Is Asim not a loyal friend? He has ego issues? - Page 3

Originally posted by: lifeiscool

Yes they were on talking terms back then and frnds. Rashmi ne bhi side li h i haven't denied that. But ppl here are denying all that asim did for rashmi and saying it was all to fight with shukla. I mean what the fuk. Did we ever say she was 'bitching' about asim when earlier she was listening to arti saying all bad things about asim. We were disappointed at that time but didn't call it 'bitching' but suddenly because rashmi is so abla naari,innocent bachi that even when anyone listens to anything bad about her behind her back then that person is said to be 'bitching'. What double standards. Did you forget it was the same asim who revealed to rashmi about what shefali had said about her. Did she ever do this all time? Instead she was just listening and shukla ,aarti were more important to her at that time.

Yes ,we've appreciated her when she defended asim in elite club task . But whenever we used to say that rashmi has become a good speaker after encouragement from asim,then you ppl only used to question that how can we say that about her . DOUBLE STANDARDS.

Listening and actively saying things are different things too... Kal bhi arti and sana ne bohot bola she had all the reason to "bitch" About him but did she? Nope. Because she didn't wanted to. Neither then nor now. "Sometimes no answer is best answer"

Abla nari nahi hai wo agar lagti ho kal ek episode fir se dekh lo... Usko jab bolna hota hai bolti hai. Yes I appreciated him on sefali fiasco so abhi I can say he is wrong in himanshi fiasco jaha wrong hai to hai... Jaise aap ke liye rashmi kuch na bol ke bhi galat ho sakti hai to mere liye asim bolke galat kyu nahi ho sakta? Double standard use kehte hai.

Press task ke liye aapne hi bola na ke rashmi has experience of dealing with media and answering well so she was always a good orator otherwise itne saal se kam nahi kar rahi hoti in acting field. Sabse zyada sallu ke samne kiske statement badalte hai and sallu kisko bolta ha mana mat karo bola hai tumne followed by sorry ye bhi sab ko pata hai.

Originally posted by: Bluehue

negative dikha to negative bolenge... And not it's not because one dialogue it's about how he followed up after... Agar aisa tha to rashmi ko video dikhaya tab kyu nahi bola? Why did he shouted on his friend who was in clear state of shock to justify a non existenting stupid point ke aap arhan ki bat ki to humne bhi ki?

Why did he come in between himanshi and rashmi when formar was trying to apologize? Why didn't he stopped both of them told him that they are having conversation and let them talk? And went to her parents when it was not his issue, conversation or fight?

What we were shown were few minutes of episode. But what happened between the clip shown and the outside drama that also we should take into consideration. First of all devo speaking from Rashmi's side and all the allegations put on himanshi from all quarters made her nervous so asim was afraid and became overprotective about her. Also Rashmi again and again blamed himanshi for discussing this topic which maybe we were not shown and which led to why asim had to interrupt afterwards as he thought himanshi would not be able to handle this. Asim became restless ,, I agree which looks wrong but we should take his mental state into consideration that time . His intention was neither backbiting nor hurting Rashmi's sentiments. Only his way of calming the situation was not right . And his over possessiveness for himanshi is hard for people to digest here. When Devo was in the house Rashmi was same way protective for her and vice versa. So why can't asim have his share of other connections as well.

The only wrong that Asim did was he kept shouting atRashmi..n telling Himanshi “Why are u appologising” when he too should have said sorry.Rashmi was very hurt yet he was all busy in giving water to Himanshi n taking a stand for her but dint even try to mend ways.It all human..right but making a mockery of ur friendship in front of the whole world I mean they were arguing in the living area..Asim started shouting then n there only.Again it happens it’s ok he was so badly bashed by Salman I und.his frustration.But Atleast afterwards he should have talked to her n apologised.

Rashmi’s not saying anything to Arti or Sana is in itself a big deal..otherwise u tend to get all emotional in such situations when someone who is so dear to you does something like dis.She dint react to their instigation.

Originally posted by: AlishaRocks

What we were shown were few minutes of episode. But what happened between the clip shown and the outside drama that also we should take into consideration. First of all devo speaking from Rashmi's side and all the allegations put on himanshi from all quarters made her nervous so asim was afraid and became overprotective about her. Also Rashmi again and again blamed himanshi for discussing this topic which maybe we were not shown and which led to why asim had to interrupt afterwards as he thought himanshi would not be able to handle this. Asim became restless ,, I agree which looks wrong but we should take his mental state into consideration that time . His intention was neither backbiting nor hurting Rashmi's sentiments. Only his way of calming the situation was not right . And his over possessiveness for himanshi is hard for people to digest here. When Devo was in the house Rashmi was same way protective for her and vice versa. So why can't asim have his share of other connections as well.

She DID talk About her personal life behind her back. She was the one WRONG to rashmi bolegi hi na and more than himanshi she was mad about arhan going behind her back and crying in front of himanshi. Allegations himnshi pe aaye kyu ki wo thi culprit... Devo kya each and every person and thier connection and sallu knew ke kaun galat tha isme... Even himanshi knew and so she went to apologize to rashmi waha aake bhi he had to blame rashmi and not let them talk like BOTH of them wanted to and said multiple time ke bat karne do but he could not take step back.

I don't give a shit about what he does or does not do for himanshi as long as no 3rd party is involved. Protect kare possessive rahe... I don't care and no rashmi didn't blame anyone for devo's mistakes.

Originally posted by: Guneet80

He's 26 most of you say.

I gave rashmi a pass at this only. Because Asim is given a pass at everything.

He's under himanshi's influence

Pyaar mein hai. 26 y/o . Bashed (as if he's the only one)

Bullied ( not the only one)

channel bias(against rashmi too)

Chalo main Ek galti maaf karun uski. How many times?!!?!?!?

I could've forgiven him for bitching IF he apologized. We didn't see him doing it.

Chalo o would give him the benefit of doubt and say we don't see all 24 hours.

But what about how he hounded rashmi?

How can we give him a pass at this?

It was absolutely WRONG.

No excuses.

Agar you are using pyaar mein wala excuse for asim toh why are you questioning RD over defending arhaan. Wasn't she too in love?!!?!?!?

Why can't the same rules apply to rashmi which apply to Asim?!?!?!?!?

Why should we give him a pass always?!?!?!!?!

I didn't see him smile when Sallu bashed HK. In fact he even tried to talk to salman on her behalf.

Why did he ghuso in between rashmi and himanshi when they were sorting it out?

Who is he to come in between? It wasn't about him. Why did he come in between trying to talk on the behalf of himanshi?

Wasn't she defending herself all well????????

HK ke Saath he too overdid. It's a fact.

I dont think he should've hounded her like that specially when rashmi got to know what that arhaan said to himanshi.

Aur defend karne ki baat Ho Rahi hai toh tell me why Asim didn't defend rashmi when HK was sympathizing with arhaan and making rashmi look like a tyrant who doesn't value he BF "taking stands for her "?!?!?!?

Very well said!👏

Asim ka pyaar pyaar hai but Rashami ka pyaar dikhawa hai...waah waah!!!

Originally posted by: Bluehue

talking terms and friends are two different things.

Listening and actively saying things are different things too... Kal bhi arti and sana ne bohot bola she had all the reason to "bitch" About him but did she? Nope. Because she didn't wanted to. Neither then nor now. "Sometimes no answer is best answer"

Abla nari nahi hai wo agar lagti ho kal ek episode fir se dekh lo... Usko jab bolna hota hai bolti hai. Yes I appreciated him on sefali fiasco so abhi I can say he is wrong in himanshi fiasco jaha wrong hai to hai... Jaise aap ke liye rashmi kuch na bol ke bhi galat ho sakti hai to mere liye asim bolke galat kyu nahi ho sakta? Double standard use kehte hai.

Press task ke liye aapne hi bola na ke rashmi has experience of dealing with media and answering well so she was always a good orator otherwise itne saal se kam nahi kar rahi hoti in acting field. Sabse zyada sallu ke samne kiske statement badalte hai and sallu kisko bolta ha mana mat karo bola hai tumne followed by sorry ye bhi sab ko pata hai.

press task ki to baat boli he nhi maine. You can see any thread, i haven't commented on that. I've just said that sana and asim were the most targetted jo mujhe lga.

Aur double standards wo hote h jo ek ko bole 'bitching ' kr rha h aur dusre ko bole'innocent,bevakoof ' hai. I didn't blame her earlier too when she was listening to asim bitching about asim usi tarah se ab asim bhi mere liye galat nhi h. SO NO, THIS IS NOT DOUBLE STANDARDS as i 've always treated them equally earlier but double standards of ppl here have made me so anti-her.

Sallu ko frnd h uska , nhi na. Jaise salman sir k samne fumble kr skti h waise he asim bhi kr skta h . Rashmi knows sallu personally too so she's MORE comfortable but not asim.

Frnd k samne statements change krne me jispr sara blame uspr aa jae aur sallu k samne fumble krna is two different things. As frnds ,they should be comfortable in talking to each other , hence she should have been truthful at that time.

Anyways , it was nice talking to you but would've been better had you known the meaning of 'DOUBLE STANDARDS'.

No reply for my side henceforth so I'll happily disagree with you that he was 'bitching' and that he went on her 'father' which even if he did wasn't for abusing or derogatory like 'abba ki naukar' and i'd like you to see that episode again as they were frnds before that and used to sit in garden area talking with each other.

Originally posted by: shiiny

Very well said!👏

Asim ka pyaar pyaar hai but Rashami ka pyaar dikhawa hai...waah waah!!!

Double standards khul ke bahar aa rahe hain ab.

Originally posted by: lifeiscool

press task ki to baat boli he nhi maine. You can see any thread, i haven't commented on that. I've just said that sana and asim were the most targetted jo mujhe lga.

Aur double standards wo hote h jo ek ko bole 'bitching ' kr rha h aur dusre ko bole'innocent,bevakoof ' hai. I didn't blame her earlier too when she was listening to asim bitching about asim usi tarah se ab asim bhi mere liye galat nhi h. SO NO, THIS IS NOT DOUBLE STANDARDS as i 've always treated them equally earlier but double standards of ppl here have made me so anti-her.

Sallu ko frnd h uska , nhi na. Jaise salman sir k samne fumble kr skti h waise he asim bhi kr skta h . Rashmi knows sallu personally too so she's MORE comfortable but not asim.

Frnd k samne statements change krne me jispr sara blame uspr aa jae aur sallu k samne fumble krna is two different things. As frnds ,they should be comfortable in talking to each other , hence she should have been truthful at that time.

Anyways , it was nice talking to you but would've been better had you known the meaning of 'DOUBLE STANDARDS'.

No reply for my side henceforth so I'll happily disagree with you that he was 'bitching' and that he went on her 'father' which even if he did wasn't for abusing or derogatory like 'abba ki naukar' and i'd like you to see that episode again as they were frnds before that and used to sit in garden area talking with each other.

completely agree to it... i was rooting for asim n i used to think it will b asim who will win at the end but now i really doubt...his image has come down a lot after last wkw..its not coz of his outside lovestory or whatever it is...but his attitude towards rashmi...

Im not forgetting that both stood with others but still he was wrong in bitching about rashmi with himanshi...i was expecting him to support rashmi n tell himanshi that she is wrong...but infact he yelled at rashmi too...

He turned out to b very very selfish n self centered person..

People might say that he is madly in love but still they should be able to see who is wrong n who is right...rashmi is his v good friend n he has soend a lot if time with her..it was really wrong from asim part to behave like that..

Originally posted by: Guneet80

He's 26 most of you say.

I gave rashmi a pass at this only. Because Asim is given a pass at everything.

He's under himanshi's influence

Pyaar mein hai. 26 y/o . Bashed (as if he's the only one)

Bullied ( not the only one)

channel bias(against rashmi too)

Chalo main Ek galti maaf karun uski. How many times?!!?!?!?

I could've forgiven him for bitching IF he apologized. We didn't see him doing it.

Chalo o would give him the benefit of doubt and say we don't see all 24 hours.

But what about how he hounded rashmi?

How can we give him a pass at this?

It was absolutely WRONG.

No excuses.

Agar you are using pyaar mein wala excuse for asim toh why are you questioning RD over defending arhaan. Wasn't she too in love?!!?!?!?

Why can't the same rules apply to rashmi which apply to Asim?!?!?!?!?

Why should we give him a pass always?!?!?!!?!

I didn't see him smile when Sallu bashed HK. In fact he even tried to talk to salman on her behalf.

Why did he ghuso in between rashmi and himanshi when they were sorting it out?

Who is he to come in between? It wasn't about him. Why did he come in between trying to talk on the behalf of himanshi?

Wasn't she defending herself all well????????

HK ke Saath he too overdid. It's a fact.

I dont think he should've hounded her like that specially when rashmi got to know what that arhaan said to himanshi.

Aur defend karne ki baat Ho Rahi hai toh tell me why Asim didn't defend rashmi when HK was sympathizing with arhaan and making rashmi look like a tyrant who doesn't value he BF "taking stands for her "?!?!?!?

Because of single fact that Rashami is known face and Asim is unknown 🤪 Asim needs more sympathy , Rashami deserves none.

I don't understand how can we give him free pass because he's 26

If he's mature enough to sign BB contract he must have guts to take what it needs to be BB contestant.

At 26 people even shoulder responsibilities of whole family he can't handle 2-3 friendships?

Behaving as teen , fallen first time in love! 🤢

I will give him free pass if was apologetic but he has no realisation infact.

Defend Rashami 🤪 he even judged her relationship VO Nahi Karna chaiye , vohi Kar Rahi hai who's he to decide what should she do or not ? Should she talk to Sid or not ? Have feelings for someone else or not ?

Because he's the same 'matured' guy apologizing to SS , after he abused him so badly and didn't even say sorry.

Or same guy going around Hugging and kissing a girl who was busy flaunting her engagement ring.

And even Rashami was trying to clear it out and said to HK don't get in between I will clear things with Arhaan on personal level face 2 face , this brat was like " yes yes pls do it 😡" arrogantly as if Rd is interested Discussing Ak with HK.

Itni Chinta hai saale / bhai Sahab ki toh adopt Karle usse Waise ab Rd ne Breakup Kar liya

Did he not feel bad for his 'friend' who is crying? He was busy pushing her under the bus to prove his liala innocent.

But no respect for 'friend' 's personal life?

No emotions for her ?

So crazy in love with 2-day old gf' that you can't see past her and behave so badly with Rashami who has been constantly with him for more than 2 months?

Pyaar kya sirf hk se hai , Rashami se nhi?