What i meant is that, if it is disturbing you to the extent that it is affecting your energy level, then better try to ignore such posts. That's it.

Thanks for clarifying. I don't think anyone on this thread said that their energy level is draining or they're disturbed by your posts. So the comments will come and discussion should be encouraged until it's civil👍🏼

Originally posted by: pallawi1803

I know Grace n totally agree with ur interpretation of bajkom convo...but with anu it is different..he was never shocked seeing bajaj or prerna or them together in bb... knowing parth I know he can't do that mistake...he was surprised to find that prerna actually won the auction against him but again not as confused like kom n MoNi....

The anujaj convo was different... may be purposely kept like that...but Anu was Defo talking as if bajaj broke some deal or promise....n it was more like questioning him how did he let prerna come back being aware of the danger...i still see that possessive Anu who can do anything for prerna when he was talking to bajaj and had the same authorative tone woth Bajaj...

Pallu... Maybe you are right. But I would wait for more AnuJaj scenes to decide about the mystery around them.

Originally posted by: pallawi1803

I know Grace n totally agree with ur interpretation of bajkom convo...but with anu it is different..he was never shocked seeing bajaj or prerna or them together in bb... knowing parth I know he can't do that mistake...he was surprised to find that prerna actually won the auction against him but again not as confused like kom n MoNi....

The anujaj convo was different... may be purposely kept like that...but Anu was Defo talking as if bajaj broke some deal or promise....n it was more like questioning him how did he let prerna come back being aware of the danger...i still see that possessive Anu who can do anything for prerna when he was talking to bajaj and had the same authorative tone woth Bajaj...

wahi per hum log

apart from that anus authoritative voice why pre is here

Originally posted by: grace4317

Coming to the matter of separating Sneha from her, I only have to say if Pre can ignore her mother's pain of separation for 8long years, who had taken care of her for 20+years, then Pre's pain is nil in front of that. Ok, I agree that she didn't want to reveal her existence all these years for her safety or whatever. But, what about now? Don't bring up the excuse CVs gave. Because, it was as lame as their story writing capability. Above all, since the CVs had made it evident that throughout her pregnancy that Pre least cared about her baby, I will accept what they wanted to show us. Because the way they handled a pregnant Pre was totally ridiculous. So, I am not going to bother about Prerna’s separation from Sneha. I will just believe that Kuki helped Pre to some extent to forget about what happened with Sneha.
And still if you can't accept why I still support Anu, then I would request you to please agree to disagree. And kindly realise that how you are letting a fictional character affect your energy.
Have a nice day.

Prerna not valuing Veena's love, Prerna being careless about her baby during her entire pregnancy, yada yada yada, one thing we all have to understand is marking the territory of how much a guy can only do to you....... Irrespective of Veena's equation with Prerna or Prerna's attitude during her pregnancy, Anurag or as a matter of fact, NO ONE ON THE EARTH gets to play GOD to her, to her life. I guess the main point itself is diluted isn't it ? This is 2020 and Anurag trying to decide on his lover/wife's life is disgusting.

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Prerna not valuing Veena's love, Prerna being careless about her baby during her entire pregnancy, yada yada yada, one thing we all have to understand is marking the territory of how much a guy can only do to you....... Irrespective of Veena's equation with Prerna or Prerna's attitude during her pregnancy, Anurag or as a matter of fact, NO ONE ON THE EARTH gets to play GOD to her, to her life. I guess the main point itself is diluted isn't it ? This is 2020 and Anurag trying to decide on his lover/wife's life is disgusting.

Anu wronging Pre as a lover >>>>>>> Anu separating Sneha from Pre. Atleast Sneha is alive and Anu can hand over her to Pre in future. Also, with the way Pre had always kept Anu as her first priority, the scar Anu made within Pre as a lover, is very deep that Pre will be scared to trust anyone with her deep emotions. So, to me Pre's pain as a lover connects her more to me than her pain as a mother. But that is my way of thinking. Not necessary that everyone should agree to it.