I honestly find it funny how serious this thread is getting and how everyone is blaming Sana for being too friendly and breaking poor Sid's heart.
Firstly, this has been quoted way too many times here so this needs to be cleared out, Sana NEVER said ' wo nahi milega'. SidNaaz fan's very conveniently just twist her words and believe whatever they want to without really watching clips and episodes clearly.
1. Sana was talking about how she wants a guy who will respect her.. she was still in that train of thought when she said 'wo nahi milega' and just a few seconds before that Vishal mentions Sid. Her reply to that was ' uske liye alag feeling hai'.
So yeah, she didn't think 'wo nahi milega' for Sid.
2. Sid is 38 years old. An extremely logical and practical guy at that and has been in enough relationships to understand his feelings and the other person's feelings. Sid has spoken about Sana's feelings for Paras multiple times throughout the season, mostly just taunting her when Paras was in the rival team and then being okay with their equation when Paras was supporting him.
Eg: Paraphrasing here.. "You feel a lot of things for a lot of people. " " Chai kaisi hai.. Paras ke haath ki?"
As I said before, he asks Sana a million questions everyday. I refuse to believe he did not ask enough questions to figure out her feelings.
3. I don't think Sana loves loves Paras. She has always had a crush on Paras for sure and the entire house knows it. My theory is, Sana either got too caught up in her emotions and ended up saying she loves him when she probably is just attracted to him. She feels a connection there and she may have gotten too vulnerable after the WKW bottom 2 shocker. This bothered her and she probably ended up thinking she is in love with Paras. She definitely doesn't look like she wants a relationship with Paras, she did say wo nahi chahiye. She was merely expressing her feelings there.
Sid probably has this figured out better than even Sana. I think Paras has this figured out as well.
My other theory is, from what I can see.. when Vishal mentioned #SidNaaz, I truly think both of them just thought that their 'dosti ke charche ho rahe honge'. Then came the demand for a romantic song which is what I feel gave them a clearer picture of how it was being seen. Also, certain taunts by housemates about her closeness with Sid. After that you can see Sana would get awkward about certain things and wasn't as comfortable with the sneaky kissing, etc. Of course when it's consensual, it's different. Anything sneaky or anything that she wasn't expecting, she'd immediately move away. She has said 'no' multiple times to Sid during various conversations.
The whole idea of consent works exactly like that. She was comfortable and then she wasn't. It's not leading someone on at all. When you see someone as a friend, you're okay with holding hands with them and chilling. The minute someone points it out and starts thinking of you as a romantic couple, things get awkward. Things also get awkward when you start feeling a different vibe from the other person and it does get uncomfortable, specially . If you say no at any point, it should be respected.
I don't think Sid fell in love with Sana. These changes can very well happen if you find someone you can trust and create a sweet bond with. He also realises that Sana only wishes him well. They practically spend the entire day together. It'll be hard for him to not turn softer to her. I'm sure he isn't khadoos to everyone in his life. Sure, he had his guards up when he came but he found a genuine friend and treated her exactly like that, a close friend.
Now, I'm not saying this can't turn into love. They've grown closer over the last 2 months and their relationship is ever evolving. Sid probably is attracted to her too. He's attached for sure, as is she. Just because you're both attached to someone and attracted to them, doesn't mean you're in love with them.
I also feel Sid knows better to not fall in love with someone in that house. If he does indeed like Sana like that, he's smart enough to take it outside, irrespective of what Sana says or does inside. He knows her well enough by now to know that and he sure as hell knows the house well enough to know that.
For me, nothing has changed yet. If they stay together just like this, we'll see a lot more of SidNaaz. This may stay as what it is, or it'll turn into something else.. could be love, could be a friendship of a lifetime. I wouldn't label what they have.
It's hard enough living in that house, I don't want them to living with the pressure of figuring out their feelings for each other for the sake of us audience. They enjoy what they have. I think their fans have made it awkward enough for them already. Let things happen organically now.
The only thing I would hate is a ParNaaz angle to it, which I don't see happening but you never know with the makers.
PS: Paras also never said 'Sid ki moti' lol, he said jeet gayi moti jeet gayi. But He for sure knows Sid and Sana are super close and he would like for it to be that way only, at least as of now. Can't say what goes on his gamer mind though.
Edited by Bee93 - 6 years ago
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