Originally posted by: -Khush-
@DrSippy
Thanks for the comment! And no, been too much on IF to take offense even remotely with any good discussion 😆
I still feel you’re sort of not getting the entire guilt arc I’m thinking on- Pooja’s case was ALL related to Ronakshi unlike what you said. More than Pooja and Pari it was about tables turning on Sonakshi when Rohit and Pooja did not believe her like she did not when Rohit pleaded he’d never try to jail her mother. And what was hilarious is that when Sona after surgery agreed that anyone in Rohit’s spot would take up a fight for his sister, majority people called the CVs mean for showing her as a doormat when IMO it was the truth- because that exactly was the point when Rohit realized that maturity lied more in keeping Pooja out of court case and giving the Opp party one more chance! People in other shows pull off revenge marriages to avenge their siblings, Rohit toh only initiated a court case as any ordinary person in reality would 😊
And yes Sonakshi deffo did not make a clot in his failed surgery for Raima, but she is for now a responsible hand in the tragedy- guilt only transfers among people! and Raima clearly remembers falling down and seeing a car in front- she is clearly NOT blaming her for running her over- her FB does not show it! You can only pray Sonakshi running away from spot is actually not the reason as popular option RN- she has no one to prove it that she called hospital or cops for help anonymously- in real life no one believes that stuff in hit and run- it better be that Karan was the culprit and he hurt Raima while talking about Sonakshi being his problem ET al.
Rohit can not be that calm no matter what till he talks again with someone sensible his mom or Dadi, YK or Deepa. The show has made it clear many times straight from Sona itself that Raima surfaces emotions in him nothing else can. And it’s human nature to find a medium to transfer guilt as possible and it shall happen with Sonakshi playing a part in chabbis lol. You can’t compare his trust in Sona with regards to other situations compared to this fateful night with Raima. It’s not that he loves her a lot, he has found solace in Sona- but
Sippy’s are flippy’s (Love that) because that’s how typical high society peeps are- Naren is a very realistic portrayal of that. He changes opinions on the fact they suit his family’s image or not, others aren’t spineless imo, but every joint family does take time to just stand up to their head in tense situations. Or else Veena wouldn’t pamper her kids or Nishi and Rohit Deepa take cases against Sonakshi without his opinions of they are subservient! In fact I still find most except for Naren who seems to be very shady, still more better humans than Suman and Pari. Suman being nice to her doesn’t absolve facts she treated her daughter like this all her childhood and adult life!
Honestly I really don’t think we can defend what Rohit did in the fashion show scenario with what Sona did in her mom’s police case.
Sona choosing to not want further contact (at the behest of her mother) is acceptable when in that situation the culprit was clear. Nishi accepted what she did and yet did not apologize. But unlike Rohit, Sona did not make an attempt to financially destroy the Sippy’s. She also never yelled at Rohit talking crap about his class or profession. Rohit wanted forgiveness because he didn’t like anyone thinking bad on his family not because he actually cares about the harm that was done. Hence being angry with Sona for not accepting his apology and fighting over that stupid chair.
In Pooja’s case, Sona jumped up on stage to help Pooja. And she was literally on her knees saying she didn’t do it. Yet Rohit physically accosted her, degraded her for profession and financial background and then put such lawsuit in an underhanded way which didn’t allow them any time to prepare a defense and literally landed her mother in hospital.
In both cases, Rohit and his family owes the Rastogi’s an apology.
Sona put her own life in jeopardy while going to Pune for Mahtre’s function. The woman could have been raped or worse all help Rohit’s family. But she saved herself and then she saved Rohit’s life. She helped him with his fake gf case. She saved Rohit’s life again when he stupidly went looking for Mahtre instead of waiting for the police.
When you compare the 2, he has done very little towards her and if anything makes everything about himself. She had to comfort him in the car that he won’t lose her.
At this point the guy is a prototypical narcissist. Even any good thing he does is about retaining his source of narcissistic supply. It’s about care and concern for another human being.
