SidNaaz Discussion Thread 31: Maine Title Jeeta & Tune Trophy🤪 - Page 43

Originally posted by: greeny123

Kon jeeta contest

kal 6pm pr khatam hoga contest

I rechecked promo against, even though Asim is talking to her, she is telling Sid only to stay away from her! She is telling if I don’t stay with you, then flip questions won’t be raised at all

Asim is just trying to be a support for her there

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/bigg-boss-13/5150335/the-jab-we-met-saga-on-bb-sid-sana-and-paras

you want us to comment? 😄

Even though I m not worried if they will patch up or not, which I m sure they will, somewhere I m very unhappy that Sana always blames Sid for everything! Here Sid was actually hurt when he got to know things like what she spoke to Rashami or with Asim! He was accused of using friends and it was not a small thing

But PC’s questions even though were harsh but it wasn’t something about what she didn’t do! What goes around comes around! So again blaming Sid you are trying to show me negative, I m a bar girl and agreeing to what Rashami says and if you don’t shut them you are again proving what questions thrown at you were right

She is like this or that, but she ends up hurting Sid very badly and it’s very disappointing

Originally posted by: CatcherInTheRye

vahi to bol raha hoon

30 hrs voting ka logic kya hai?

no idea! Maybe to keep the hype

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Thankyou for new thread, Jyo. Sidnaaz for the win always 🥳

Catcher, this for you- carryover from the previous thread.

Disclaimer: This is not a post against Siddharth. It is loud thinking and looking at the root cause of issues. Other Sid fans may kindly skip this post if you are very sensitive. Thanks.

Sid’s hurt sure bothers her, Catcher. The difference is that when Sana is hurt, she cries and he comes to her to heal her at whatever point if he does and she immediately relents and forgives and moves on. However when he is hurt, it turns into anger and he says unsavory words and pushes her off. All the manaoing she has been doing through the entire length of these months- what was that? Like seriously, Catcher? Tending to his hurt only right? Her way of healing him is saying she loves him from the rooftops and to make him feel secure aise. It’s not just a selfish exercise. She feels it helps coz if he told her it would help her too. We know how good he feels each time she reinforces that she loves him- shows on his face. Her way of helping him heal is also all these head massages and body massages- the tending touch, the hugs and kisses. Mamma Mia! Which girl does all this these days?! If we are talking of action, then give credit to that too, all of which is also action! Again, for her talking to him is venting and destressing. She said it so clearly yesterday that he is her khushi. We know it is the same for him. Her being around matters to him even if just lying down on the bed. But he doesn’t talk about his past for various reasons and that has confused her too several times and she has voiced it too. Sid smokes it out.

In life later, beyond the game, he will have to spell out and communicate that he is hurt and why in proper words like she does. It is easy to understand her coz she keeps saying why exactly she is hurt and that is one of the reasons he loves her- she is transparent and not that tough to figure out. He rarely says what exactly hurts coz of cameras perhaps or his reserved attitude or embarrassment at his own vulnerability (like when she mentions sweetheart, babe etc we understand her saying golu molu to others hurts him too perhaps. Similarly with the pappiyan jhappiyan conversation) and that has created this entire imbalanced scenario and then he worsens the situation via needless words and/or flirting or something else that hurts her and instead of addressing the issues straight on, the layers pile one upon the other.

Yes, he has mentioned sitting with Asim and Rashmi (and Vishal and Bagga and.... )hurts, but she has also had no other other way to survive in the game plus it is only now that Sid has begun keeping a certain distance from PaHira and Aarti and Zariwala etc. She can’t play the game like doormat Aarti who survives via nepotistic connections alone and not by skill. Sana has been a survivor on her own might, be it her skill sets or rawness or her crow talk or her socializing or her entertainment tactics or her professions of love.

I am talking of how it’s been in the past and not the present. Things are surely changing between them and it’s been tiny steps forward. Good steps relationship wise as unsavory they may be for viewers at time. The friction and fighting is essential to understand and move forward. But don’t compare a 26 year old with abandonment issues to a 39 year old with trust issues. One may be a child woman and the other a man child, but unless both of them communicate equally as they will learn to do over time, they will hit several roadblocks.

Sana is no Mother Teresa or Florence Nightingale. But given all circumstances, she has been one of the most adaptable and large hearted girls I have come across in modern times. Like Aarti said Sid is not easy to live with (Sana too may not be easy to live with, but I differ on that). Any other urban girl, and they’d have quit trying to break his walls and run the other end with the abusive language he flings when upset. But she gets the reasons for his hurt and hence doesn’t run and she’s in love and fans of Sana have learnt to love Siddharth through her eyes. If she hadn’t been there to soften his image and help us see the real him, it would have been everybody’s loss. He would have carried the khadoos image throughout.

So, let’s not make it sound like he is always the giver just coz you guys haven’t come across real men perhaps- I don’t know if that is the case. I live in a family where my late grandfathers were and my father, husband and son are among the most sensitive role models of men ever- so I have benchmarks for what male giving is all about. Just because we live in a patriarchal society doesn’t mean we see things only from the male point of view. Siddharth’s own mother mentioned the golden cage. Its several many implications should be adequate to lend you a sense of how different perspectives run.

And before people throw comments at me saying why am I even thinking of Sid for Sana if he is so bad etc, don’t get defensive. I am not even saying he is bad. He has major flaws just like Sana has. I am just going to the root of the issue at hand here, which is lack of proper communication amongst a couple. His hurt is just as equal as hers- no two ways about that and just coz Sana’s approach to everything is different doesn’t make her insensitive. Given the kind of mutual understanding and chemistry they have despite all odds and all personal inhibitions and limitations inside the house, the potential for Sidnaaz to succeed in life is huge and it’s lifelong learning for them too as for any couple.

You can still feel hurt since you stan Siddharth, Catcher, and take on his moods and worries upon yourself. But I had to say more than my two cents on this. Peace.

Thank you thank you thank you Uma. You have put Sana's side of things in such a clear way. It was emotionally tiring to hear from media and then the superman angle for Sid. They both have done a lot for each other and to each other also.

I am getting a feel that these things are not going to stop in BB. We will hear some of it in years to come. Though we won't see it on daily basis.

https://twitter.com/ColorsTV/status/1225041496811831296?s=19

👸🤴 bus inhi ki pic post kro trp lo wur inhi ko emotional roller coaster pe rakho

😂

Great analysis Jyoti.

I love this thread and people here. ❤️

As per TellyChakkar three is task after a day of PC and all women have to get ready and men will do photo shoot

Sid will photo shoot Arti and Sana

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

you want us to comment? 😄

Even though I m not worried if they will patch up or not, which I m sure they will, somewhere I m very unhappy that Sana always blames Sid for everything! Here Sid was actually hurt when he got to know things like what she spoke to Rashami or with Asim! He was accused of using friends and it was not a small thing

But PC’s questions even though were harsh but it wasn’t something about what she didn’t do! What goes around comes around! So again blaming Sid you are trying to show me negative, I m a bar girl and agreeing to what Rashami says and if you don’t shut them you are again proving what questions thrown at you were right

She is like this or that, but she ends up hurting Sid very badly and it’s very disappointing

Yes please . I would want all sidnaaz fans to comment .

And ash lets leave the game alone . I think even sidnaaz are in that zone , where they dont let the game dynamics interfere in their equation .

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

Yes please . I would want all sidnaaz fans to comment .

And ash lets leave the game alone . I think even sidnaaz are in that zone , where they dont let the game dynamics interfere in their equation .

I m not referring to game here, but about the behaviour! Sid let’s game aside actually when it’s her, but she doesn’t actually and I m not saying she is playing, but she isn’t able to keep it separate and it’s not her fault! But even after all this she didn’t realise that she hurt him instead she got hurt and reason is Sid