Originally posted by: annihilation
You know, I think that won't even make a difference now? Certain realisations dawn upon you only when they're meant to. If she hadn't gone all soft on him again today, she prolly would have been able to look at things from a third perspective. But now that she seems keen on rekindling the dictatorship cum friendship, I doubt if she'll walk away again.
That’s why Salman needs to do say it to her, she will listen to him in that intense way of hers. And he needs to say it in harsh words - that she is coming across as a doormat that he wipes his feet on, time and time again. That she looks like she has no love or respect for herself when she lets him tell her when and where and how to speak, not to mention when he snaps at her for no good reason. That if she’s come here to represent a strong woman, she needs to wake up and realise that she’s representing the absolute opposite.
There’s a difference between having an ego and having self respect. If you feel you haven’t done anything wrong, stick up for yourself and speak out. If you have self respect, make sure your so-called friends treat you with basic respect.
After that, if she continues, fine. But I remember during Tanisha’s time, no one properly told her just how bad she was looking. It was only during that adalat task towards the end, she heard the doormat comment, and then she fumed.
By the way, if someone in the house has trouble in comprehending what Shukla means, they should just focus on the first sentence he says and you'll know what he actually means to say.
'isiliye nahi kyunki tum log ko akkal nahi hain...'
'isliye nahi kyunki tumhara dimaagh nahi chalta...'
'isliye nahi kyunki tumhein dabana hain...'
'isliye nahi kyunki tum kar nahi sakte...'
etc. Everything else he adds thereafter is just manipulation.
Yep. He tries to fool people with talking in a contrary way but you can’t fool everybody.
And sometimes he doesn’t even need to be contrary. For example -
- Girls did so well, better than I expected. I’m not saying girls are weak but they did better than I expected.
Err you ARE saying that due to girl’s physiques being weaker, you didn’t expect them to do as well as they did. And it’s OKAY to say that. Paras said it and it’s common sense. But he wants to cover himself with his words, and deny he’s saying something for the very reason that he is.
Edited by Sakina3 - 6 years ago