To prerna, a woman--from another woman.

So here we have a young woman, on the cusp of the most life changing and important time of her life. And my heart just breaks for her. Yes she has done some silly things, but at every moment, she has walked the straight path as much as she could. This is the woman, who not a short while ago has sacrificed her entire life for the man she loves. She married a stranger, who hid his entire motive behind marrying her and then one fine day just handed over his special needs child to her without even once asking her consent. But what did she do? She welcomed that child with open arms and showered all her maternal love on her. Did she, even once question the man if he was right to separate her unborn child from its father? Or did she shirk away from the girl in her anger at her father.? She was a young woman, happily engaged to the love of her life one day, and married to a complete stranger, one she hated no less, the next. And since then, She has once again cruelly been subjected to the fate where she has to see that love day in and day out. Answer his heartbroken questions, meet all the accusing eyes, all the while keeping up her facade. Can we even perceive how difficult it is to see anger and disappointment in the eyes of those we love the most? But she lives with everyday. She keeps up the promise she gave her husband and keeps her love tucked away in her heart. Why is she wrong to love the man? Hadn't she always made it clear that she would always love him? So why is she wrong to care for him, look out for him, leave everything and run to him.? She never hid that, never promised anything otherwise. When her husband accepted it the day he married her, why not today?

And let's talk about today. This woman has kept it all bottled up inside, accepting all the hatred and accusations coming her way. She has made the ultimate sacrifice and yet she suffers in silence. And today, on the day exactly a year before when her life started changing forever, why do we begrudge her a day or a moment to break down. To look back and just grieve!! What is so wrong if she just takes a little time to grieve for all that she has lost. AND what is so terrible if she does that in the arms of the man who means everything to her? Why is it such a terrible thing is for one moment, one day she is not a wife or mother but just a woman, a person, who has lost everything?

It is said that a woman is a woman's greatest enemy, and I somehow understand that today. We have all the patience and understanding for the bajajs and anurag of the world. Anurag is justified because he's heartbroken, bajaj because he had a bad childhood, but prerna?? There's never any justifications for prerna, just judgements. She is just a possession for th emen in this show and a puppet to be bashed for its audience. I feel for her today. As a woman, a wife and a mother, I feel.

P. S. I STILL have issues with prerna. I have had them since the beginning of this track and I continue to have them today. But prerna surely does not deserve the level of vitriol she's being subjected to today and this thread is just for those who do not think she is so bad and has in fact the best qualities of the lot of the 3 main leads. If you don't agree, please stay away. It's not so difficult to not comment on something that's not to your liking.

Originally posted by: hope4u

So here we have a young woman, on the cusp of the most life changing and important time of her life. And my heart just breaks for her. Yes she has done some silly things, but at every moment, she has walked the straight path as much as she could. This is the woman, who not a short while ago has sacrificed her entire life for the man she loves. She married a stranger, who hid his entire motive behind marrying her and then one fine day just handed over his special needs child to her without even once asking her consent. But what did she do? She welcomed that child with open arms and showered all her maternal love on her. Did she, even once question the man if he was right to separate her unborn child from its father? Or did she shirk away from the girl in her anger at her father.? She was a young woman, happily engaged to the love of her life one day, and married to a complete stranger, one she hated no less, the next. And since then, She has once again cruelly been subjected to the fate where she has to see that love day in and day out. Answer his heartbroken questions, meet all the accusing eyes, all the while keeping up her facade. Can we even perceive how difficult it is to see anger and disappointment in the eyes of those we love the most? But she lives with everyday. She keeps up the promise she gave her husband and keeps her love tucked away in her heart. Why is she wrong to love the man? Hadn't she always made it clear that she would always love him? So why is she wrong to care for him, look out for him, leave everything and run to him.? She never hid that, never promised anything otherwise. When her husband accepted it the day he married her, why not today?

And let's talk about today. This woman has kept it all bottled up inside, accepting all the hatred and accusations coming her way. She has made the ultimate sacrifice and yet she suffers in silence. And today, on the day exactly a year before when her life started changing forever, why do we begrudge her a day or a moment to break down. To look back and just grieve!! What is so wrong if she just takes a little time to grieve for all that she has lost. AND what is so terrible if she does that in the arms of the man who means everything to her? Why is it such a terrible thing is for one moment, one day she is not a wife or mother but just a woman, a person, who has lost everything?

It is said that a woman is a woman's greatest enemy, and I somehow understand that today. We have all the patience and understanding for the bajajs and anurag of the world. Anurag is justified because he's heartbroken, bajaj because he had a bad childhood, but prerna?? There's never any justifications for prerna, just judgements. She is just a possession for th emen in this show and a puppet to be bashed for its audience. I feel for her today. As a woman, a wife and a mother, I feel.

P. S. I STILL have issues with prerna. I have had them since the beginning of this track and I continue to have them today. But prerna surely does not deserve the level of vitriol she's being subjected to today and this thread is just for those who do not think she is so bad and has in fact the best qualities of the lot of the 3 main leads. If you don't agree, please stay away. It's not so difficult to not comment on something that's not to your liking.

Before someone mocks this, I want to grab 1st spot and say THANK YOU!!! 🤗

It's everything I want to say.

Hope thanks for this post 🤗

Originally posted by: hope4u

Why is it such a terrible thing if for one moment, one day she is not a wife or mother but just a woman, a person, who has lost everything?

Hope, thank you so much for this post.

Prerna before anyone else is a person and we tend to forget that, including myself. Today she was a just a person who cried for what she lost and wanting to dream again of a future she once was close to having, bare of any labels that the society has placed on her.

I have a lot of issue with how Prerna is being written but the amount of Prerna bashing threads these days makes me sick. 🤢

Bottom line is, her happiness only lies in being with Anurag. She needs to start being a bit more selfish and pursue a marriage with Anurag.

i know this post is for prerna

but my main problem is she has do very very big big talk but not saw the consequence

its good to think from heart but its more imp to use brain too .pre is example of that now with this sudden change if she come back to anu she ever thought what will.kuki do .i mean she is so.much attacted to.pre .

so this is pre for me- impulsive & fool

Originally posted by: Amanat284

I have a lot of issue with how Prerna is being written but the amount of Prerna bashing threads these days makes me sick. 🤢

Bottom line is, her happiness only lies in being with Anurag. She needs to start being a bit more selfish and pursue a marriage with Anurag.

So plz care to leave or divorce the husband and pursue her marriage... Don't be a two timer...

Prerna has a lot of good qualities, no one can deny that. Your post sums up the pain CVs should have shown. Even if they could give half of what you’ve written as monologues, we would have been able to relate to her in a better way. It’s not too late as well, i hope she once gets selfish and decides what she wants for herself and next her unborn baby, who is no fault in all the mess that is created.

Originally posted by: Amanat284

I have a lot of issue with how Prerna is being written but the amount of Prerna bashing threads these days makes me sick. 🤢

Bottom line is, her happiness only lies in being with Anurag. She needs to start being a bit more selfish and pursue a marriage with Anurag.

At the first place y should she even behave as a wife to someone who just made a deal with her...she is very much abiding to the terms of her deal...n her loyalty never meant that she will stop loving anurag or start loving Bajaj...she made it very clear during the time the deal was being sealed that she will always love anurag no matter what n her mind n body belongs to anurag...only her loyalty will be with Bajaj..n she hasn't move out of this marriage is wat her loyalty means...she could have very well broken the deal once anurag was freed n never even got married to Bajaj but she kept her words and married Bajaj...Bajaj has no right to expect anything from her just bcoz now he has started developing any feelings for herm.he told her he got married her for kuki n she wanted Anurag's safety..prerna never said she will detach herself from anurag completely n she is nowhere wrong...she is still a mother to kuki n is being loyal to Bajaj..

When ppl blame her for not being loyal I guess we forgot she never meant to be a loyal wife ...she doesn't even consider herself his wife..she considers herself as kuki's mother n a member of the family and she is very well playing that part...

Originally posted by: hope4u

And let's talk about today. This woman has kept it all bottled up inside, accepting all the hatred and accusations coming her way. She has made the ultimate sacrifice and yet she suffers in silence. And today, on the day exactly a year before when her life started changing forever, why do we begrudge her a day or a moment to break down. To look back and just grieve!! What is so wrong if she just takes a little time to grieve for all that she has lost. AND what is so terrible if she does that in the arms of the man who means everything to her? Why is it such a terrible thing is for one moment, one day she is not a wife or mother but just a woman, a person, who has lost everything?

It is said that a woman is a woman's greatest enemy, and I somehow understand that today. We have all the patience and understanding for the bajajs and anurag of the world. Anurag is justified because he's heartbroken, bajaj because he had a bad childhood, but prerna?? There's never any justifications for prerna, just judgements. She is just a possession for th emen in this show and a puppet to be bashed for its audience. I feel for her today. As a woman, a wife and a mother, I feel.

P. S. I STILL have issues with prerna. I have had them since the beginning of this track and I continue to have them today. But prerna surely does not deserve the level of vitriol she's being subjected to today and this thread is just for those who do not think she is so bad and has in fact the best qualities of the lot of the 3 main leads. If you don't agree, please stay away. It's not so difficult to not comment on something that's not to your liking.

Bold - This is exactly what I too felt for Pre today and prompted me to make a post for her. But should have waited a little more before making it, as you have put across the emotions in a more apt way and i could have saved my time. 😊As I have said in my post, I don't care about anyone or any pair today. Because, today seeing my girl feeling light & happy is what is more important to me as a woman.

Italic - Why to question Anu or Bajaj stans? Her own stans are not understanding her. For them her selfrespect is more important than her happiness. I can't understand why they can't see that Anu was first her friend & she is carrying his child. After reading some of their comments, I just feel like saying 'Badi badi baatein; vada pav khatein', as i get a doubt on whether it is the character Anu or the actor who plays it that they hate.