Originally posted by: stormborn
Best friend is not a tag or position that once you have reached it, it's yours. Like any other relationship, it too has to be maintained with efforts.
I gave a disclaimer at the first line that I don't support Rudra but I only chose to talk about Ananya in that topic.
IMO, Rudra was the first to shake the base of their friendship by impulsively proposing her. But Ananya could clearly see he was in a vulnerable state. Still she chose to ignore it.
Then Ananya shook that base when Rudra tried to tell her about the kiss and she stopped him. That's the point their friendship fell into an earthquake.
After that Rudra closed himself and made Ananya his rebound. Ananya lost her self respect and became an insecure stalker.
Both have stopped honest communication with each other.
They no more trust or respect each other.
Rudra too is being a bad friend. But Ananya was like an insensitive demanding child after Rishi's death.
The whole thing is really unhealthy and irritating.
Regarding MJ, I am not saying she has to personally hate him. She can do whatever she wants. Rudra doesn't ask her to choose either him or his dad. But if I were in her place and Rudra acted like that, I would have suspected he has abused him or something but definitely wouldn't go to him behind my so called best friend's back.
P.S. you simply can't demand for someone to cry to you like it's a little mermaid soft toy. Tears are not something to possess.
I agree with your all points . But like I said my point wasn't about if Anu is right or good . My point is about both r bad in their own ways . Both were equally responsible for their broken friendship. So I just don't like people only calling out the girl about being the worst friend in the world .
Just like that one day Rudra wants to tell Any refused to hear
Their were many days when Anu wanted to Hear Rudra refused to speak .
Anu is an insecure , obsessed it has been pretty established .
Her Character is no perfect just like many others . But Calling her out only is something I don't agree.
If a friendship is that much strong A third person just can't come & break it off . In that situation you can't blame the third person for it only when it's clearly two of the main people who failed to hold it.
Abuse Wala point yaha Ata hi nahi . She is his childhood friend & also know His family. She is seeing the guy had fine relationship till 10 years back then suddenly that relationship breaks off & become so toxic . If they don't know what is it obviously they will fail to understand the depth of it.
Lucky r those who actually get a forever type of bff in their life . It's actually a very responsible & hard position. In this days you can't just stay forever bff in someone's life . People changes so the friendships at least I can say this from my experiences.
Friendship can be complicated in many people's life & those r lucky who gets it perfect or easy.
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