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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: _._shibani_._

Gtg, gn to all those who will be sleeping and good day to the ones working🤗

Good night dear..🤗

Tc god bless ya

see ya tomorrow..🤗

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Posted: 5 years ago

First of all I don't hate characters like komolika and alike vamps because I find them more hilarious and unrealistic than tom and jerry. This is why I don't even watch any of those cartoonish vamps wala shows.

I am irritated regarding ananya because I had high hopes from her character at the first. After seeing how unapologetic and direct she was about her feelings for rudra and yet bluntly telling him----"you can't treat me like a doormat", she became my favourite and most relatable female character in ITV. But lately she is herself placing her in the place of a doormat. She used to be portrayed as independent and intelligent. Who has become into an obsessive, impulsive, insecure woman who is running for help to men in the first chance she is getting. Professionalism and career kahan woh toh pata hi nehi. I still hope CVs repair that character coz I am still not ready to hate her.


now your points--->


1. I am not saying she should hate MJ. I am saying she should interfere less in their matter. Specially when Rudra has told her that he has definite reason to hate MJ. Still she blindly trusts MJ and doesn't give Rudra even the benefit of doubt. However close she might be to his dad, she is Rudra's friend at the first. She is opposing Rudra from behind by going to his dad first while both of them have been trying to find the same girl. It says----she doesn't value trust in a friendship let alone in a relationship.


2. How does Anu know rudra is crazy ? Is she a psychiatrist and has medically tested Rudra ? Does she have any proof of Maya murdering Rishi or manipulating Rudra ? Does she know the extent of Rudra's relation with Maya ? or She knows he is crazy because he is marrying Ananya even though he clearly doesn't love her ? If you meant the last point then I agree.


So she thinks, if she tells Rudra about it and tells him not to tell maya, he will still tell Maya ? As I said she doesn't trust Rudra even if she claims to love him. This is one of the major reasons I don't like her.


If she thinks Maya can be dangerous, she should warn Rudra. If Rudra ignores it that's his decision. But as a friend, it's her responsibility. But even if she doesn't, she should have investigated herself or even employed a PI. But going to his dad, whom he considers is enemy behind his back is breaking the first rule of friendship-----Don't break trust.


3. You know all those facts because you saw it on tv. Ananya didn't. and I have watched in tv that MJ isn't worth trusting either. Ananya doesn't know that either, does she ?

If Rudra isn't a person not worth trusting then he certainly isn't a person worth marrying. She should immediately break the marriage and run for her life.

Entrapped by Maya-----same question again------How exactly is she sure about that ?


4. Rudra refused Maya's help as well. But ultimately he surrendered to her because she said exactly the reason Rudra was upset. Rudra couldn't get rid of his guilt (which MJ forced on him infront of ananya) and when Maya caught that exact point, Rudra felt understood for the first time and broke down emotionally. Ananya instead of getting happy that ultimately Rudra found atleast some consolation, she blamed him for shedding his tears to maya instead of her on the same night of rishi's death. She wants to even possess his tears. The only thing she is taking care of is her own insecurities.


Yes I don't like Rudra's screams at her. And that's my next reason of disliking her. She is doormat-zoning herself. She wants to be in a loveless, respectless, trustless marriage. This is the kind of ITV female character that I absolutely loathe.


5. She has not seen Maya's true face. She is only suspecting her. Rudra has claimed that he is certain about seeing MJ's true face (since way before Maya came). She doesn't trust him even a little bit.


6. What's love without jealousy ??------emotional support, mutual respect and trust, being happy at your partner's happiness, helping your partner to heal during time of loss, sharing, talking directly without breaking trust and many other things.

Edited by stormborn - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago

Shibaaaaani 🤗

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: dusk2dawn

We were discussing about ananya's character and future of RuAn publications..😆

Future?? Wow.. going by Maya didi’s dialogues, she’s inevitably going down her killing rampage route

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Gurmeet4Drashti

Future?? Wow.. going by Maya didi’s dialogues, she’s inevitably going down her killing rampage route

Yeah Maya didi is soon going to be on killing spree..😆

May be she is having itching in her palms to kill..

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Posted: 5 years ago

Rudra Anayana MJ discussion is pretty interesting🤓

Though I am not liking the way Anayana behaving I can give her benifit of doubts about few things.

MJ and her Bonding. It's looks she is leaving far from her family & considers Rudra's family her own . Obviously she behaves silly & crazy sometimes in her obsession for Rudra but that doesn't make her less close with the family .

She considers MJ like her father , she is close to him , it's not Rudra MJ bonding it's about her MJ bonding which more than just a best friend's father . MJ is like her father too & she is close with him 🤓 tho it's normal for her to defend him or take his sides I don't find it strange . She doesn't what MJ did & Rudra refused to tell her , make her understand . She understands it's complicated but she doesn't understand the depth . But isn't normal ? Who even think in normal world Father cheats with their son's gf & that's pissed off the son.

Just like any other person she didn't think in that angle . She failed to understand what is Soo wrong can be between father and son .

Normally we react when we see our parents r abusive or they beat their wives , or they r some kind alcoholic , druggie , bad people but in MJ's case he potrayed himself as polish as he can be .

No one even talked about affairs or Anything so it's not possible for a person to think him as cheater. So we failed to understand why a person hates another person so extremely when the other person always have been good to him we tend to act like this way. Specially MJ is Rudra's father . No one's treats their parents this way in normal life . So Anu don't just get it & that's why she thinks Rudra acts immature or she doesn't hates MJ .

Anu is definitely selfish , kiddish & delusions but can we have the right to call her a worst friend only ? When Rudra was even thrusted her enough ? Maya tho 4 days ayi hai usse pehele itna din Anu hi thi did in this whole period Rudra ever trusted her enough to share his issues , or that matter , he choosed to believe she will not understand maybe she will not who he is to decide her understanding ? You yourself don't trust a person enough to share your issues , your pain , you don't try to make them understand then why they will bothered to understand it ? Why they will put efforts to understand everything when you r not ready to open. A relationship be it anything don't work one way . It's always two way things. Friendship is giving taken thing . If you can't trust someone with ur secrets whom u claim your to be bff & if that person refused to or failed to understand your problems that's not that one person's fault. It's both of their faults . Anu's messed up her thoughts but Rudra isn't less messed up .

They r best friends for name sake . They r those good times best friend who can be happy together when everything alright once big problem arrives both fall apart . That's what Rudra Anu to me . I blamed both of them for it not one just because that girl has feelings. Rudra also didn't do anything for Anu which shows he js some big hearted bff .Rudra went to her & proposed for a Marriage even after knowing she freaking love with him for since forever how this silly proposal will f***Ed up her mind more . He choosed her for his own escape from reality & once night finished his sense came back he went back to Maya to share his heart content then dude why you even give a girl hope in the fist place yup Anu dumbass & idiot to take it but this her issue she has no control over her feelings just like Rudra . Rudra could have broke the marriage later too but he still choose not to . He keep going back to Maya but still didn't break off the marriage . We can say Anu should have do that but I will why not Rudra himself did it ? He is her bff right he should also understands where she is coming from & how much it will messed up their bonding . Rudra hide his secrets feelings everything from Anu but Anu always have been truthful about her feelings . He could have been understanding much too right ? But he didn't understand just like Anu failed to understand him. So Ya both r selfish & not good friends . Both take each other for granted . They r becoming toxic friends. Rudra has a broken past & painful stuffs that doesn't make him less selfish or saint or victim . Anu have been in her one sided love which she knows she will never get it's fukked up too. Every person have shits in their life in a way or another way just one person's life r evident & another person's not that just doesn't make their pain or complications less problematic. Like no one can helps Rudra & his pain except himself same way no one can help Anu but herself. Both Characters have their own flaws we may like few we may don like many but it's not going to change anything. So when every Social media choosed to call Anayana worst Friend & Rudra some poor victim I honestly refused to believe it because for me both r same in their own twisted way . We mostly become friends with those we r more like us .

PS : sorry for such long ranting 😳i just feel like share my view in this topic because I was reading the topic 😆

Edited by 69_Anushka - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: 69_Anushka

Rudra Anayana MJ discussion is pretty interesting🤓

Though I am not liking the way Anayana behaving I can give her benifit of doubts about few things.

MJ and her Bonding. It's looks she is leaving far from her family & considers Rudra's family her own . Obviously she behaves silly & crazy sometimes in her obsession for Rudra but that doesn't make her less close with the family .

She considers MJ like her father , she is close to him , it's not Rudra MJ bonding it's about her MJ bonding which more than just a best friend's father . MJ is like her father too & she is close with him 🤓 tho it's normal for her to defend him or take his sides I don't find it strange . She doesn't what MJ did & Rudra refused to tell her , make her understand . She understands it's complicated but she doesn't understand the depth . But isn't normal ? Who even think in normal world Father cheats with their son's gf & that's pissed off the son.

Just like any other person she didn't think in that angle . She failed to understand what is Soo wrong can be between father and son .

Normally we react when we see our parents r abusive or they beat their wives , or they r some kind alcoholic , druggie , bad people but in MJ's case he potrayed himself as polish as he can be .

No one even talked about affairs or Anything so it's not possible for a person to think him as cheater. So we failed to understand why a person hates another person so extremely when the other person always have been good to him we tend to act like this way. Specially MJ is Rudra's father . No one's treats their parents this way in normal life . So Anu don't just get it & that's why she thinks Rudra acts immature or she doesn't hates MJ .

Anu is definitely selfish , kiddish & delusions but can we have the right to call her a worst friend only ? When Rudra was even thrusted her enough ? Maya tho 4 days ayi hai usse pehele itna din Anu hi thi did in this whole period Rudra ever trusted her enough to share his issues , or that matter , he choosed to believe she will not understand maybe she will not who he is to decide her understanding ? You yourself don't trust a person enough to share your issues , your pain , you don't try to make them understand then why they will bothered to understand it ? Why they will put efforts to understand everything when you r not ready to open. A relationship be it anything don't work one way . It's always two way things. Friendship is giving taken thing . If you can't trust someone with ur secrets whom u claim your to be bff & if that person refused to or failed to understand your problems that's not that one person's fault. It's both of their faults . Anu's messed up her thoughts but Rudra isn't less messed up .

They r best friends for name sake . They r those good times best friend who can be happy together when everything alright once big problem arrives both fall apart . That's what Rudra Anu to me . I blamed both of them for it not one just because that girl has feelings. Rudra also didn't do anything for Anu which shows he js some big hearted bff . So Ya both r selfish & not good friends . That's it 😌🤘

Good night 😴

Best friend is not a tag or position that once you have reached it, it's yours. Like any other relationship, it too has to be maintained with efforts.

I gave a disclaimer at the first line that I don't support Rudra but I only chose to talk about Ananya in that topic.


IMO, Rudra was the first to shake the base of their friendship by impulsively proposing her. But Ananya could clearly see he was in a vulnerable state. Still she chose to ignore it.

Then Ananya shook that base when Rudra tried to tell her about the kiss and she stopped him. That's the point their friendship fell into an earthquake.


After that Rudra closed himself and made Ananya his rebound. Ananya lost her self respect and became an insecure stalker.

Both have stopped honest communication with each other.

They no more trust or respect each other.

Rudra too is being a bad friend. But Ananya was like an insensitive demanding child after Rishi's death.

The whole thing is really unhealthy and irritating.


Regarding MJ, I am not saying she has to personally hate him. She can do whatever she wants. Rudra doesn't ask her to choose either him or his dad. But if I were in her place and Rudra acted like that, I would have suspected he has abused him or something but definitely wouldn't go to him behind my so called best friend's back.


P.S. you simply can't demand for someone to cry to you like it's a little mermaid soft toy. Tears are not something to possess.

Edited by stormborn - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago

This scene was such a killer scene🤣🤣

https://twitter.com/kthsbiblee/status/1219335999043465217?s=09

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: dusk2dawn

Yeah Maya didi is soon going to be on killing spree..😆

May be she is having itching in her palms to kill..

Considering her newfound bloodlust, I won’t be surprised

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