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Posted: 6 years ago

https://www.hindustantimes.com/bollywood/shahid-kapoor-on-mira-rajput-she-married-so-young-had-2-kids-when-she-was-just-stepping-out-of-being-a-kid-herself/story-9cwVX5FMj7jxidzd3qGbhN.html

"She got married so young, had two kids and had to figure out how to deal with that when she was just stepping out of being a kid herself. She must have had her dreams and desires but she pushed those aside. That’s a lot to deal with. Also, the fact that we have an age difference, we are 13 years apart"

Originally posted by: return_to_hades


How can someone be aware of everything above and still go through with marriage is beyond me! Especially the bold.

Black bold - Marriage is a serious lifelong commitment and responsibility. You have to be ready for it. No one should be forced to grow up or miss the opportunity to enjoy their youth. Different people mature differently. Some people are ready for marriage young. But what's the rush? It's not like a 20 something has a biological clock ticking like someone pushing 40. You can wait till they are 25 which I believe is a good age people start stabilizing in life.

Usually, age shouldn't be a factor in relationships. But there are limits to when age differences.

A 10-year-old and a 23-year-old is a creepy crime. A 20-year-old and a 33-year-old is an older person taking advantage of a young person's naivety and lack of life experience. A 30-year-old and a 43-year-old has a high probability that the younger person is "settling". A 40-year-old and a 53-year-old is finally two adults making a conscious, sensible, and informed decision.

Red Bold - That just crushes me. Relationships are about uplifting each other, supporting each other to live the best possible life. I could never live with the fact that someone sacrificed their dreams and desires for me. If anyone by chance did it without my awareness, I would start making sacrifices to make up for it the second I found out.


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