When will Prerna learn? - Page 11

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Best post of the day I have read today. 👍🏼 The bit about not giving two hoots about the feelings of others is so so right and I have said the same quite a few times here already. This girl doesnt know anything about marriage, does not care for it, does not regard it, I dont understand why she wants to get or stay married to Anurag anyways. Agar mann mein 'married hai' maan lene se married hai, tou itna taam jhaam kiun har 3 mahine mei. 🤪

I am waiting for the track or day when she realizes what she has become or what she always has been. And tries to upgrade herself.

Do you really think ,it's ever going to happen 🙄

Originally posted by: -RD-

She doesnt have to learn because she is an empowered victim playing woman of today and this shit lack of self respect full of humilation no where to go life is her choice of her life...in the name of soulmate love

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.~ Lao Tzu

She neither got the strength from the love nor has her own feelings given her any courage ~ losers paradise overall but well empowered choice it is

And if other chars can be bashed and not accepted for what they are then the same should apply to Pre or else not bash anyone and accept them as they are shall we and where was this graciousness in the last few months 🤔😆wouldnt have to deal with so many reports 😆

Now that's called sass!

Drumrolls please... RD has arrived! 😎

She will never learn. As long as she links her existence to the men in her life, she will never learn. She has been insulted by the man she loves, by his family innumerable number of times. Her mother has been insulted by her soulmate's family. She didn't feel bad for any of those things.

Now, she has been thrown out of the house in the middle of the night and she will still be ok with it. So basically as a woman, as a daughter and as a lover her self respect is ZILCH. I don't know whether she even being a mother will change her because till now, she's shown ZERO concern for the baby growing inside her.

So yeah, point is that she will never learn

When Will Prerna learn? Never. WHY? Because she doesn’t want to. She has linked her existence to the men In her life. She has no opinion, no thought, no self respect, no idea of self awareness beyond being another mans wife. Look back to the first track. She wanted to save her house by marrying a man. Then fought for Anu though it was shown TO HER, he didn’t give a shit abt her. Then married Bajaj to save her Anu, now again, she says Anu will remember me, marriage to others doesn’t mean anything.... in all this, I see her linking herself to MEN to irreversibly, that itself is her IDENTITY. when you tie yourself to people like P has, there is no independence of thought, values, ideals. She is co-dependent on Anu, by extension his family. Which is SO alarming.

Why don’t fans want her to give everyone the finger, and raise her child in complete independence. Be the strong woman you claim to he for yourself. For your child.

From a story prespective, there should be some line, if not a middle ground, but some pull/ push to even out the scales.
With Bajaj, they made a Deal, then HE worked to make that marriage work, lost his Damn mind and gave her everything she ever wanted back. Even though Maasi plotted against Vee, she supported her against Basus, even when RB was in jail. Within the Bajaj world, she was respected, valued And loved. You think Bajaj would kick her out the way Basus did? Even when Anu was in coma or whatevr, P was free to choose what she wanted to do.

I don’t see that with Basus. Ever. She gives gives and gives. Mohini doesn’t give a flying f**k about Prerna. She has no problems choosing Sona over Pre even though Pre is pregnant with her GRANDCHILD. A woman who you have known for 30 secs over a woman that has literally sacrificed herself for her son. And, What Mohini says the Basus do. From getting her to marry Naveen for her house, to now, Mohini has cost P her freaking life. And, even then P will never be good enough. In the Basu world, Pre doesn’t matter. There will not be anything to even out the power imbalance causing so much toxicity in that relationship.

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

I am confused after reading the replies here... Is Prerna's lack of self respect the problem or her putting Basu above everything else?

Actually it's both. And it's inter-related like someone said. Because she lacks self respect completely to an amount to zero, she puts Basu above everything else. If she had 0.000001% of worth, she won't be putting these scum of people above hers. Whatever she is, she's 10000 times better than the Basus, but she cannot see that.

Prerna is a motti gaderi. The worst character of this era..ridiculous

Originally posted by: durga33

can you believe it? Both parents of basu asked her to leave and she still refuses to go. I know in the REAL world when someone throws a person out their house that person feels shame and disgraced. What does prerna feel exactly? Her feelings, existence is based on basu only and without basu is she an empty vessel? It looks that way. Mohini can shout at the top of her lungs for prerna to leave and she would still stand in the door. Sad! I'm more concerned for the baby. Prerna fell twice on her stomach and haven't eaten a proper meal. She is always crying and stressed out. I'm surprised the baby is still there and there is no miscarriage. Any normal person would say "I got a baby inside of me to take care of and look after" but again basu comes first before her mom, family and child.

They’ve not had a single scene for Prerna & the baby. No reflection or talking to the child even now when the bump is showing. Are they actually planning to keep the kid in the show?

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

I am confused after reading the replies here... Is Prerna's lack of self respect the problem or her putting Basu above everything else?

As others have said, it’s both intertwined :)

Originally posted by: RollingStones

Everything problem actually ....😆

Every and anything that can help to lay a ground to make Basu’s look Bad and gives reasons to make Bajaj look Superior ....

but ofcourse with tunnel vision 😉......

Ahh but you see, everyone who has a bias has a tunnel vision so don’t forget, your perspective is not excluded from that ‘tunnel vision’ either. 😉

Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

Exactly ifm Basus and Prerna have been like this and no-one denies that Mohini hates Prerna from the first episode itself. But how does that mean Anurag and Prerna don't deserve their share of happiness which lies in each other. I don't think it's so difficult to see that for Prerna Anurag is above everything.

If this topic was about whether Anurag & Prerna deserve each other then the topic would be called ‘Do Anurag and Prerna deserve each other?’ - in my eyes they do because they’re both equally annoying AF in their own ways. But that’s not the topic :)