Originally posted by: Aslesha99
Just one last post to clarify myself.
Prerna was calling herself Anu's wife in the presence of the police officer and women from the NGO based on the dedh marriage which got nullfied later on to justify her marrying Bajaj. Just calling yourself someones wife in front of other people and getting the supposed spouse to apply sindoor doesn't make you married to them.
Prerna divorced Bajaj and had a durga maa "marriage" with Anu with him applying sindoor but doesn't constitute to a legal marriage. Durga maa "marriages" don't hold importance in the eyes of the law and the fact that Prerna had to divorce Bajaj to marry Anu shows PreRish were legally married and non of the earlier dedh, durga maa, half or whatever marriages Anupre had hold any importance.
Alesha i understand your concern about the legal marraige stuff. Currently anu and pre both are single only. I know you would say but komo is anu's legal first wife well 1) their marraige was incomplete as per bengali rituals thats what many in the forum said and also mohini's dialogues indicate that. Now you say only social marraige is legal as bajaj pre but just because they didn't show actual legal paper work until divorce topic how can we assume that they did registered it somewhere just like it was not shown in anu komo marriage case along with their incomplete social wedding. In that cenario even anu pre did gandhrav viva in front of durga maa and pandit just saying if only completeing some rituals of pre bajaj is ok than i say gandhrav vivah is also fine.
2) if you do consider that anukomo marraige is valid its ok but as per law only if your supposedly partner is missing from long time or presumed dead it gives you separation on those basis and thats what i have read. Old marriage gets dissolved as per my understanding. So right now anu is very much single in front of law.
Honestly how much every social wedding you do it doesn't change the fact the main purpose of the marraige is too unit two individual with their full consent and devotion for eachother. If its not their than maybe they can work towards it but just because society says that you are bound is just a outer shell to protect the law but marraige has more to it than just society's stamp or approval.
As for EMA i dont see where the EMA comes into picture based on my explanation above about anu and pre being very much single and they have all the right to be connected even with baby.
Cheers 🤗
Sorry TM for diverting the topic.