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Posted: 6 years ago
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Married or not, I believe that Anurag is Prerna's husband. Father of her child is Anurag. Then she is all right reserved.

In today society, people are living together without legally signed marriage and they share their life for life long, have children. They have mutual understanding. We use to accept these type of marriage, no any act against.

But, some people got legally married and cheat their husband or wife, exploit their property, money and finally left with other man or women. These type of people need laws.

However, Anurag did not cheat his Prerna.

Japanese proverb ........Good people do not need laws to tell them to act responsibly, while bad people will find a way around the laws….😕😕😕

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Posted: 6 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: Reemz11

If you’re married in a mandir, you’re legally married? Is that how it works in India?

Not a Mandir or something. But if the wedding is complete as per the rituals, like all rituals, pheras, and whatever other things are there, then it is valid, irrespective of registration. Registration is recommendatory coz it helps as evidence, and mandatory registration is based on State laws.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: masdhu

😃😃😃😃

Married or not, I believe that Anurag is Prerna's husband. Father of her child is Anurag. Then she is all right reserved.

In today society, people are living together without legally signed marriage and they share their life for life long, have children. They have mutual understanding. We use to accept these type of marriage, no any act against.

But, some people got legally married and cheat their husband or wife, exploit their property, money and finally left with other man or women. These type of people need laws.

However, Anurag did not cheat his Prerna.

Good people do not need laws to tell them to act responsibly, while bad people will find a way around the laws….😕😕😕

Japanese proverb

Ditto! I agree. Marriages aren't do all and end all. Then, why does he feel the need to apply Sindoor and stuff to her? Coz that's a significance of marriage. People who are in love don't need Sindoor or MS, or Chooda or whatever to signify their relationship. And there are so many married women who don't apply these things or wear MS. When we are in that world and Anurag and Prerna believe in the divine union of souls, why are we constantly being shown temple mein Sindoor, and those footsteps and all? Those are traditional ritual-based things. I agree with whatever you have said. Bad people find a way around the laws.

A lot of people who live together without being married, also believe they don't need to have tags that define them such as "husband" and "wife". Then why are Anurag and Prerna looking out for those tags? If it is so beautiful, why do they have a need to have a tangible evidence for the same in the form of Sindoor? And not once, Anurag did it twice.

P. S. See, I don't think marriages are important for two people to be in love, and I also don't believe if you are married, you just cannot love someone else. People fall in love all the time. However, Anurag is shown to be super righteous, so is Prerna. But their righteousness is shown to be selective. They believe in rituals, that's why Sindoor, they don't believe in rituals but in their own love, so they don't complete their dhaaga Shaadi but consummate it before they complete it. They believe in rituals so Prerna wanted that chunri so badly before marriage, they don't believe in rituals, so Prerna applies Sindoor when the marriage hasn't been completed and says he's her husband, coz she thinks he is. When her thinking suffices, why insist on the chunri? Coz she didn't even get the chunri in the end. Bloody, it resulted in the accident, his memory loss and all. And now it seems as if the Oh So Important chunri didn't even matter, coz Anurag seems to be her husband nevertheless.

Your points are all valid. But the CVs have split the entire characterisation of AnuPre in these two opposite ways, that contradict and contrast each other. And that's something I find difficult to accept. However to each his own, and you are entitled to your views. ;)

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

What are you saying, Najma?

None of them knew that they were even married to go and tell others.

Jab baccho ko pata hi nahi tha ke shadi ho rahe hai to shadi kaisi? 🤔

Ye to Prerna ji mandir me ro rahi thi tab pandit je dimag ki batti jali - beta, tum shadi shuda ho. Wo ladke ne jo tumhe dhaga pehnaya tha wo koi sadharan dhaga nahi tha. Sadiyo ke baad aisa pavitra muhurat ata hai jisme dhaga = varmala.

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Dude I didn't watch that track. 😆 Did some shit like this happen? That's why my comments based on that Shaadi are solely based on what everyone else says here, I don't give any assertions of occurrence or completeness.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: najma123

Ditto! I agree. Marriages aren't do all and end all. Then, why does he feel the need to apply Sindoor and stuff to her? Coz that's a significance of marriage. People who are in love don't need Sindoor or MS, or Chooda or whatever to signify their relationship. And there are so many married women who don't apply these things or wear MS. When we are in that world and Anurag and Prerna believe in the divine union of souls, why are we constantly being shown temple mein Sindoor, and those footsteps and all? Those are traditional ritual-based things. I agree with whatever you have said. Bad people find a way around the laws.

A lot of people who live together without being married, also believe they don't need to have tags that define them such as "husband" and "wife". Then why are Anurag and Prerna looking out for those tags? If it is so beautiful, why do they have a need to have a tangible evidence for the same in the form of Sindoor? And not once, Anurag did it twice.

P. S. See, I don't think marriages are important for two people to be in love, and I also don't believe if you are married, you just cannot love someone else. People fall in love all the time. However, Anurag is shown to be super righteous, so is Prerna. But their righteousness is shown to be selective. They believe in rituals, that's why Sindoor, they don't believe in rituals but in their own love, so they don't complete their dhaaga Shaadi but consummate it before they complete it. They believe in rituals so Prerna wanted that chunri so badly before marriage, they don't believe in rituals, so Prerna applies Sindoor when the marriage hasn't been completed and says he's her husband, coz she thinks he is. When her thinking suffices, why insist on the chunri? Coz she didn't even get the chunri in the end. Bloody, it resulted in the accident, his memory loss and all. And now it seems as if the Oh So Important chunri didn't even matter, coz Anurag seems to be her husband nevertheless.

Your points are all valid. But the CVs have split the entire characterisation of AnuPre in these two opposite ways, that contradict and contrast each other. And that's something I find difficult to accept. However to each his own, and you are entitled to your views. ;)

Dear Najma,

I think that Anurag applied sindoor on Prerna to remark his authority as a lover/husband. Love and behaviour of lovers.

Most of girl/boy they love to have their marriage with all rituals. A wish of lovers. After AnuPre marriage in mandir, the marriage was not accepted by Mohini and family. That is why Prerna told Anurag and requested to have social marriage which is a dream of any girl. Anurag promised to get married Prerna again with all rituals due to make Prerna happy. Lover/husband/wife always try to facilitate their partner, fulfill their wishes and make them happy.

I feel, AnuPre do not need social marriage and mandir marriage is more than enough to live peacefully and happily.

Finally, this is a drama and I just watch and enjoy to release the stresses. AnuPre togetherness makes my brain cool. 😃😃

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Posted: 6 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: masdhu

Dear Najma,

I think that Anurag applied sindoor on Prerna to remark his authority as a lover/husband. Love and behaviour of lovers.

Most of girl/boy they love to have their marriage with all rituals. A wish of lovers. After AnuPre marriage in mandir, the marriage was not accepted by Mohini and family. That is why Prerna told Anurag and requested to have social marriage which is a dream of any girl. Anurag promised to get married Prerna again with all rituals due to make Prerna happy. Lover/husband/wife always try to facilitate their partner, fulfill their wishes and make them happy.

I feel, AnuPre do not need social marriage and mandir marriage is more than enough to live peacefully and happily.

Finally, this is a drama and I just watch and enjoy to release the stresses. AnuPre togetherness makes my brain cool. 😃😃

Whatever gives you peace of mind, is cool. 👍🏼 But what I have inferred from this thread, there's not really a lot clarity on what they are showing, what they believe in, and what is understood. You have clarified that you feel a proper marriage isn't necessary. That's cool.

However, there are some views that they indeed had a proper marriage and therefore Komo is a nobody or whatever. Of course she might be lying through her teeth, I am not fighting for her rights. 😆

But some points say, her marriage was done, and some other points say, Prerna believes she's married to Anurag, and that makes her, her husband. You, as a fan rooting for your couple, is acceptable. But, Prerna, as a character believing Anurag to be her husband in heart, would be difficult to accept when she's shown to believe in a lot of rituals as well. When you say, most boys/girls want to have that marriage etc, you mean these two want it too, which means, they don't accept their own togetherness as a valid assurance of togetherness.

If you say, they don't need it anyways, coz it's not important, then, the chunri crap is completely futile. Waste of petrol coz Anurag drove down, Anurag's life at stake coz he almost died, he's lost his memory too, over some stupid chunri that Prerna wanted. Which Prerna wanted it? The one who believes in rituals? Or the one who believes one's union of hearts is valid enough to be called married? You tell me, if both of these can exist in the same person?

As far as Mohini not accepting it, and therefore they had to get married again with all the rituals, I'll Accept that totally. 👊🏻 However, I come back to the point of that same chunri, for which even Mohini wasn't in favour. Now if it was only for the purpose of story progression, again, wrong story progression, it gets portrayed in poor light.

As far as stress relief is concerned, I am happy your stress is relieved watching KZK. EK has achieved at least one thing right with this shoddy excuse of a serial. 🤗 Anyway I find the Forum more fun than the show ever was. If half the passion that fans here for their characters were present in the writing of the serial, we'd probably be far ahead.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Mohini who said that the marriage was incomplete later said angrily that anupre marriage has become complete when they took saath phere during the holi track.This is called TV marriage.so its better not look 4 logic in marriage

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Najma , the thread and the replies here are so challenging ..like to what extent a damn idiotic serial can do to our brains ! .at least say that it's not clear as to who is married to whom...😆 means If that dhaga shadi is the only one which was valid and legal and this is what that matters , itna dirama kyun hai bhia shadiyon ko leke🤣 itniiii saari shadiyan , shadi ki tayari, fancy dress competion tha? Anu komo, bajaj pre, almost 2 shadis of anurag? Why are they wasting their time here ,just settle down ..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: jasminerahul

Mohini who said that the marriage was incomplete later said angrily that anupre marriage has become complete when they took saath phere during the holi track.This is called TV marriage.so its better not look 4 logic in marriage

I have inferred the entire point of this thread to be as an attempt to derive logic where there was none in the first place. Lol.

So if that was complete, then it was still annulled later right?

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

Najma , the thread and the replies here are so challenging ..like to what extent a damn idiotic serial can do to our brains ! .at least say that it's not clear as to who is married to whom...😆 means If that dhaga shadi is the only one which was valid and legal and this is what that matters , itna dirama kyun hai bhia shadiyon ko leke🤣 itniiii saari shadiyan , shadi ki tayari, fancy dress competion tha? Anu komo, bajaj pre, almost 2 shadis of anurag? Why are they wasting their time here ,just settle down ..

I have all the time in the world for the next month to indulge in anything pointless. 😆 So I am here, making the most of my break. I find this Forum like a hundred times more engaging than that sorry excuse of a serial. 😆

You have raised a valid question, something even I was asking. When they could finish off the wedding so smoothly in the temple, why all this hype, why different coloured lehengas each time Prerna wants to get married and all. 😆

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