Rhea-Shaheer|MishBir|AT: 69| - Page 21

Originally posted by: Onyourface

It will happen when the show is about to end 😆

haha ohh so there is actual chances of this happening 🤣

Originally posted by: meen123

sync ki aisi taisi ho gayi Yaari miss you too

It's ok..I understand..sleep schedule should be correct yaar

Meen miss you too three free 😆🤗

today i'm here for atleast 1/2 hr we can chat alot 😆🤗

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Meen miss you too three free 😆🤗

today i'm here for atleast 1/2 hr we can chat alot 😆🤗

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Yay🥳🥳

Originally posted by: meen123

Arey AJ ke episode me ladka bakayada sleeping beauty ki Tarah pada tha white me...but Chaaaa mishti bhaagi b uski or prince ki Tarah, bas true loves kiss reh gayi

🤣🤣 everyone's worry from morning kiss miss n miss kiss🤣

leave it maybe we can get it in hospital 😉

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

A very meaningful post/parallel👍🏼

https://twitter.com/jeelezaraa/status/1222392124345208832

To all of us wondering what the significance of the shower scene was...here is a small answer🤗

This clearly shows Mishti's childhood wounds are no where near to being healed. She is STILL feeling obliged to care and obey for Mah family, as a return of favour for adopting her.

These two quotes from Abir sum up perfectly Mishti now:

"“iss ladki ke zakhm itni jaldi nahi bharenge”

"Usko pyar aur ehsaan ke farak samaj nahi aayi hai"

- Abir's pyar and presence is the only healing treatment for Mishti and her deep deep childhood wounds. Like Mishti has repeatedly said, Abir with his pyar, has taught her regain faith and trust in pyar and helped Mishti love herself and find her own strength to fight for her right.

-Even when mishbir we're together, we saw Mishti's insecurity and childhood wounds still surface during Baba track (she was scared Abir would leave her when he would find out she lied and Baba's truth). Despite Abir's constant repetition on how much he trusts her, Mishti still had that inner fear - which shows how deep those past wounds are “iss ladki ke zakhm itni jaldi nahi bharenge”

-I'm kinda glad the writers haven't neglected this issue. That Mishti is still trying to learn the difference between pyar and ehsaan. Although she does truly care and love the mah family...when it comes to crisis situations and any stressful family dynamics, she automatically feels she doesn't have the right to upset BM and BP, she loses her fierce bold angry chorni voice because she believes she still feels inferior in the family. The strong voice and limited confidence she had pre-leap was motivated by Abir, through courtship and their love story - was all stolen and lost as soon as Abir broke the rishta off. Mishti suddenly lost all her faith, confidence and trust in herself. Which is why when Abir finally revealed the reason of break up recently, Mishti's first reaction was "main sahi thi." That doubt, fear and lack of confidence she had in herself was brought back as soon as she realised she had been right all this time - Abir still loves her. The teenage young mishti, needed that assurance that she had finally found the right person to trust and love unconditionally.❤️

-Even if BP always supported and defended mishti (pre-leap), there was always constant voices (jas, kuhu) in the house that always reminded Mish of her 'place' - as an outsider, paraayi etc This is exactly why she constantly feels the need to apologise, and proof herself to members of mah family that she is worth keeping. She still has the fear they will disown her.

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As Cool pointed earlier today... given all the things above, Mishti has to be extremely courageous to run away from the shaadi, it takes immense strength and faith in Abir's love to turn away from her family...and obey her own matnra "Family se bada love"❤️👏 Hats off Mishtu🤗

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Yikes! kya hua mujhe aaj?😲

I'm soo sorry everyone for my non-stop looong posts spam today #maafi

Looks like mishbir shaadi mood is waking up my inner writing ghost😆

If you did read all this...I thank you from the bottom of my heart🤗

Nandu what did you eat today haan ?

Guruji 2.0 aapke charan kaha hai ? 🤗🤗🤗🤗

Ek ke baad ek dhamaka posts kiye jaa rahe ho 🥳🥳🥳 you are actually making me fall in love with the whole post leap track 😳.....

Looks like you have done some serious PhD on the show 😎😆..... how do you remember these dialogues word by word ? 😲

Whatever it is keep them coming I am seriously enjoying your deep deep analysis 👏👏👏

I really loved Rhea sharma in today's episode, the episode entirely belonged to her ....the panic , the anxiety, the restlessness , her constant attempt to pursue badi maa and finally her break down calling herself on orphan ....😒....everything was done so effortlessly, i can't believe she was acting , it looked so real ❤️

Originally posted by: meen123

geeli chummi BHI de rahi ho kya😆😆

🤗🤗

Yay🥳🥳

haha Meen gili gili kissya karti raho 😆😆

🤗

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

🤣🤣 everyone's worry from morning kiss miss n miss kiss🤣

leave it maybe we can get it in hospital 😉

Sach me yaar

Originally posted by: meen123

Acha ye thought already discuss ho Gaya hai😛😎

Sach me yaar

haha morning everyone was expecting yaar but didnt discuss much as its early morning 😆 no derail that early naa..

yaar i want atleast a single hug in this costume of abir from mishti.. ufff i need feelzzz

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Just copy pasting from LU: my 2 cents on Nish and Vatsal😊

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Here it goes...

Before watching Tuesday and Wednesday haldi episodes, I had read lots of comments over social media against Nishant and Vatsal's acting. Here's a few things I will like to point out in disagreement:

disclaimer: Ofcourse, I do not agree with Nannu's behaviour and goal to win Mish and defeat Abir. I too believe that this nishmish rishta is wrong on many levels, but there is substance and decent depth to Nishant's character that gives him the space to slide into the grey negative side.

• Nishant is not equal to monster Meenu. He does not have unnecessary hatred against one character. He doesn't emotionally control and threat his loved ones. He is simply very insecure, troubled and confused being who has lost his mind and ability to think straight due to his deep psychological issues. Unlike Baba's sudden negative flip; The makers have gradually and nicely built up Nishant's background as an ex-alcohol addict, who still has struggles with overcoming his guilt. recovering addicts take very long to be confident to say that they are completely free of addiction and have strong control on themselves to not fall back into relapse. Nishant is still very much in the process of recovering and very susceptible to his weakness of alcohol. On top this, he has deep anxiety issues linked with his guilt from childhood towards mah family (lower degree of ehsaan than Mishti has).
• This is where I have to give credit to Meenu and her clever attack. She found Nishant's weak-spot very well (his addiction and insecurity with Mishti), she also targeted Mishti's weak-point again (her ehsaan for family) and also hit the mah family exactly where it hurts (Nishant's addiction) Well played Meenu, Well played [and then she ruined it by dropping the doctor's report #typical]
• The best part about this flipping of Nish's charc is the fact that he KNOWS he is doing the wrong thing. He can see and understand that he is joining hands with Monster meenu. He berates himself for choosing that path, but his psychological state of mind, stops him from correcting it (or owning up to it), His insecurity and anxiety levels are so high, he self-assures himself that what he's doing his right because he thinks Mishti is in the same situation as him - the state of addiction. Nish believes that Abir and their pyar is a detrimental addiction for Mishti, after seeing Abir consistently push Mishti away, hurt her so deeply emotionally, Nishant as protector has convinced himself that Abir is a forbidden drug that Mishti should not get attached to.
• The real problem begins when Abir genuinely and calmly tried explaining to Nish about why this shaadi should stop. Abir knows Mish is too emotionally invested with the family that she will find it difficult to say no to the rishta. So his next choice is convincing Nish. So Abir tries his best to calmly explain why mishbir break-up happened, why their pyar is special and why this nishmish rishta is disaster for all 3 of them. This is where Nishant loses it. For some reason, the writers took Nish's issues quite extreme to an obsession kind of stage suddenly. Unfortunately, Nishant has suddenly dug soo deep into this Abir vs Nish and 'prize' is Mishti concept(disappointed with writers for never keeping a 3rd angle as pure friendship with lead why to force one-sided love?)
• So I will condemn the writers for dragging Nishant down so much that they showed recovering addicts and those who suffer from extreme anxiety, to lose empathy and sympathy. The fact that Nish knows Abir is missing, potentially injured and god-forbid perhaps sinking to his death, the writers used his anxiety issues to justify that he wouldn't call for help or tell the other back home!? Very disappointed with this portrayal of such psychologically disturbed individuals. No matter how troubled Nishant is, he can clearly see and understand that Abir's life is at stake, and he chooses to save himself?! This is very very hard to digest

Now on to Vatsal:

• Straight off the bat I'm gonna say; unpopular opinion: Vatsal did a wonderful job acting as the drunkard, insecure and frustrated man. Honestly, his drunk acting and dialogue delivery with Mishti and Jas, was very very good. I could clearly see an exhausted, drained and troubled Nishant.
• I've really enjoyed the gradual solo scenes of Nannu. All the monologues, the fidgety behaviour and restlessness have been executed really well. We got a really good insight into Nishant's thought process
• Other times when Nishant randomly becomes super jumpy, excited and happy, I do find it a little exaggerated. But I guess that's an acting choice. If we I can survive Rupal mam's "MEIN MEENAAAKSHI RAAJVANSH", I'm sure Vatsal's "naughty!!" is way more easy on the ears
• I guess the part where more improvement may be needed, is anger and confrontation scenes. Vatsal tried his best at the hospital in his fight against Abir. His delivery of dialogue at shouting decibels is often difficult to understand. It gets mumbled and lost in the emotion and loudness of shouting. [But Rhea on the other hand is spectacular Cannot praise her enough, ALL the confrontation scenes of Mishti from the very first mish-kun gd break, to the latest mishbir patchup, each and every sequence she nails it. Her voice and delivery is pitch perfect and crystal clear] Shah just has sheer magnetic presence and dhaansu solid deliveryMaybe also due to Vatsal's shorter stature, it was difficult to be convinced that Nish was furious. Shah as angry Abir at the hospital was super intimidating

Anyway that's all I think I have to say so far. Waiting to see how the writers, continue or put a closure to Nannu's character. Hopefully he gets proper treatment

disclaimer2: Just want to re-iterate, I don't support Nishant's actions or behaviour. I'm simply trying to cut him some slack. He is not demon-like or devil like Meenu or Baba. He has reasons (no matter how weak or illogical they may be) - addiction and anxiety are real problems.

Woah this was waay longer than expected. sorry

Thankyou for listening me ramble on and on and on Let me know what y'all think

xx

Nandu.. I loved this. I agree with each and every word of yours.👍🏼👏 Thanx for writing this.🤗

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

haha morning everyone was expecting yaar but didnt discuss much as its early morning 😆 no derail that early naa..

yaar i want atleast a single hug in this costume of abir from mishti.. ufff i need feelzzz

Kaash Maine subah Dekh Lia HOTA AJ, Tu Kuch achi feels to le leti

Subah se day Bura tha aaj😒