Originally posted by: Bee93
I noticed this quite a few times. She'd sound very annoyed at Sid when he'd try to come close. Only very recently though. When he was trying to lie down on her. Sure, she was on her period but she did seem very annoyed. A lot of times I have noticed when Sid pulls her to hug her, she immediately moves away after a second or two. Also, in that one clip where Sid is making Sana clean the kitchen, people found it very romantic, but she is trying to make him let go of her hand and she leans in almost to make him leave it and says tang mat kar yaar, and he sneaks in a kiss and she immediately moves away, acting as if nothing happened so as to not make it awkward. I would only do that if I were super uncomfortable and wasn't sure how to say it to a friend. I'm not saying Sid meant it in any other way. It could have been very innocent but Sana has definitely been feeling some discomfort and it shows.
As I said, when it's consensual it's fine and it can change during the same day itself. She is definitely the more touchy-feely one of the two but that doesn't mean she can't get uncomfortable.
Also, I'm not saying she has problems with Sid, her reactions could be coz of the things that were being feeded to her or said to her about her relationship with Sid and she probably would get conscious during certain situations.
I'm not blaming any one here. All I'm saying is, all of this has most likely affected her, emotionally and mentally.. again, not Sid being touchy but how it may be being perceived outside specially if that's not what she was expecting.. this probably had her be caught in her emotions which may have led to her emotional breakdown.
Bee, sell me anything but the fact that Sana doesnât/didnât like or entertain proximities with Sid. Anything but that.
Sana was the one who plastered lipstick kisses on Sidâs forehead when Mahira was around and forehead kissed from her lying down position.
Sana was the one who hugged Sid multiple times in joy and otherwise- washroom, living room, et al.
Sana is the one who winds her fingers through Sidâs hair now and then when heâs on her lap.
Sana was the one who said his lips were dark and touched them with her lipstick.
Sana is the one who blatantly keeps kissing Sid on his hand and chest and now neck too to pacify and soothe him during fights and even otherwise as during the son papdi scene.
Sana was the one who caught Sidâs wrist thereby stopping him as he moved away in the washroom.
Sana was the one who didnât have to but actually moved to the Captainâs bed sharing the same quilt.
Sana was the one who wanted Sid to touch her more seductively for the song.
Did Big Boss demand in her contract that she do any of this and then yes, all of this was forced.
So, please, the khayaali pulao you mentioned elsewhere was not born out of thin air in demented, thirty minds. It was born out of seeing two singletons sharing and enjoying some cute, personal space like never before on BB. Sell me breakdown, emotional issues, anything. But not the fact that Sana was opposed to physical proximities with Sid. In fact, I would say she was the more eager one to share her physical space with Sid initially, not the other way around.
Let it be noted, I am not blaming her one bit for any of this or judging her, but itâs easy to paint a man a physical initiator in todayâs times especially when he is aggressive otherwise. And here, the case clearly wasnât so.