Minnie was already guilt-ridden from the hospital conversation onwards. She could see how much he loved her and cared for her well-being, the fact that he was willing to give up the chance of being with Babita just for her.
Everything was in their eyes including, as you said, their inner battle with their emotions while trying to act as if all was fine in the world. The "bohot takleef hui, but it's ok" line just pierces might heart every single time and the background music doesn't help. Minnie's heart is in her eyes as she sees the effect of her outburst on him and knows how much takleef he feels indeed, yet tries to keep up appearances in front of the very woman this whole 'fight' was about.
When she said she was too heavy for him, it was nothing to do with her body weight but everything to do with all the baggage she came with, which was something he had never considered too big a burden. I do love the haq with which he shushes her and takes her upstairs - AD did a great job with that stoic face which showed HS' self control as he took his daughter to her room, tucked her in and was about to leave.
It's was a great follow up to their fight in the room when he finds out exactly what he means to her, how much she idolizes him, wants to be like him, what a huge impact he's had on her life, that she considered him her Hanuman Uncle. Before all this, I don't think he'd ever imagined he was that important to her, enough to change her views about life, love, and men. Sure, he knew she adored him as an uncle, but to have been placed on a pedestal like that and then to somehow have disappointed her for failing to meet the expectations she had of him, which he had previously never known, was too much for him to take. I can't forget HS' stunned face when she tells him to his face that he was her hero, her idol.
All her words were running through his mind and he was hurt for having unknowingly hurting her too. Sigh...
I have been wondering what it is that makes this bond so touching to watch, compared to other (also) adorable father-daughter relationships on screen. I think it's because rarely on ITV are we show the emotions of men in their roles as father with this level of detail, with the nuances that we see in PB. A mother's emotions and her pain and fears are quite often focused on but fathers don't often get this treatment on screen. On top of that, they have no blood or legal ties when this scene happened, yet HS' ability to understand Minnie so so well, despite knowing her only for a few months, was just phenomenal to watch.
She made him a father and he made her a daughter.
You put it so beautifully Jean, I am a fan of your writing now 😆
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
