Sacha pyar or not

I just really don't understand people, seriously this is just a serial with a bunch of characters even if it is protagonist, people are flawed even the most favorite characters of ours have some flaws, In no world, we are going to find the perfect Prince charming who would also be charming by character or Queen Charming the sati sawitris that are usually portrayed in dramas.

If the writers have made up their minds that story is about Anurag and Prerna and they have to end up together after God knows how many kasautis then they are going to end up together and for that cause this plot is going to be predictable as hell

Prerna: Anurag tumne mujhe pehle kyun nahi bataya kyun aath saal akele ye dard saha…

Anurag: ye sab mene tumhare liye kiya prerna tumhe bachane ke liye…

Prerna: mujhe maaf kardo Anurag mene tumhe galat samjha, ab hum mil ke komolika ko haraen gey and blah blah blah….

The writers will justify anything his throwing her off the bridge separating the daughter and everything and, that’s not even the problem because half of the Ekta’s serials are full load of this crap what is scary is people taking it to heart and justifying it.

No!!!!!! In the world where already half of the women are been made a fool in the name of love, we can’t go around chanting slogans like “Sacha Pyar lit, self-respect shit…” One should not be okay with it.

I’m not supporting Bajaj because he isn’t the saint either what I want in the show is to build that damn character of a woman and show that she can be stronger much bolder and can handle her life without these men as a necessity for her character to exist.

Actors playing a flawed character is not the real problem because this world is full of people with flaws even Manik character was flawed but his character was loved because of being relatable and he redeemed (okay he didn’t go to the length Anurag's character went to make the woman he love-hate him but you get the point) what is wrong is to give the message to the society especially woman to forgive in the name of love no matter what it is because in the end “Sacha Pyar infinite hai..”

Originally posted by: Diya121

I just really don't understand people, seriously this is just a serial with a bunch of characters even if it is protagonist, people are flawed even the most favorite characters of ours have some flaws, In no world, we are going to find the perfect Prince charming who would also be charming by character or Queen Charming the sati sawitris that are usually portrayed in dramas.

If the writers have made up their minds that story is about Anurag and Prerna and they have to end up together after God knows how many kasautis then they are going to end up together and for that cause this plot is going to be predictable as hell

Prerna: Anurag tumne mujhe pehle kyun nahi bataya kyun aath saal akele ye dard saha…

Anurag: ye sab mene tumhare liye kiya prerna tumhe bachane ke liye…

Prerna: mujhe maaf kardo Anurag mene tumhe galat samjha, ab hum mil ke komolika ko haraen gey and blah blah blah….

The writers will justify anything his throwing her off the bridge separating the daughter and everything and, that’s not even the problem because half of the Ekta’s serials are full load of this crap what is scary is people taking it to heart and justifying it.

No!!!!!! In the world where already half of the women are been made a fool in the love of love, we can’t go around chanting slogans like “Sacha Pyar lit, self-respect shit…” One should not be okay with it.

I’m not supporting Bajaj because he isn’t the saint either what I want in the show is to build that damn character of a woman and show that she can be stronger much bolder and can handle her life without these men as a necessity for her character to exist.

Actors playing a flawed character is not the real problem because this world is full of people with flaws even Manik character was flawed but his character was loved because of being relatable and he redeemed (okay he didn’t go to the length Anurag's character went to make the woman he love-hate him but you get the point) what is wrong is to give the message to the society especially woman to forgive in the name of love no matter what it is because in the end “Sacha Pyar infinite hai..”

Also not even anurag his mother hates her to. After knowing about komolika after 8 years she still hates prerna more and prerna did nothing to her. Mohini blackmailed prerna to marry her brother, abused her when she came to take revenge, put her mom in jail. Anurag insulted her, throws her off a bridge and robbed her of her daughter life and all should be forgiven in the name of love? She should return to him because they have a divine connection? Really lol It's even more sad to see some defending the male lead actions when he was plain wrong.

Originally posted by: durga33

I agree. This show gives a wrong message that because of love and soulmate it's ok to forgive everything the person who you loved out you through. In many real life case scenarios I see many woman like that and it doesn't end up well. After reality hits them tough then they get better. But that's what people are expecting from this prerna revenge track. That despite everything prerna shouldn't forgive anurag. Whether he was helpless or not. Because he put her through the burner and it enables him to believe even more he can do whatever he wants to her and she will forgive him and come back to him.

I know this that viewers are distributed in groups supporting and non supporting one's but my issue with this drama is even bigger the whole thornbird concept and whole taking decision for someone else, this is not right and one shouldn't justify this in the name of love even if shown in drama and the same thing is happening to someone in reality "You shouldn't be okay with it..." it is your freaking life you should be concerned with the decisions... it's like parents fixing up a marriage without even asking "Beta ye tumhari bhalai ke like hai..." just the role of parents is changed with that of partner "jo mene kiya tumhari bhalai ke lie tha..." 😐

I know right!! Just because they have to show these living for each other, everything and anything will be justify..

One of the soulmate publicly humiliated the other one in the name of sacrifice, caused her mental trauma and distress.. and how did they end that track? Not even I am

sorry for everything I put you through.. I know actions speaks louder than words but still his actions showed absolutely no guilt at all..

Prerna is a character full with flawed.. love it because she isnt some saint Tulsi, Parvati or Ishita who could do no wrong.. but then Bajaj was given a pre mature exit just to unite the soulmate for 1 day..

And then we have this track where the MIL is being whitewashed every single secs.. cant they keep him normal?

Originally posted by: Nailah_EjFian

I know right!! Just because they have to show these living for each other, everything and anything will be justify..

One of the soulmate publicly humiliated the other one in the name of sacrifice, caused her mental trauma and distress.. and how did they end that track? Not even I am

sorry for everything I put you through.. I know actions speaks louder than words but still his actions showed absolutely no guilt at all..

Prerna is a character full with flawed.. love it because she isnt some saint Tulsi, Parvati or Ishita who could do no wrong.. but then Bajaj was given a pre mature exit just to unite the soulmate for 1 day..

And then we have this track where the MIL is being whitewashed every single secs.. cant they keep him normal?

I don't give a dime about her ending up with Anurag and Bajaj, I will be cheering for her if she ended up alone to preserve her self-respect and dignity seriously I don't know how high the writers of this show are cause they change tracks faster than chamaeleon changes color and why in the world Mohini basu wears so much of gold, basus can literally buy a whole new basu badi after selling that gold.

One thing we have to remember.. this is Ekta's serial. And therefore watch it with a bag full of salt...😆

However, it is appalling to see the level of patriarchical entitlement that is embedded in the ML. And the FL according to me, may even forgive him for it.

Pulling, pushing, manhandling seems to be the only way to behave. Surprisingly his father is an extremely gentle man.

It is because Prerna is so pliant and low on self esteem that he has been getting away.

Why, even with komolika, he hates her but when he wants to make a point, he always cups her face, he touches her in some way or the other. I noticed that yest. I'm not too interested in analysing him so I didn't care to mention it!

As for me, my dislike for the ML got cemented when he sweet talked Prerna into agreeing for the engagement even after it got public that her mother was sent to jail because of his mother.

Dunno sacha pyar.

Yes

Qaatilana pyar😆

🤚 Bas!🤚Please don't insult soullove like this 😡

This is a very rare type of love. Where the more self respect is taken away from the FL,the more the love 😻 The more the ML does khule aam beizatti of the FL the more the love 😿

According to NASA,this kinda love is rarer than Haley's comet cause it never shows up 😇🤜🤛

And the UN has declared it the best beizatti in the name of love in 2020 ☺️👏🙌

So please try to understand and don't question it 🤠

Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

🤚 Bas!🤚Please don't insult soullove like this 😡

This is a very rare type of love. Where the more self respect is taken away from the FL,the more the love 😻 The more the ML does khule aam beizatti of the FL the more the love 😿

According to NASA,this kinda love is rarer than Haley's comet cause it never shows up 😇🤜🤛

And the UN has declared it the best beizatti in the name of love in 2020 ☺️👏🙌

So please try to understand and don't question it 🤠

🤣