Kahaan Hum Kahaan Tum Written Updates & Daily Discussions Thread # 11 - Page 115

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

what is wrong in that? Dont you think sonakshi is wrong. Its practical dear. Dil will always have her limits no matter what. As i said there ,only 10percent out of 100 percent will be treated as beti. As i said there in real life i cannot poke my nose, lekin meri khud kaey gar mein we have given all rights to our bhabhi. I share everything with her but meri saans ki ghar mein meri sil hardly talk with me . My mil shares her problems,but i can listen not take any action. But the siblings(my pati and his been are always tight lipped).

Between shaadi hokaey ek haftaey mein how she is so comfortable in taking the charge of the house.no saans will allow her dil in the kitchen easily.it happens only in serials. Especially not in South indian family.the old ladies are possessive about their kitchen and son more than their husband.

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Hope many married woman in this forum will agree with my point.

Arrey main ya ankuu.. Yeh nahi keh rahe hain ki sona sahi hai... She is wrong...

We agree that sona should not poke her nose into every matter of the house.. Especially with kapoor family (yk, nishi and pooja) lekin one cannot help certain situations...

Now that's show..

What we were saying was about the post... Like cmon... Bahu beti ko leke post banana is ridiculous... It's like one has to behave a certain way to be accepted... Why can't she be accepted the way she is...

A woman's identity should not be defined by the roles she plays.. By roles I mean daughter, dil, sister, wife, mother.. Etc..

A woman should have her own identity.. Identity which defines only her.. For which she should be accepted.. Not in any particular role play manner.. Ki yeh bahu hai so we won't listen.. Beti jaise behave karegi tabhi hum apna yengey... Yeh kya tareeka hai.. Why won't they accept for the woman she is.. If they don't.. Then shaadi hi kyun karna... It's simple.. Accept the way she is.. Or else just don't... In case of the show.. Rohit has accepted her the way she is....

Ok , I m not married.... But still aisi soch rakhna is itself degraceful and biased...

We are condemning the thought process..

Originally posted by: atikna

Main wahi toh keh rahi hun .. yeh pankha aaya kahan se ??? .. Sindhi Hain toh AC nahi rakhenge Kamre mein ? 🤣🤣

Ankuu...🤣

Kamre mein AC hai... In fact centralised AC

Hawaayein automatically chalti hain jab yeh dono saath hote hain... You know the magic of love...

Love is in the air.. Yaar ankuu.. ❤️😆

And three idiots mein rancho nahi kehta... "Insaano se pyaar karogi toh hawaayein zaroor chalengi" 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: sohit-mishbir

Arrey main ya ankuu.. Yeh nahi keh rahe hain ki sona sahi hai... She is wrong...

We agree that sona should not poke her nose into every matter of the house.. Especially with kapoor family (yk, nishi and pooja) lekin one cannot help certain situations...

Now that's show..

What we were saying was about the post... Like cmon... Bahu beti ko leke post banana is ridiculous... It's like one has to behave a certain way to be accepted... Why can't she be accepted the way she is...

A woman's identity should not be defined by the roles she plays.. By roles I mean daughter, dil, sister, wife, mother.. Etc..

A woman should have her own identity.. Identity which defines only her.. For which she should be accepted.. Not in any particular role play manner.. Ki yeh bahu hai so we won't listen.. Beti jaise behave karegi tabhi hum apna yengey... Yeh kya tareeka hai.. Why won't they accept for the woman she is.. If they don't.. Then shaadi hi kyun karna... It's simple.. Accept the way she is.. Or else just don't... In case of the show.. Rohit has accepted her the way she is....

Ok , I m not married.... But still aisi soch rakhna is itself degraceful and biased...

We are condemning the thought process..

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/kahaan-hum-kahaan-tum/5138047/sonakshi-a-meddlesome-nut

My simple saying is its not practically possible in all households. The couple itself take a decade to understand each other. Not all are blessed with beautiful marriage life 😊

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

soch hamari nahi,humari nahi,humari in law ki badalni hey madamji.we just told out of our experience,it may luk sick ,🤬 for you, imagine us when we are really experiencing it. There is difference in thinking when we are in our twenties and thirties.i too use to roam around like this before my marriage and give silly advice to my frnds,jab meri baari aayi,then understood the Reality of life.

Ok calm down...

We were talking in general..... That it's 21st century and people have to be little progressive with the way they think .... By people I mean everyone in general.. Not categorising in-laws or smthg..

Aap log jo bhi experience kar rahe ho.. Woh tumse better aur koi nahi samjh sakta.. Agreed 👍👍

But apne in laws ka point of view change karne ka try toh kar sakte ho...

Sab ke liye alag alag basis pe reality hota hai...

Aapke liye jo reality hai.. Woh mere liye nahi hai.. Ya mere jaise ladkiyon ke liye nahi hai..

I was just saying ki.. Making a post about it just promotes more of such thought process..

A woman needs to be accepted for the way she is..

Ps: don't take smthg so seriously... Lekin phir bhi agar bura laga ho toh I am sorry.. I didn't mean to hurt anyone..

Peace ✌ and love ❤

Originally posted by: sohit-mishbir

Arrey main ya ankuu.. Yeh nahi keh rahe hain ki sona sahi hai... She is wrong...

We agree that sona should not poke her nose into every matter of the house.. Especially with kapoor family (yk, nishi and pooja) lekin one cannot help certain situations...

Now that's show..

What we were saying was about the post... Like cmon... Bahu beti ko leke post banana is ridiculous... It's like one has to behave a certain way to be accepted... Why can't she be accepted the way she is...

A woman's identity should not be defined by the roles she plays.. By roles I mean daughter, dil, sister, wife, mother.. Etc..

A woman should have her own identity.. Identity which defines only her.. For which she should be accepted.. Not in any particular role play manner.. Ki yeh bahu hai so we won't listen.. Beti jaise behave karegi tabhi hum apna yengey... Yeh kya tareeka hai.. Why won't they accept for the woman she is.. If they don't.. Then shaadi hi kyun karna... It's simple.. Accept the way she is.. Or else just don't... In case of the show.. Rohit has accepted her the way she is....

Ok , I m not married.... But still aisi soch rakhna is itself degraceful and biased...

We are condemning the thought process..

No one accepts people for what they are who they are. Everyone are living for society satisfying other needs and forgetting their own. Mein bhi aapk kaey jaisaey jagda kiya hey no use. Certain thoughts are soaked in their mindset badly.cant remove easily. Still some in society want bahu to change but they wont.i wish atleast my sons treat their wife properly and pray to God that i too shouldn't turn insane and treat my dil badly in future.wish i have a good relationship with my bahu.my pati thinking is of 1950s and mine 2050 😂😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

sorry saw the beti post now only. I was actually talking about this

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/kahaan-hum-kahaan-tum/5138047/sonakshi-a-meddlesome-nut

My simple saying is its not practically possible in all households. The couple itself take a decade to understand each other. Not all are blessed with beautiful marriage life 😊

Arrey... 🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀

I was not even talking about this post... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Heyya all.. late for the party today.. real life beckoned..

I was so bloody distracted with that pink coordination.. i mean how can someone look good in pink. And i admire who can carry off pink.. damn..KVG looked yummy 🙈😂😊

Itna distract kiya ke i forgot Sona again running after Rohit for answersstop it woman.. already he is not talking with you..ab kya ghar se get out hona hain

Sona and Suman scene was louwe! Chahe jo ho.. maa kaa pyaar is above anything else.. sicku should bring Suman in every episode.. how beautifully her character has grown.. ❤

Last 5 mins of Helpless sad yet so much in love Rohit was so good.. Sona looked good too.. maine baki sab ignore maar diya😆 again they were color coordinated.. i likes..i likes

Yeh Rani full on locha hain.. the way she changed her expressions on seeing Sona.. from disgust to abla naari ... she is definitely gadbad

KT.. khadus takla is justready to pounceon Sona.. bahana chahiye usko bas. Kuch bhi hua..sona ki wajah se.. 😡

Originally posted by: sohit-mishbir

Ok calm down...

We were talking in general..... That it's 21st century and people have to be little progressive with the way they think .... By people I mean everyone in general.. Not categorising in-laws or smthg..

Aap log jo bhi experience kar rahe ho.. Woh tumse better aur koi nahi samjh sakta.. Agreed 👍👍

But apne in laws ka point of view change karne ka try toh kar sakte ho...

Sab ke liye alag alag basis pe reality hota hai...

Aapke liye jo reality hai.. Woh mere liye nahi hai.. Ya mere jaise ladkiyon ke liye nahi hai..

I was just saying ki.. Making a post about it just promotes more of such thought process..

A woman needs to be accepted for the way she is..

Ps: don't take smthg so seriously... Lekin phir bhi agar bura laga ho toh I am sorry.. I didn't mean to hurt anyone..

Peace ✌ and love ❤

People want everything in advance,advance technology but they don't want to change their thinking in advance ways 🤷. Thinking about woman have to change very badly and i feel media is screwing up badly. They blow up every issue and never disclose issues which are supposed to get justice.

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

meri saans ki pehle.complaint mein unkaey beti kaisaey nahi hoon. Meri reply to my pati is she treating me in the same manner like her beti.. She is so frank that meri muh kaey saamnaey bolti hey she hates me.

No one accepts people for what they are who they are. Everyone are living for society satisfying other needs and forgetting their own. Mein bhi aapk kaey jaisaey jagda kiya hey no use. Certain thoughts are soaked in their mindset badly.cant remove easily. Still some in society want bahu to change but they wont.i wish atleast my sons treat their wife properly and pray to God that i too shouldn't turn insane and treat my dil badly in future.wish i have a good relationship with my bahu.my pati thinking is of 1950s and mine 2050 😂😂😂😂

I think ekta should come up with kyunki saas bhi kabhi bahu thi season two.. 🤔🤔🤣🤣

Logon ko kaafi help hojaayegi.. 🤣🤣

Ps: it's just for fun... Don't take it to heart.. I don't intend to hurt you... You must be knowing your situation much better... And ofc I can't understand your situation better than you do.. So maafi for any mistake...or you are hurt...

Pps : you can call me tum..

Originally posted by: sohit-mishbir

I think ekta should come up with kyunki saas bhi kabhi bahu thi season two.. 🤔🤔🤣🤣

Logon ko kaafi help hojaayegi.. 🤣🤣

Ps: it's just for fun... Don't take it to heart.. I don't intend to hurt you... You must be knowing your situation much better... And ofc I can't understand your situation better than you do.. So maafi for any mistake...or you are hurt...

Pps : you can call me tum..

Agar woh meri saans saey mileagi to she will quit taking saans bahu serials 😂😂😂😂😂.

Ignore meri typo errors.

She wont understand as unkaey saans shaadi kaey pehle swarghvas mein chali gayi.my.mil had full support of her dil and her father.