The victim blaming is reaching dangerous levels now - Page 2

The point which Gauhar and others are mentioning that, she has done wrong too. Plus, Sana isn't a victim. Victim is someone who is helpless in that situation, Sana has full authority to raise her voice. She is on national TV, no matter how much BB team is biased but you have all rights to speak up. She has no problems with such acts because for her it's normal like hoe she was defending Madhu and telling Vishal, mai bhi to Chappal Marti hu, Ye sab to chalta hai, tu ego pe le raha. What does it mean!! I don't support what Shukla did, but the person on other side is no less. More that that, she herself isn't speaking so how others can blame him.

If in a normal case, victim takes the case back ,even court can't do that. Though those victims are different and suppressed by money or dhamkis many a times, but they are helpless. But Sana had got all rights. She is above 18, she isn't a cute bachchi like she claims.

Originally posted by: saksham-p2

Nope! She is insinuating that both should be dragged. Both r wrong and disgusting.

False equivalencies are false equivalencies.

So if Sana was silent and mucking about earlier in the day with him then it’s alright to assault her. So by that logic a prostitute cannot claim rape because she’s a prostitute.

Sana clearly has issues she needs to resolve, but that does not absolve SS of his atrocious and unforgivable behaviour.

Just because Sana is behaving like a doormat does not mean she is asking to be hurt. The choice to hurt her lies ENTIRELY with SS. There are lines he needs to draw, which he's clearly incapable of.

Glad this is being spoken about.

I do not support sana's blind devotion for Shukla, or leaving her strong personality behind to become Arti 2.0, but she is clearly a victim here, of both Shukla's abuse and channel's profit making trp strategies and twisted ideas regarding romance and entertainment.

If other contestants are not spared when they speak about such abuse, how can she expect differently? Against a person who is clearly being hailed as a senior actor by the channel who deserves respect from the other newcomers, Sana who is trying to make a mark in a new industry will obviously feel hesitant to speak out. So she gives back in the best way she can and uses this love angle to her advantage. She wants to win afterall.

The problem I feel, is that there are extreme ideas floating around regarding this issue, either Shukla is a complete monster or Sana is the doormat who deserves it. I am pretty sure its merely the channel making more money by generating a ton of engagement👎🏼

Originally posted by: BaylorBee

Glad this is being spoken about.

I do not support sana's blind devotion for Shukla, or leaving her strong personality behind to become Arti 2.0, but she is clearly a victim here, of both Shukla's abuse and channel's profit making trp strategies and twisted ideas regarding romance and entertainment.

If other contestants are not spared when they speak about such abuse, how can she expect differently? Against a person who is clearly being hailed as a senior actor by the channel who deserves respect from the other newcomers, Sana who is trying to make a mark in a new industry will obviously feel hesitant to speak out. So she gives back in the best way she can and uses this love angle to her advantage. She wants to win afterall.

The problem I feel, is that there are extreme ideas floating around regarding this issue, either Shukla is a complete monster or Sana is the doormat who deserves it. I am pretty sure its merely the channel making more money by generating a ton of engagement👎🏼

Yes! The two participants are not equal.in stature. It’s like trump and the Ukraine president. Trump could withhold military aid as extortion for Ukraine President’s cooperation to investigate trumps political rival. Similarly, Sana has seen the favors Shukla enjoys from the channel and visiting celebrities sucking up to him. Even if she wanted to complain, she’s had it shoved down her throat about what a big opportunity and launching pad bb platform is. She constantly remind other housemates to be grateful, do their chores and not break BB belongings. So it’s not far fetched to think that this girl protests against the channels star but not in the way we would like.

Originally posted by: Picasso9

Gauhar’s false equivalency is defense of Shukla.

People arent discrediting Sana, She is discrediting herself.

Shukla is wrong, but the person who he wronged does not seem to have a problem with it, toh hum kyu bole?

If Sana raises her voice we will all support her. Usko khud nahi chaiye.

You have a point but victim blaming/shaming is about putting the onus on the victim but for some, the victim-perpetrator line is bit diffused here so the confusion is understandable. And there are many different aspects that need to represented.

That Bhalloo's action speak for themselves and nothing can make it right or justifiable. Not even Sana's slap provocation. Vishal had a better reaction. SS was dying to show Sana her place. And his smirk while she had a breakdown speaks volumes. But as ppl say, she will go back for more. she always does. A woman/person with self-respect will speak out and go her/his own way.

But here, Sana's actions and reactions also add to the toxicity so Gauhar's or any similar comments are understandable. Sana makes me angry too by her enabling of SS and his toxic disrespectful ways. Had she stood up for herself, BB/SK would be forced to speak. But they ignore the bad behavior as it is (sadly) garnering TRPs.

So as bb says, very very strangely - 'yeh aapka personal mamala hai! 🤢

Gauhar is trash tbh. She should watch season 7 instead of acting all mighty on twitter.

Sana's free way of mixing is very common in the West, but the women who freely mix are very different than Sana. Then again there are girls who are very naive, innocent that get physical and don't realize they get touched the wrong way and molested khel khel main