Why my heart still goes out to Anurag - Page 4

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

40 the like is special😃

Lol when I posted dis at night I didn't even know if anyone would read it😆

Just dt I was thinking about everything Anurag is doing and I felt bad for him because he wouldn't hv been in such pain if he hadnt ever met Pre.

Exactly, he had not ever met Prerna. If he would move with Mishka, actually he may has blissful life.

As life partner, we should select the person who loves us but not the person who is loved by ourselves.

But I feel, Prerna is hurting Anurag due to his behavior (Chasing Ronith, entering factory, murder case) was the main cause of her unwanted marriage with Mr Bajaj. She is suffering lot without her love. How much she suffered, she wants to return that pain back to Anurag. Girls......Girl's qualities.

Originally posted by: masdhu

Exactly, he had not ever met Prerna. If he would move with Mishka, actually he may has blissful life.

As life partner, we should select the person who loves us but not the person who is loved by ourselves.

But I feel, Prerna is hurting Anurag due to his behavior (Chasing Ronith, entering factory, murder case) was the main cause of her unwanted marriage with Mr Bajaj. She is suffering lot without her love. How much she suffered, she wants to return that pain back to Anurag. Girls......Girl's qualities.

Yeah dts what people say......you should marry the person who loves you.

I don't think Prerna is punishing him intentionally for anything. Probably she believes in the pati paremswar fr life thing.Dts y I find the show regressive. You shouldn't hv a compulsion to stay in a relationship.

And not all girls r like dt. When I feel hurt or pain......I prefer just distancing myself from dt person. I don't believe in giving back the pain helps us overcome our pain.

LOVE this post. Unfortunately my internet was acting up a bit and in my frustration pressed a wrong button before I could post my reply last night when I saw this post first.

You've pretty much voiced out all Anu fans thinking process here. Point is we viewers know what Bajaj did to Anu and why Anu is currently reduced to someone in need of serious counselling.

And the Cvs are still showing his disturbed mental state pretty effectively with scenes like he had with Anupam and,Anu and Moloy.

He himself explains his state so well that its heartrending to watch the guy like this. This is the same guy who has still stood by his morals and principles even with his enemies. Even people like Komo who is responsible for the state that his baba is in currently and the death of Rajesh uncle (Pre's father).

So for this same guy to plan to put someone in jail for a crime he has not committed irrespective of how it would affect innocents like kuki, actually makes viewers empathize with his grievances though we all know he is wrong here. If he had done all this calmly and cooly without much show of emotions nobody would have empathized with him like how Bajaj did with Anu and Pre with withholding CCTV footage of Anu's innocence and blackmailing Pre with the same evidence to make Pre marry him.

Both Anu and Bajaj did wrong, Its the details of the methods they used, who they planned against, why they did what they did and the kind of people they are shown to be so far, that goes in favor of Anu with regards to empathy.

Originally posted by: SheAish

LOVE this post. Unfortunately my internet was acting up a bit and in my frustration pressed a wrong button before I could post my reply last night when I saw this post first.

You've pretty much voiced out all Anu fans thinking process here. Point is we viewers know what Bajaj did to Anu and why Anu is currently reduced to someone in need of serious counselling.

And the Cvs are still showing his disturbed mental state pretty effectively with scenes like he had with Anupam and,Anu and Moloy.

He himself explains his state so well that its heartrending to watch the guy like this. This is the same guy who has still stood by his morals and principles even with his enemies. Even people like Komo who is responsible for the state that his baba is in currently and the death of Rajesh uncle (Pre's father).

So for this same guy to plan to put someone in jail for a crime he has not committed irrespective of how it would affect innocents like kuki, actually makes viewers empathize with his grievances though we all know he is wrong here. If he had done all this calmly and cooly without much show of emotions nobody would have empathized with him like how Bajaj did with Anu and Pre with withholding CCTV footage of Anu's innocence and blackmailing Pre with the same evidence to make Pre marry him.

Both Anu and Bajaj did wrong, Its the details of the methods they used, who they planned against, why they did what they did and the kind of people they are shown to be so far, that goes in favor of Anu with regards to empathy.

Thank you🤗

I had seen many questions regarding how people still like Anurag and all. Honestly don't hv a problm wid people who find him wrong but I felt so strongly to write y I still feel so sad watching him.

You know until recently Suicide was a criminal offence in India but even Indian judicial system has decriminalised suicide cause they are now trying to understand how vulnerable a person must hv been to even think of doing something so drastic. The state of mind of a broken person is very difficult to understand.

@ bold : this absolutely correct. There's a difference between the two and it depends on whose perspective you are perceiving more efficiently.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

@ bold : That's exactly what has become of him.

Yes we all want Anu to be back to his own self.......caring and loving self. But at this point I don't want him to win Prerna back anymore...... because this tym he hasn't lost her because of his own fault......the weight of the decision of marrying Mr Bajaj lies wid Prerna alone. Anurag should just let her be......if she comes back .....great but if she doesn't he better move ahead and away from Prerna.

I don't think Anurag is indifferent to Prerna's situation......he just doesn't understand y she is doing everything .

Not Anurag, I said about prerna's indifference, she is indifferent to what was done to her.

I somewhere feel that Anurag being loving and caring towards Prerna will push her to think about the life they would have had, the one they wanted and find ways to come back or atleast stand up for herself, instead of what is she is right now, not thinking about what wrong was done to her and busy in making Anurag stop his obsession.

Again, we all know why this butchering of Anurag and Prerna which is so out of the blue is done and it's really a very cheap move from the makers.

Originally posted by: ifmember

Not Anurag, I said about prerna's indifference, she is indifferent to what was done to her.

I somewhere feel that Anurag being loving and caring towards Prerna will push her to think about the life they would have had, the one they wanted and find ways to come back or atleast stand up for herself, instead of what is she is right now, not thinking about what wrong was done to her and busy in making Anurag stop his obsession.

Again, we all know why this butchering of Anurag and Prerna which is so out of the blue is done and it's really a very cheap move from the makers.

Oh ok. Sorry I misunderstood.

Yeah about Prerna it's totally correct. She seems to hv forgotten everything and doesn't really care about it anymore.

We can only hope dear. From what I feel Prerna doesn't want to be reminded of what she has left behind. All she ever says is she is married and her principles ask her to stay married and become completely devoted to her husband apparently🤔. Dts y I keep saying.....Prerna is bad role model for any girl any day.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Yeah dts what people say......you should marry the person who loves you.

I don't think Prerna is punishing him intentionally for anything. Probably she believes in the pati paremswar fr life thing.Dts y I find the show regressive. You shouldn't hv a compulsion to stay in a relationship.

And not all girls r like dt. When I feel hurt or pain......I prefer just distancing myself from dt person. I don't believe in giving back the pain helps us overcome our pain.

😊Agree. Not all girls. But most of girls behaving like that way specially with their lovers. Not with other people, or outsiders. Simply, if a girl found that her fiance talks with other girls more and giving special attention to other girls, she talks with more boys pretending fake closeness. Jealousy game like Anupam used to win Nivi's heart.

The good practice is going away from the people who make us hurt. However, people are unable to apply that practice with their lovers, husband and wife.

No any hesitation. Prerna has a good qualities as a girl in 21st centuries, how she supported her parents, respect adults, caring, affection, her concern on her family, outsiders and her lover Anurag. Fabulous. That is why I said her character is a role model for most of girls in the society today.

Originally posted by: masdhu

😊Agree. Not all girls. But most of girls behaving like that way specially with their lovers. Not with other people, or outsiders. Simply, if a girl found that her fiance talks with other girls more and giving special attention to other girls, she talks with more boys pretending fake closeness. Jealousy game like Anupam used to win Nivi's heart.

The good practice is going away from the people who make us hurt. However, people are unable to apply that practice with their lovers, husband and wife.

No any hesitation. Prerna has a good qualities as a girl in 21st centuries, how she supported her parents, respect adults, caring, affection, her concern on her family, outsiders and her lover Anurag. Fabulous. That is why I said her character is a role model for most of girls in the society today.

Ok maybe. I hvnt come across such girls except in TV shows ......so I don't know much about dt.

Here we differ completely. Yes Prerna does hv some good qualities but I don't find her a good role model for any girl.

You find her ideal and dts your opinion and I respectfully differ.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Ok maybe. I hvnt come across such girls except in TV shows ......so I don't know much about dt.

Here we differ completely. Yes Prerna does hv some good qualities but I don't find her a good role model for any girl.

You find her ideal and dts your opinion and I respectfully differ.

😊 Person to person, their values, beliefs, attitudes and behaviors are different. Not in the TV show, but analyze the people's behaviour who are around you. Then you will realize the people's behaviour, thinking pattern and their approaches.You could be silent observer. It is really interesting.

I specified the Prerna's qualities what I have already admired, most of them are not available in a girl aged 21 years old. I agree. Some qualities of Prerna are not praised, but few. People have weaknesses too. Some people may think that weaknesses are as good qualities and others are not. That is why society is more complex and is difficult to understand.😊

Anyway, thank you for sharing thoughts.🤗

Originally posted by: masdhu

😊 Person to person, their values, beliefs, attitudes and behaviors are different. Not in the TV show, but analyze the people's behaviour who are around you. Then you will realize the people's behaviour, thinking pattern and their approaches.You could be silent observer. It is really interesting.

I specified the Prerna's qualities what I have already admired, most of them are not available in a girl aged 21 years old. I agree. Some qualities of Prerna are not praised, but few. People have weaknesses too. Some people may think that weaknesses are as good qualities and others are not. That is why society is more complex and is difficult to understand.😊

Anyway, thank you for sharing thoughts.🤗

Yeah people are different and it's true that probably I hvnt come across that kind of people yet. But I may come across them in future ......you never know.....I'll observe den😳

I agree it's a complex things. Things I don't like may be admirable to another person and vice versa . Yes Prerna has her share of weaknesses that I don't like being a girl.

It was nice discussing wid you too🤗