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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

I’m so sorry for all that you had to go through. Good to know you’re doing better now. It’s never easy with these things and it’s a long journey but one step at a time makes a lot of difference.

Good luck and hope you keep getting better and better everyday!

I used to feel directionless when I wasn't aware of it...now that I made peace with it....and don't complain....I do things that are in my reach....like I have a direction now what I can do and don't....and can cope .

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I think we’re all ignorant at one time or another - until we personally suffer from anxiety/panic attacks or see someone go through an attack.


I experienced it for the first time when a work colleague had a panic attack, out of nowhere, and she wasn’t breathing, just sobbing and sobbing.. paper bag didn’t help so we called an ambulance. And it happened again a few more times. I learnt more about it, and got to know of more people and their different experiences.


I don’t have a problem with people who are ignorant of it, but I find it sad when they do come across it - those people don’t open their minds or they hold a dismissive attitude instead of an understanding one, seeking to learn what it is.

Those two - Shukla and Shehnaz came across so dismissive and on top of that, childish & spiteful.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Uma2010

Thankyou for atleast acknowledging that Sana had a panic attack- a neurotic breakdown of sorts. Hardly anybody does that here and frames it as nautanki, drama and more. And people expect breakdowns to follow some rigid robotic stereotype, when it can vary from person to person.

What makes this situation tough for Sana to emotionally empathize is that she is aware the victim here has issues with her and her attitude. And with Sid’s attitude too, irrespective of whether they are right or not. Sana going to her would only aggravate or suppress it and Sid going to her would give her wrong signals and just make her further emotionally dependent. Few therapists in this situation would advice either Sana or Sid to attend to Aarti under said circumstances, especially given the context of the earlier conversations he had had with her.

Absolutely right. And those few therapists will also advice you to make fun of the panic attack. Or justify coldly that you are not responsible for her. Ya maasi ki ladki thodi hain.

Please just go back to your thread where people like you and several others who love this bachchi can continue praising her.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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@Tm thanks for making this post.

People who have illness should openly say about it in public platforms and to people....to make it a normal thing.....and not live in shame.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Thanks for the post and after reading few comments i come to conclusion that i didn't properly saw the yesterday episode because i didn't even remember seeing shahnaaz scene, i just remember how Sid went to ask and rashmi asked him not to make fun and he left. I missed many scenes and dialogues it seems.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

I still don't know the root cause of my panic attack even after so many years.i would sleep for 3 -4 hrs only for years.I used to take medicines for piles and used to be super anxious.Felt as if hd to go washroom all the time..

It started somewhere like this.Then I was scared to go to theatres or anywhere or anywhere I feel trapped .Later I couldn't control myself when traffic signal would go red and get trapped in middle of people.Then I couldn't cross a divider and go to other side of road.I feared making mockery of myself.I stopped using vehicles.Nkw even if someone else is driving ,I do feel uneasy and feel choked on flyovers .

A dal boiling in cooker made be puke for 2 years .other boiling things also had same effect.

The day I m having fever ....I vomit even if I smell the vegetable cutting.

I used to use inhaler....not anymore.I used to do Pranayam nd I would keep breathing that way throughout months leading to lung exhaustion.

When I have panic attack....I feel I would lose control ...Before nobody wanted to accept ...there is a problem.

I and my family thought i m not making efforts to get well...It took 10 year for me to really understand .My friends who are doctors forced me to see doctor.Then no one in my family had history for it to be chronic.

So it got traced to not sleeping well.

🤗 Just wanted to give you one. And you're very brave. It's not easy dealing when family is skeptical. Most of the times when we see patients we prefer of there's an attendant who tags along cause everyone needs a support system. You can do it alone, no doubt. But knowing someone else is standing, gives a greater push in a lot of cases. And it's a sad truth but a lot of people still equate Depression, Anxiety and other mental illnesses to EXCUSES and as LAZINESS. When there's actually a lot more going on.

Am glad you sought help and received it. There's still so much stigma attached to Mental Health. But yes a dialogue has definitely been opened up in the recent years which is making it easier for people to seek treatment.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

I used to feel directionless when I wasn't aware of it...now that I made peace with it....and don't complain....I do things that are in my reach....like I have a direction now what I can do and don't....and can cope .

That’s great. Understanding parts that might trigger you and avoiding them are a great sign that you’re handling things well. Best wishes for all your future journeys!

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Thankyou TM for making this thread. I know we come here to discuss an entertainment show like BB but that’s why I love this forum where through a Medium of a show like BB we can discuss Issues like mental health for once keeping our likes and dislikes for particular contestants away.

Thankyou once again!

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I live in the US and I went to my nephew's graduation at school. And as soon as a student's name was called out to get his graduation degree the entire school erupted. Didn't realize what had happened and why until I saw the kid who was called. An autistic kid in a wheelchair and he was so excited at the kind of applause and cheering he was receiving from the entire school. Having a kid who is autistic it brought tears in my eyes. That empathy cannot be taught. That compassion cannot be faked. That comes from within. What Shukla and Sana, Paras, Mahira, Vishal did showed their real character. Their real personalities.

For all her faults Aarti is still a decent human being. Loyal and compassionate (as was evident when Sana had that meltdown).

Can someone get this on twitter and make it trend and keep posting it on Colors and Salman's account. This needs to be addressed and these vile people need to be taught a lesson.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Devil1234

Absolutely right. And those few therapists will also advice you to make fun of the panic attack. Or justify coldly that you are not responsible for her. Ya maasi ki ladki thodi hain.

Please just go back to your thread where people like you and several others who love this bachchi can continue praising her.

Not cool man. It's an open forum. How hard is it to overlook posts that you don't wanna reply to? I almost didn't wanna quote this either. But she's my friend. I don't mean Sana (find her annoying af ) I mean the member and even if we're on the opposite teams this season I don't like that she's being told to get off a thread where everyone's free to comment. It's extremely condescending and uncalled for.

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