Originally posted by: manzilmukul
I haven’t watched some bits which you are mentioning, so I will take your description as a reflection of what goes on in the mind of a regular viewer. Picking a pregnant friend in arms and talking to the unborn child will be the most spooky thing done by someone who we call as a friend.
Mishti, your comment is elaborate and to the point. My problem is the complete ambiguous status of their relationship and justification of idiocy in the name of divine love.
Piu, there is nothing ambiguous about the status of their relationship. They are NOT married. PERIOD! Prerna is a divorcee and Anurag is a married man.
Sindoor bharna is NOT an equivalent to marriage. Marrige involves oaths taken in the presence of the holy fire, scared chants, rituals and a lot more. In KZK, marriage, its rituals and its importance has been reduced to a joke by the makers in the name of creative liberty, just to show some cheap lollipop scenes!
If Sindoor lagana really pronounced the two parties involved to me man and wife, then Erica would be Shaheer, Parth and Karan's wife, because in the course of her profession, she like countless other Actors/Actresses have performed the Sindoor bharna scene! The makers are taking creative liberty like always to suit their story telling.
Regarding divine love, calling the ML and FL's relationship as divine love is an insult to both divinity and love. Divine love was what Radha and Krishna had or what Meera had for her Mohan! Radha respected Krishna's marriage to Rukmani. This is why their love is divine and they are true soulmates. I could go on here but the IF rules prevent me. For record, I am not name calling any characters here, just giving an example. If it is not allowed, I will edit it.
The FL's actions in the last Komo-track or even the current Sona-track are that of a home wrecker! Not someone who held her head high and dignity and walked out at the right time. The FL did not event respect her won marriage in the last track, what with allowing her ex-lover to touch her everywhere and in front of everyone. Once the ML and FL were brought under the same roof, they started EMA and finally ended with Adultery all under the garb of divine love. Therefore, the TRP audience rejected that track! And once again, we will see another sasta trashy track of two women, legally wedded wife and ex-lover fighting for a married man's attention once again under the garb of divine love!
To me Piu, the ML and FL are not in love, because as i said earlier, Love elevates you, makes you a better person. It cannot ever degrade you and what degrades you can never be love. Something as positive as love cannot have such a negative impact. To me it appears to be a sever case of infatuation which the ML and FL have mistaken as love, thanks to being separated from each other owing to their own decisions. Their relationship is so toxic, especially for Prerna, that she not only lost her father, she also lost her self respect, her dignity, her individuality, her independence, her childhood home and the right to a happy and fulfilled life. Further, she is also en-route to losing her other family members and may be her child too, thanks to her actions!
Love involves Respect, Trust, Honesty, Understanding, Communication, Personal Identity and Equality. Their relationship does not have even one of these essential components. In my opinion, they are more in love with the idea of being in love than actually being in love. I don't know if I made any sense here. This, then begs the question of what actually drives the ML and FL to fight the world and their own destines to remain in a toxic relationship?
To me, it appears that the FL's driving force to be in this toxic and poisonous relationship is her belief that she is one of those lucky ones to have fallen in love, like they show in Hindi movies. The FL was said to be a Bollywood fan and appears to have grown up watching the 90's ka pehla pyaar akhri pyaar kind of movies that perpetuate the myth involving first love. These movies appear to have impacted her psyche to such an extent that she has mistaken her infatuation to be love. It is the FL's idea of being in love that has turned her blind to her own plight and the plight of her loved ones. The FL is doing everything possible in her power to hold on to it, as once shown/portrayed in Bollywood movies. The FL may win against Komo/Sona and/or Mohini, but still she will lose herself. Earlier as well, the FL was in the process of losing herself and her family to fit into the ML's world and after the current track, she will be subjected to the same thing. She will never emerge a winner. She will still be a loser because she will never get any respect or real appreciation from them due to her low born status. She will have to lose herself, her dignity, her individuality, her independence and her relationships just to stay in BB and yet the BB wasis will never accept her wholeheartedly.Love inspires you to be a better version of yourself. Not lose yourself completely! I wish someone could shake some sense into her and open her eyes to the destruction around her and its root cause!
The driving force of the ML on the other hand is entitlement! this is because the ML is used to getting what ever he has ever desired. So, there is a streak of entitlement in him that makes him cross all kinds of boundaries always! Being the favored child who got his hearts desire the moment the word left his mouth, the FL is something that he desires but cannot have due to his own decisions and hers as well. The ML feels he is entitled to get what he wants and to achieve that he risks everything that he has, read, business and his loving parents. The ML was ready to squander away his father's hard earned money just to force the FL to say with him in his house while she was married. The ML planned his accident with no regard for his ailing father and mother, just to garner the FL's sympathy. Entitled kids when denied something they want or desire, throw tantrums until their wishes are fulfilled. The ML will also not stop until he gets what he wants, but to at what cost? The ML's entitlement has not only negatively impacted him and his family, but also the FL too. In fact, the worst victim of this is the FL for all that she has already lost and will lose!
PS: Regarding the long lost and once again recently met childhood friend touching his married and pregnant friends tummy and talking to the kid, don't get me started on it! It is so so wrong and creepy is so many ways. Once I start on it, I will end up writing a book. Will post my views on the creative liberties taken with what is acceptable between childhood friends in a later post.
Edited by MishtyShona - 6 years ago