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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: sanabmw

ofcourse hajj par Jane se pehle apne sab farz pure karne chahiye.

you're right hajj se pehle bhi hamare per woh farayz hai jiski toh maafi bhi nhi .. namaz. Roza....ek beemar insan ko bhi namaz maaf nhi hai...itni ehmiyat hai ...hum hajj ki talab mein rehte hain per apne farz poore nhi kerte ..Allah hame maaf kare.. Ager hum apne namaz pabandagi se parhe, roze rakhain, maa baap ki khidmat kare..aas pass ke logon ko khush rakhe toh beshaq Allah hamari her faryaad sunne wala hai...woh akeli aurat ko mehram ataa kerne wala hai taki uski hajj ki khwahish poori hojaye...aur beshaq woh bohat reham aur raheem hai.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: sanabmw

awida ye baat bhi dil me Allah daalte hai.. aajkal log namaz nahi padhte, roza nahi rakhte zakaat nahi dete.. Deen se duri karege to Allah se bhi to duri hogi na.


hadees me hai k agar aap healthy hai and bina wajah aapne ek roza miss kar diya phir aap chahe puri life roza rakhe phir bhi us ek roze ka KAFFARA nahi adaa kar sakte.. and log ek kya koi bhi roza nahi rakhte.. people said garmi hai.. ye hai.. wo hai.. IMAAN ki Kami hogi than har cheez ki Kami ho jati hai

Allah hume aur humare baccho ko samjh de ameen

May Allah grant us hidayat , and make everybody follow sirat e mustaqeem. I am sad coz many times in prayer I don't really feel what I am doing, my mind goes elsewhere, also in roza , sometimes my tounge slips. Even in Hijj I had tough time trying to ignore those ppl who disturbed me. Our lives are full of tests, it is not easy to keep imaan strong, and stop doing mistakes. Sometimes niyyat achchi but sulook achchi nahih hai. 😒

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: awida

Those faqeehs who allowed women to go in group to perform hijj, compare hadeeths, they studied many of them to come to a result , which is that hijj is not like any other travel. It is rukn in Islam. They found another evidents to come to a conclusion. And even those faqeehs who say that women can't travel without mehram said that she committed a sin but her hijj is right.😃

Having a mehram isnt a condition to do Hajj or Umrah but only to travel. The point is that a person should concentrate on following Islamic rulings before performing Hajj as they are more important.

Aisa nahi ke log yeh soch ke jaye ke kuch bhi karke chale jao Hajj ho jayega to sab maaf ho jayega this intention is wrong

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: .nilu.

you're right hajj se pehle bhi hamare per woh farayz hai jiski toh maafi bhi nhi .. namaz. Roza....ek beemar insan ko bhi namaz maaf nhi hai...itni ehmiyat hai ...hum hajj ki talab mein rehte hain per apne farz poore nhi kerte ..Allah hame maaf kare.. Ager hum apne namaz pabandagi se parhe, roze rakhain, maa baap ki khidmat kare..aas pass ke logon ko khush rakhe toh beshaq Allah hamari her faryaad sunne wala hai...woh akeli aurat ko mehram ataa kerne wala hai taki uski hajj ki khwahish poori hojaye...aur beshaq woh bohat reham aur raheem hai.

@red . Very beautifully said. It is Allah ki karam that women are treated in a different way because they are weak, and their physiology is different. We don't do namaz in period , also we don't do roza in that case but we have to do qaza after that. We don't have to do Hijj if we don't have mehram. It shows how mercifull is Allah. And how blessed we are because we are muslims.🤗Alhamdulillah.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: heavenlybliss

Having a mehram isnt a condition to do Hajj or Umrah but only to travel. The point is that a person should concentrate on following Islamic rulings before performing Hajj as they are more important.

Aisa nahi ke log yeh soch ke jaye ke kuch bhi karke chale jao Hajj ho jayega to sab maaf ho jayega this intention is wrong

As you said it. It depends on intention. I have a friend who lived with her mom , they had no mehram. They went to Saudi Arabia to visit some relatives . When it was time for Hijj, they performed Hijj. I say if they travelled without mehram so they should perform hijj too , coz they where there already.😃

This year this friend lost her mom. She is now 40+ plus yrs, she went with a group to perform Umrah. She loves Allah, and feels peacefull in those Holy places. I know her intention must be right coz Allah helped her to be able to do Hijj and Umrah although she is poor. She always find ppl who help her.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Just saw the episode ...what a besharam aurat Mehwish is ! Any decent woman in her position would have slapped Shawar for lieing about the meeting ..how long has she even known Shawar ?!

She had no shame what so ever ...she will regret it no doubt ! But i dont want Danish to forgive her ever

She has become so vicious towards him

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: awida

As you said it. It depends on intention. I have a friend who lived with her mom , they had no mehram. They went to Saudi Arabia to visit some relatives . When it was time for Hijj, they performed Hijj. I say if they travelled without mehram so they should perform hijj too , coz they where there already.😃

This year this friend lost her mom. She is now 40+ plus yrs, she went with a group to perform Umrah. She loves Allah, and feels peacefull in those Holy places. I know her intention must be right coz Allah helped her to be able to do Hijj and Umrah although she is poor. She always find ppl who help her.

You see, when Allah wants to invite someone to his house He will show them the way. People should be patient and have faith instead of finding illegal ways.

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Posted: 6 years ago

I don't think its must to settle your kids before going to hajj.

I took a course with a qualified ustazah who explained the fiqh regarding hajj and umrah from Quran and saheeh hadith.


We have to make sure we leave behind money for people who are dependant on us that includes children. Money for their clothes, food and shelter etc.

There wasn't any requirement about 40 neighbors etc or such. Although it is found in saheeh hadith that 40 houses from every dorection of one's home count as neighbors.


Btw I respect all the Imams and admire their contribution in interpreting the fiqh for common man. But as Imam Hanafi had said and I paraphrase, If we find a saheeh hadith against anyone of his interpretations , we should let go of that and follow the hadith.

I believe that Quran , saheeh Hadith , sunnah come before anything. Also references are important to transmit islamic knowledge.

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/46992/brief-overview-of-the-madhhab-of-imam-abu-haneefah


Please check this link , it beautifully explains my stance fiqhi madhab and the ayma ikram.

Edited by abyan62 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago

I have done the course too. And thanks for the link this is a really reliable website i use for all my questions

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: abyan62

I don't think its must to settle your kids before going to hajj.

I took a course with a qualified ustazah who explained the fiqh regarding hajj and umrah from Quran and saheeh hadith.


We have to make sure we leave behind money for people who are dependant on us that includes children. Money for their clothes, food and shelter etc.

There wasn't any requirement about 40 neighbors etc or such. Although it is found in saheeh hadith that 40 houses from every dorection of one's home count as neighbors.


Btw I respect all the Imams and admire their contribution in interpreting the fiqh for common man. But as Imam Hanafi had said and I paraphrase, If we find a saheeh hadith against anyone of his interpretations , we should let go of that and follow the hadith.

I believe that Quran , saheeh Hadith , sunnah come before anything. Also references are important to transmit islamic knowledge.

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/46992/brief-overview-of-the-madhhab-of-imam-abu-haneefah


Please check this link , it beautifully explains my stance fiqhi madhab and the ayma ikram.

Its not a requirement or a condition that you have to fulfil otherwise your hajj wont be complete but it is a responsibility and if you are torn between your childs marriage and hajj then its recommended to prioritize your children first

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