Asim always blamed - Page 2

Originally posted by: Arcjoi29

EXACTLY!! Look what TM said, crawl over her body.. like seriously!!
Hug to koi bhi karta hai, channel purposely made it seem like Asim kissed her neck but he was smelling her perfume. Other than that they were dignified and maintained distance.

TM didnt say it I said it .. Theres a difference between a hug between friends and a lingering hug and lasts wayy too long and thts wayyy too tight. Its not dignified to touch a woman that way when she says shes engaged and not into you romantically. He touched her the way he'd touch a girlfriend and thats not okay if she had told him she was not into him because she was engaged.

Would you hug a married man like that? or a man who is in a relationship? Especially when u have no idea what his wife's or gf's opinion is on this matter. Its disrespectful to the person u are hugging because ure sort of saying I dont care if ure engaged or not Im gonna express my 'feelings' no matter what the consequences are. Asim is old enough to know it could have cause problems between the couple.

Originally posted by: TrollikaDevi

TM didnt say it I said it .. Theres a difference between a hug between friends and a lingering hug and lasts wayy too long and thts wayyy too tight. Its not dignified to touch a woman that way when she says shes engaged and not into you romantically. He touched her the way he'd touch a girlfriend and thats not okay if she had told him she was not into him because she was engaged.

Would you hug a married man like that? or a man who is in a relationship? Especially when u have no idea what his wife's or gf's opinion is on this matter. Its disrespectful to the person u are hugging because ure sort of saying I dont care if ure engaged or not Im gonna express my 'feelings' no matter what the consequences are. Asim is old enough to know it could have cause problems between the couple.

Sorry I meant to write TD

If the married woman didn't have a problem why would an unmarried man have problem?

Originally posted by: Arcjoi29

@bold: HK supported Asim as soon as she went out. She is still supporting Asim. If a girl goes through breakup would she still be supporting the guy if she didn't have feelings for him? Socho

Only thing I'm saying here is Asim is not to be blamed at any cost. Expressing feelings is not a crime, if you have a strong relationship that too for 9 years a third party cannot be blamed.

Her supporting him does not mean she is into him romantically. She has never said she likes him that way. Expressing feelings is a crime the feelings are expressed on an engaged woman's body especially when u dont know what her partner thinks of that kind of intimacy with a third person

Yes as i said already..Himanshi is at fault too. She encouraged it knowing very well it could cause trouble.

Another thing to beat Asim with...no substance to what SK was saying

Originally posted by: TrollikaDevi

Her supporting him does not mean she is into him romantically. She has never said she likes him that way. Expressing feelings is a crime the feelings are expressed on an engaged woman's body especially when u dont know what her partner thinks of that kind of intimacy with a third person

Yes as i said already..Himanshi is at fault too. She encouraged it knowing very well it could cause trouble.

She will come to the house and clear it up. That's why I said before let's not ASSUME things

Originally posted by: Arcjoi29

Sorry I meant to write TD

If the married woman didn't have a problem why would an unmarried man have problem?

So if the woman is not able to see right from wrong...the man should just take advantage of that situation? Only a person of loose morals will take advantage of something like that...

Having said that....I put 90% blame on Himanshi...it was she who was in the committed relationship of 9 years....not Asim....but I put 10% blame on Asim too....like TD said...he knew she was in a relationship....she kind of stayed away from him and resisted in the beginning but Asim persisted....which he shouldn't have.....but still the maximum blame goes to Himanshi.

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

So if the woman is not able to see right from wrong...the man should just take advantage of that situation? Only a person of loose morals will take advantage of something like that...

Having said that....I put 90% blame on Himanshi...it was she who was in the committed relationship of 9 years....not Asim....but I put 10% blame on Asim too....like TD said...he knew she was in a relationship....she kind of stayed away from him and resisted in the beginning but Asim persisted....which he shouldn't have.....but still the maximum blame goes to Himanshi.

What advantage did he take man? Kambal mein fambla kiya? Nahi na. I am not saying Asim is 100% right but the way TD commented made it seem like Asim ne kuch galat kar diya uske saath. He always said whoever you are with I'll be happy for you

The less said about this topic the better. I remember when Shef J used to chirao Asim with Hk, he always said ki don't say all these, accha nahi lagta, she is already committed. Asim has always maintained a distance, feelings share karna koi buri baat nahi

Originally posted by: Arcjoi29

What advantage did he take man? Kambal mein fambla kiya? Nahi na. I am not saying Asim is 100% right but the way TD commented made it seem like Asim ne kuch galat kar diya uske saath. He always said whoever you are with I'll be happy for you

The less said about this topic the better

That is up to ur ownself....what is ur definition of taking advantage of any situation....for me his persistence, his openly going after an engaged woman on Natl. TV was yuckky.....but then this is subjective and how you see it or want to see it....but still I put only a little blame on Asim....because if Himanshi wanted to stay away she could have been very strict with him...Asim as far as I have seen is not the kind who would have piled on Himanshi had she said NO strictly....she was leading Asim on. She was kind of chitt bhi meri and patt bhi meri wala game...she kept on saying I am engaged ...yet she encouraged Asim by playing along with him.

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

That is up to ur ownself....what is ur definition of taking advantage of any situation....for me his persistence, his openly going after an engaged woman on Natl. TV was yuckky.....but then this is subjective and how you see it or want to see it....but still I put only a little blame on Asim....because if Himanshi wanted to stay away she could have been very strict with him...Asim as far as I have seen is not the kind who would have piled on Himanshi had she said NO strictly....she was leading Asim on. She was kind of chitt bhi meri and patt bhi meri wala game...she kept on saying I am engaged ...yet she encouraged Asim by playing along with him.

Agreed. Asim's only fault was to go after someone committed. But feelings hai to kya kaare banda aab.

Baaki to you said it all

I'm not assuming anything. I mostly talked about what I saw when it comes to what I said about Asims behaviour. Now the reason for the break up..thats the only thing left to be cleared but it doesnt make much of a difference ..he crossed a line or two. Penetrative sex is not the only kind of infidelity . It can also be very subtle. And yes they did fumble under the kambal..but mostly Shefali was also present. And smelling the perfume of a woman who is going to get married to another man...and 'talking to her at night' is just creepy!

"Feelings" arent an excuse. Some feelings are better kept to yourself. When we think expressing our feelings at the cost of somebody's relationship is okay then there is a problem. Most of us would not say or do things that could ruin another person's relationship. Especially when we like that person . Because its a selfish thing to do.

I say this as a someone who likes Asim-he's one of my favourite contestants- I'm disappointed to see how lightly he takes this. And hes one of the most decent people in there so i find this attitude very odd. All that from Asim's POV and in the context of the game. I spoke about him because currently im focussing on him show-wise...he is the contestant here and Himanshi is no longer one...and I feel bad to see that he's shrugging this off and losing persepctive.

On the whole..I agree with blue-ice1 .. the major share of the blame goes to Himanshi...she didnt have to lead him on. She should have stuck to her NO and that no should have been applicable to the PDA I was talking about.