SidNaaz :Discussion Thread 1 - Page 10

Originally posted by: One-Of-A-Kind

i have to point out.. in extra tadka clip.. he sensed like throwing taunts at her.. k tere hisab se chaluga.. most people finding funny and romantic but i found it quite sarcastic..

second when they were sitting in glass room n sid said k tu mujhe effect nhn krti n that sounded serious when he said something to create distance.. after that only she didn't talk much with him.. n also that bagga n bestie comment.. sid never leaves like that whenever sana is lying on him..

after that all pahira jhgra n sid shut off sana by shutting up mahira insulting her..

Sid is clearly holding something against her.. kinda i have started feeling distracted.. baki tw i didn't get anything that was happening in the epi..

Originally posted by: Bee93

He said ki tu kabhi bore nahi hoga, entertainment hoti rahegi - something on those lines.

Oh yes! Thanks for refreshing it 😂 was a very heavy episode

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

I agree here, I want Sana to be dignified, she needs to control herself! Having fun is different, but no one is taking her seriously and the one who wants to take her seriously is having two minds, here Sana is letting herself down and she needs to walk with confidence and respect!

Originally posted by: Uma2010

A certain casualness in approach, right? Not that I didn’t feel that, but I didn’t take it seriously. Sana has tried enough and clearly both of them have unresolved issues with each other. Toxic games are not good for any relationship. She should stay by him when she feels the needs to protect him from being aggressive and then stay away. Carry no expectations whatsoever. She also needs to carry herself with some more dignity while not affecting her essence. And she needs to ignore PaHira altogether. Woh akeli kaafi hai.

i took it very seriously.. when i watched extra tadka wali clip i thought im over thinking and shouldn't put it up here bcuz it may ruin mood of many others here who are very insecure about them.. bjt seriously sid is doing too much now.. not that sana is some saint, she is doing it n not realizing it and sid is doing it intentionally..

she could feel him distancing even when je was sitting with her and asks why are u ignoring.. matlab sidharth ji aisa b kia hugya!!

this seems something dirtier than toxicity tbh.. specially sid's behavior today.. sana never publicly does that to him what he did by siding mahira like that.. he was rude to her in tadka, in galss room, didn't talk to her whole day, and then mahira scene.. sid clearly was playing as her anti today.. helping pahira enough to sideline/degrade her..

yeah its better for her to leave all alone.. play as an individual.. sid k protect krne jaye bus baki she doesn't need to if its not working out even after being literally a nurse to him.. this is a height to tolerate insult..

both should tell each other openly whatever the hell they feel for each other, even if its sid wanting to stay away from jer.. throw some light into our heads atleast.. im getting irritated by this hide n hide thing altogether now

Sid was pissed at Sana since morning ( or last night ) because of some issues , because she thought he is ignoring her . So sana jumped the group and joined Asim . Itni hi friendship hai bas ?

She had a fight with Mahira over Paras ( that moohn lagana thing in the bedroom she did deliberately to make Mahira jealous and it made Sid jealous also ) , then he was more pissed . Then task and her support for Asim . Then she claimed she will meet paras outside because here Mahira is an huddle between them ( now this was beyond the game talk and must have pissed Sid more ) when Sid was already upset because of his fight with Rashmi and Asim . And sana was going to Rashmi and asim again and again during this fight knowing how Sid will feel .

Basically she is ruining her relationship with Sid because of Paras and Mahira . It started with ke Mahira has issues with Sana because she talks to Paras then Sana dragged Sid into it .

If she claims that she can’t stop talking to other people then why should Sid ?

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

Vikas, Shefali, Sid and Sana were there and suddenly I think Sana said something ( sorry, this fight has over powered everything) so Vikas immdtly told Sid, what else do you need in life! I think something like you have this for life, so Sid was like I would like to refute the statement

thats exactly what i am saying.. he is not same.. sana shouldn't try anymore.. thora distance maintain kre from both paras n sid n if its real sid will be back if not the torture ends there!

Originally posted by: Bee93

Also, I know most of you will again disagree but I'll put it out there anyway and please know this is coming from a place of love and care but I'm beginning to feel this forum also over reacts just like twitter. Twitter ka is obv too extra, but yahan bhi log apni apni kahaniyan bana lete hain and then they get hurt. Like opinions are one thing, but please form them based on what you see and not based on what you've imagined SidNaaz to be.

If you see them for who they are, without trying trying to decode and reading too much into it, you'll understand their reactions a lot better and it'll be a LOT better for your mental health.

The problem is we are so used to seeing people in layers that when someone like Sana comes along, we begin to read too much into her. She's super easy to understand and she'll tell you all about her, if only you take her word for it. She knows herself well and she won't be diplomatic about things like most people are. Jo dil mein hai, wo zubaan pe hai, wo shaqal pe hai.

And these are plain human emotions that both Sid and Sana are experiencing. They'll react, sometimes they'll over react. The good thing is, they're stuck there so aaj nahi toh kal, they'll fix things.

They both need to learn each other's love language. Dono apni apni tarah se communicate bhi kar rahe hain but there is too much going on for them to be able to master each other's love language and treat the other person accordingly. They'll come around to it if they have to.

Personally, I feel they're better off as friends. For both of them, a big percentage of the way they both feel loved is actually completely opposite of tthe other person's core nature. So as a couple, each would have to sacrifice too much of their personality unless of course there is a lot of growth and they evolve over the next 2 months to become more compatible with each other's love language or are willing to sacrifice.

the thing is even friendship dont work like the way they are doing it.. i have had a friendship like that ditto same.. and now its even worst than being strangers..

Very clearly sana’a Nautanki two days back has hurt Sid a lot and deeply and he must be thinking from audience’s POV that she is using him and playing her game and he is coming across as a fool in this whole scenario so I think even if he has forgiven her but he has not forgotten it and he is still seeing her desire to be with Paras , she is even trying to be friends with Asim and Rashmi since past two days . so he knows once Mahira will be out she will jump to Paras and he will look like a fool and can loose his game because game will be almost towards the end so he can’t risk it . So he is distancing himself and concentrating on his game because he was looking like a Kathputli ke jab chaahe yeh Sid ke paas wapis aaye jab chaahe Paras ke paas jaaye.

Precap me jase sana sid ko rok rahi ha

Kisi me itne guts nhi ha ja k shukla k hath pakde

sana was also trying to stop him from saying anything bad while he was shouting

Ab isse zyada concern kya hota ha mere ko pta nhi!!

Originally posted by: One-Of-A-Kind

i have to point out.. in extra tadka clip.. he sensed like throwing taunts at her.. k tere hisab se chaluga.. most people finding funny and romantic but i found it quite sarcastic..

second when they were sitting in glass room n sid said k tu mujhe effect nhn krti n that sounded serious when he said something to create distance.. after that only she didn't talk much with him.. n also that bagga n bestie comment.. sid never leaves like that whenever sana is lying on him..

after that all pahira jhgra n sid shut off sana by shutting up mahira insulting her..

Sid is clearly holding something against her.. kinda i have started feeling distracted.. baki tw i didn't get anything that was happening in the epi..

Exactly !!!!

I also felt the same. Not only in talking tone and comments also in hugging and expressions his hug doesn’t look like how it was earlier...