KZKians IMPORTANT PG 1: **Frustration Thread*** DT Note Pg 11 - Page 5

I cant help but laugh at the state of affairs ....oh we dont want these mods they are Prerish fans mock us blah blah blah and what happens new mods come and they are being mocked discussed in AT's for their attempts to hold some activity in the forum but not surprised given how absurd weird and abnormal the AnuPre fandom is nothing from their surprises me anymore.

Lets get to the start of this this was a spam filled forum when it started with one or two discussion topics all AnuPre based because it was their temple and the forum was these fans ki jaageer while one member just spammed away to glory posting everything and anything related to Parica and AnuPre as a new topic ...this was the fun and activeness🤣 with the coming of Hina (whose fandom they successfully drove away )as Komo and KSG as Bajaj the ownership was threatened the fandom was being shown the mirror and the temple was actually a forum now and it was not digestible😆

The fun and activity really came to the forum with tons of Prerish FF's vms etc etc but the Prerish FF writers etc were continuously mocked by the threatened fandom because sadly no one wrote on their AnuPre and even if they did it got hardly any traction the jealously showed with digs at writers coming to the point where post KSG's exit the juvenile fandom wanted Prerish Bajaj discussions banned and the fandom to leave the forum ...no where in the history of me being a member on IF have i seen discussion topics being disallowed to maintain peace which never came.

Words like Awwnu were banned because they didn't like it and calling Anu a boy and Bajaj a man was also questioned 😆. So much banning rules this that nothing made them happy and the victim playing continues till date

Any article that came on Prerish or KSG turned into a war zone even after repeatedly asking people to avoid and the hypocrisy of it was best when Prerna was with Bajaj she was constantly mocked by the AnuPre fandom but when she was questioned by the Prerish fandom the same dolts abused the report button.

Now its all good because two less popular actors are their as Komo and Viraaj and their fans are not here and no one discusses them.

The main point is that this is a highly insecure abnormal delusional Fandom. An AT that discusses Parica and dreams of their babies and then goes to dis the same Erica when no Parica remains tells it all.

Try as you may but this fandom CANNOT BE NORMAL AND THEY HAVE RUINED THE FORUM WITH THEIR ABNORMALITY FRUSTRATION AND CONTINUOUS VICTIM PLAYING .

hi pooja, i know where you are coming from. We are looking into every aspect of this forum and trying to understand POV from everyone. We are giving everyone a chance to share their side of the story. Thanks for sharing your pov because you have been the mod of this forum since the beginning. Your inputs are definitely valuable and will clear some air.

Thanks a lot mods for all the efforts , I appreciate it and also glad to know that you are ready to give members space to heal .

Coming to myself .... I’m sorry but I have rather decided to keep myself away from all negativity.

Do not really want to get into details but I myself have seen how this forum where I started a neutral member ( who was not fan of either Parth or Erica) who used to have fun with all members without any fear of getting warned or using any names to call my fav characters or getting pm’s to not use the words as that hurts certain group of people . That forum over the period of time turned into a real bad state .

I believe in getting rid of toxic people and if that too doesn’t help I myself keep away from such .

I have been called names , mocked , mocked by people who were suppose to moderate the forum . I have tons of grievances but not going to mention each of them as I have moved on and there is point in dwelling in Past . If anything this thread has shown to me is that the negativity still persists in this forum and any effort to peacefully coexist with other fandom is difficult ,Atleast for me.

When I had a funny bone ,I was forced to ban that because some people did not had that and now when some want , sorry I have lost that now.

Though a great initiative but I rather keep myself away so that I do not come in contact with such people who have mocked me and I’m sorry I’m neither interested in making an effort to interact.

Thanks for all your efforts though .

PS : it’s sad that a mere NO from people to participate in a contest is being made into such big issue .

We have still not put down list of complaints, all we have mentioned is thanks to past we can’t participate, and see we are still being mocked . Nothing Changes .😆

List of complaints we havent mentioned 🤣AT was closed screened we were mocked blah blah ye sab to praise ki list hai 😆

Mocked by moderation - speaking the truth and calling a spade a spade aint mocking ...and when was the truth told on face when the n th limit with the absurb fandom.had been reached

Oh and a mere NO is made an issue the contest thread could have been avoided instead of giving reasons like contest is bakwaas its only ANuPre on valentine why bajaj is there blah blah saara victim playing ulta padh gaya to it was a mere no now 😆

@rollingstone : I totally get what you are saying. See i cannot force you to accept certain things and ask you to move on. We can only give you advice. Maybe one day you will be able to move past 'THE PAST' and back in your old forum. We seriously hope you do. But at the same time, we honestly want to give you all space. Regarding participation, we are not forcing anybody as mentioned in the thread. However, I would again request you to re-think about letting go of the past and of course, we will totally give you space to recover. Participation is not important at the moment but keeping peace and having fun rather than being sad is all we want. We all want to make this forum a better place whether both the fandom can co-exist or not only time will say... We as the moderators will obviously try our best to make it a happy place but it is not possible for two of us to do so we would definitely need everybody's help. Take your time. Hope to get a positive outcome later. :) Cheers

Originally posted by: Koeli_Appy

@rollingstone : I totally get what you are saying. See i cannot force you to accept certain things and ask you to move on. We can only give you advice. Maybe one day you will be able to move past 'THE PAST' and back in your old forum. We seriously hope you do. But at the same time, we honestly want to give you all space. Regarding participation, we are not forcing anybody as mentioned in the thread. However, I would again request you to re-think about letting go of the past and of course, we will totally give you space to recover. Participation is not important at the moment but keeping peace and having fun rather than being sad is all we want. We all want to make this forum a better place whether both the fandom can co-exist or not only time will say... We as the moderators will obviously try our best to make it a happy place but it is not possible for two of us to do so we would definitely need everybody's help. Take your time. Hope to get a positive outcome later. :) Cheers

Thanks Koeli for listening .
And do not worry I know how to find my happiness on IF ...and one way is by keeping myself away from toxicity .

and thanks for giving this thread , I thought this thread to be related to contest but some people have got a way to vent out their frustrations... great if that gives them peace , they surely need it .

@Everyone we are looking into every aspect and POV of each fandom and fans hence we have made this frustration thread. All are welcome to post their opinions and frustrations on the forum you experienced. Having said that when your fandom say about others expect others to say about your fandom too.

Woh kehte hain na ek haath se taali nahi bajti, both sides are looking guilty of the accusations made on each others Fandoms. Amidst these fandoms some fans who didnt do anything were taken in the rope too.

Aaah! You may vent out your frustration here but clearly we will stop the person who posts again and again just for plain purpose of insult and instigate.

Lastly, do not let the game contest come as a reason, this was just two days old and no one is forced to participate.

Again as a reminder, this is frustration thread to help you overcome past forum scenarios or what you have been through in the forum in the past.

We hope to see everyone back in their A game in the forum in terms of creativity and talent sharing on their own pace.

Being one of the newer additions in this forum, I could claim ignorance - but I'm not going to.

I have always maintained a distance from fandoms for the very reason that things get really nasty when something happens that not everyone likes. The same as I stay out of the actor's personal lives as it has nothing to do with the fictional characters they play. It becomes easy to confuse the two.

Like most here, I have stalked a number of the threads. Mostly because I enjoy seeing other's opinions on characters and to see if perhaps I am not missing something.

In the posts and threads I see a lot of misguided passion. I see passion for characters I see passion for actors, I see passion for pairings, and I see the distorted results when people don't respect others likes, dislikes and opinions.

I personally have felt the mod's pain at trying to sort our situations that have gone far beyond the point of reason, because individuals although passionate about the subject matter (be it for or against) cannot agree to respectfully disagree on a subject.

Moderators are dedicated people (like or dislike them) their job is to ensure the smooth running of the site, not to take sides. They spend hours doing this and often receive little acknowledgement for it.

While we are all capable of policing ourselves and understand what could be considered socially inciting, it should not be left to mods to decide who and what is right or wrong, because that is forcing them to pick a side... hence the complications with the previous mods.

People come to forums to share their love and passion for something that for just a short while everyday removes them from the hostile reality they live in. As people living in a democratic country, everyone has the right to voice their opinion, but in order to be heard and respected you need to be willing to listen and respect the views and options of others. Simply attacking someone because you don't like what they are saying and stand for is inexcusable.

I have my own thoughts and opinions on the show, but I've come to the conclusion that it's no longer a remake but rather a rebirth of Anurag and Prerna, where they will once again face the same people they faced in a previous life. This distance allows me to view the show objectively rather than subjectively. (This way it is also far easier to overlook the confusion the creatives have created for themselves.) We know Bajaj's track is incomplete, he left the show with a open statement, just as we know Komilika is unlikely to relent in her obsession of Anurag.

Only by accepting that we will at times disagree on certain things, will matters in the forum be resolved. Pulling a firm stance on your views will only see you distancing yourself from others and denying yourself the pleasure of indulging in a fandom that not only has a diverse view of the show but also of the cultures and situations depicted within that setting.

Thank you to the new moderators for taking the initiative to try and glue back a divided fandom. These divisions only happen when fans are really passionate about their pairings.

Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

Respected Mods

The issues have been there from both the ends. If AnuPre fans aren't pointing out the issues in details doesn't mean that they've not suffered here. I won't be going into details of anything and again would request all the members to try to move on from the past incidents and have fun in the forum.

That's all from my end.

Thanks 🤗

Exactly Manisha🤗 I typed a long post explaining everything in detail but didn't post it. Its anyway not going to change the past or opinions . Really tired of the drama

Just wanted to thank Erum and Koeli for giving us a platform to express our concerns and also for showing the willingness to hear both sides. Much appreciated! Like Koeli said, a forum is made up of its members and its great that the two mods are showing the willingness to listen and sort things out rather than simply brushing off our concerns, calling it an agenda . After that its upto the mods to decide if the concerns are genuine or not. Thanks again!

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

Exactly Manisha🤗 I typed a long post explaining everything in detail but didn't post it. Its anyway not going to change the past or opinions . Really tired of the drama

Just wanted to thank Erum and Koeli for giving us a platform to express our concerns and also for showing the willingness to hear both sides. Much appreciated! Like Koeli said, a forum is made up of its members and its great that the two mods are showing the willingness to listen and sort things out rather than simply brushing off our concerns, calling it an agenda . After that its upto the mods to decide if the concerns are genuine or not. Thanks again!

You're right DG there is no point in arguing about what happened in the past. Its better to move on and try to make the forum a better place where we come to enjoy and not fight everytime we come here. Both the mods are trying their bit and its upto the members now to support them. 😊