Naira's self righteousness vs Kartik's need to do what's right to him - Page 3

Kartik was criticized same way during last leap...and I remember Naira deserved someone better.....regarding Naira should not try to portray herself mahan....she didn't run away because of her self-respect...as she returned the very next morning forgetting her self-respect....she kept saying all along...she ran away because she couldn't let her child's paternity be questioned...also does she know Kartik who introduced Vedika as his wife to her...his supposed ex-wife is not even considering Vedika his responsibility?...Kartik himself told her "Vedika is my responsibility"..."you need not worry about her"....but why not?...when Vedika keep requesting, taunting, emotionally blackmailing her and not Kartik...what can she do?...inform Kartik that your wife Vedika is trying to behave like a psycho...so entire Goenka, Singhania clan alongwith Vedika accuse her of breaking Vedika's kamzor dil and marriage...I'm neither with Kartik nor with Naira...I mean he didn't do anything even when Aditya told him Naira is alive...same Naira who is his life...how could he not believe him?...even when he couldn't come into emotional blackmailing of his family to marry Vedika....he did...he promised Vedika "rang gehra hoga" but didn't fulfill it....he always let people control him....but same way he always try to control situation his way....taking care of mentally sick maa forgetting he has a wife too, forging sign on abortion papers, not letting Naira say final good bye to her dead baby, baby swapping, bringing Kairav with him to GV without informing Naira, calling off wedding for sister Keerti forgetting Naira already lost her memory because of shock...the extreme love that keeps changing...from love for wife to love for mother to love for sister to love for baby....human beings are also flawed...but they are not hugely inconsistent in their priorities...Naira let Kartik marry Vedika because she thought he want to "move on"...Naira kept father away from son for 5 long years...which according to me...is punishable....

Originally posted by: AnyaRSingh

Again missing my point i said divorce him...i never said stay with him for kairav, but why make it this big sacrifice for vedika

But how can she alone decide where the kid should stay

whether they should leave

shes not thinking about the child at all not to say kartik is either but naira is ridiculous in thinking about what vedika wants first before the child...

I agree...Naira should think about Kairav before that psychopath...Kairav need his father's love and attention....she is behaving like those mothers....who separate father and child for their selfish reasons...

Originally posted by: AnyaRSingh

As for vedika's back bone...She at least has the guts to stand her ground and ask for kartik naira never has

With suwarna throwing her out she all but rolled over and said do what ever you want...

With gayu as well she gift wrapped with a bow and handed him over

Naira should fight for her love more...Instead of hand him over when anyone else asks if not for herself because shes too busy proving how selfless she is...then for kairav tell vedika yes i will divorce him but no i wont leave the city because my child needs to know kartik.

I will do my bit in letting him go but there after you deal with him...
And if she has problems say all of this full well in front of kartik. Ask her does kartik know you are requesting that we leave.

A good mother would think about her child first before anyone else...Naira is literally choosing a random woman over the child

@red throwing herself on man who keep ignoring her like a plague after their marriage....who didn't have any conversation with her....who treats her as if she is the most unwanted person in his life...is not equivalent to "person has backbone"...Kartik is not an object to fight over...he can have his choice...to stay in marriage with her or not...she is behaving like psychopath lovers...who is obsessed with Kartik...who can't let her marriage break even if Kartik won't ever give her wife's rights...the only think that makes her unlikable for me is she can't think beyond marriage....dislike people with one sided obsession who have no qualms in being treated like a trash...

Originally posted by: CaptiveFreedom

Kartik was criticized same way during last leap...and I remember Naira deserved someone better...isn't it?....regarding Naira should not try to portray herself mahan....she didn't run away because of her self-respect...as she returned the very next morning forgetting her self-respect....she kept saying all along...she ran away because she couldn't let her child's paternity be questioned...also does she know Kartik who introduced Vedika as his wife to her...his supposed ex-wife is not even considering Vedika his responsibility?...Kartik himself told her "Vedika is my responsibility"..."you need not worry about her"....but why not?...when Vedika keep requesting, taunting, emotionally blackmailing her and not Kartik...what can she do?...inform Kartik that your wife Vedika is trying to behave like a psycho...so entire Goenka, Singhania clan alongwith Vedika accuse her of breaking Vedika's kamzor dil...I'm neither with Kartik nor with Naira...I mean he didn't do anything even when Aditya told him Naira is alive...same Naira who is his life...how could he not believe him?...even when he couldn't come into emotional blackmailing of his family to marry Vedika....he did...he promised Vedika "rang gehra hoga" but didn't fulfill it....he always let people control him....but same way he always try to control situation his way....taking care of mentally sick maa forgetting he has a wife too, forging sign on abortion papers, not letting Naira say final good bye to her dead baby, baby swapping, bringing Kairav with him to GV without informing Naira, calling off wedding for sister Keerti forgetting Naira already lost her memory because of shock...the extreme love that keeps changing...from love for wife to love for mother to love for sister to love for baby....human beings are also flawed...but they are not hugely inconsistent in their priorities...Naira let Kartik marry Vedika because she thought he want to "move on"...Naira kept father away from son for 5 long years...which according to me...is punishable....

Yep I used to despise Kartik's choices

Its not like i have some love for kartik suddenly 🤣and am hating on naira(this whole leap she has pissed me off)

last leap i wished the most naira would get sick and it would bring kartik out of assholery

I havent religiously watched this show post leap its been quiet boring for me...

Kartik loves one person and one person alone himself its very clear that...he doesnt care about anything else besides doing what he wants when he wants and how he pleases to...is that wrong maybe to some but the guy is in your face about it...He owns up to his shit

Naira on the other hand annoys me...So fine she left kartik coz she couldnt have the paternity questioned right...But then she can leave for that form of self respect and even ignore kairav asking her a million times for kartik...

but vedika asking her once to leave despite knowing it will break kairavs heart...to be away from his dad..etc...not discussing this like a grown human with kartik as a responsible mother and making it all about appeasing vedika is preposterous the most important person to her should be kairav as she claims so well and full after the leap she doesnt care about the rest of her family its just kairav thats important to her... how does vedika become more important to her then?

Originally posted by: CaptiveFreedom

@red throwing herself on man who keep ignoring her like a plague after their marriage....who didn't have any conversation with her....who treats her as if she is the most unwanted person in his life...is not equivalent to "person has backbone"...Kartik is not an object to fight over...he can have his choice...to stay in marriage with her or not...she is behaving like psychopath lovers...who is obsessed with Kartik...who can't let her marriage break even if Kartik won't ever give her wife's rights...the only think that makes her unlikable for me is she can't think beyond marriage....dislike people with one sided obsession who have no qualms in being treated like a trash...

I think that kartik has also given her mixed signals dancing with her sitting next to her for break fast declaring multiple times in front of naira shes his legal wife... Smiling at her...etc...

So for me its back bone in a sense that she doesnt role over for the greater good and hand him over because its the right thing to do...

naira needs to learn that sometimes from her you need to fight for what makes you happy... and stop pleasing everyone else also to let others deal with their own issues

I know thats a bit much considering its a daily soap and shes a bahu that needs to be perfect but its nauseating to watch her

sometimes i wish she was more human rather than so NICE

Originally posted by: AnyaRSingh

I think that kartik has also given her mixed signals dancing with her sitting next to her for break fast declaring multiple times in front of naira shes his legal wife... Smiling at her...etc...

So for me its back bone in a sense that she doesnt role over for the greater good and hand him over because its the right thing to do...

naira needs to learn that sometimes from her you need to fight for what makes you happy... and stop pleasing everyone else also to let others deal with their own issues

I know thats a bit much considering its a daily soap and shes a bahu that needs to be perfect but its nauseating to watch her

sometimes i wish she was more human rather than so NICE

@bold but Naira doesn't seem to be happy with the idea of being Kartik's wife...she doesn't willingly want to be back in his life...though she still loves him....she still misses him...but she couldn't think beyond that accusation...for me fighting for what makes a person happy is essential part of life...but...person must know that fighting for someone who can never be hers...is foolishness....for me its nauseating to watch Vedika who think staying in marriage with the person obsessed with his dead and than ex-wife and child...is the only way to live...

@red If Kartik gave her mix signals...he also gave her too many reasons to think she is a nobody to him...also not to forget he expected Naira to observe teej fast for him...though Vedika doesn't know about it...she know they can be together anytime they resolve their issues...that's why she felt insecure seeing them behaving a happy family in hospital and than in GV....her insecurities are because she know Kartik doesn't love her....he has choice to leave her...he still loves Naira....she can never get even half of the love Naira got....knowing Naira is alive...she thinks Naira going away is the solution to all her problems...when she is well aware of the fact...that if he didn't forget his dead love for a moment...how can he forget his alive love?....she know Naira is still his legally wedded wife...her delusion is not equivalent to fighting for happiness...as at the end of day...she is not going to be happy...even if Kartik gets divorced...even if Naira leaves the city...Kartik is never going to give her wife's place...if fighting for what pleases a person means separating a father and child...separating your love from his happiness...than that fight is aimless....If Naira is wrong in separating father and son...she is also wrong in demanding Naira to leave the city....knowing her obsession will be shattered...if his child left...not saying that she must sacrifice her love...but one sided love never gave happiness to anyone....specifically when she got too many signal that Kartik is not destined to be hers...

she is behaving like Sara from Humsafar with her obsession though Sara was still better than her...

Kaira’s divorce will legalize vekar’s marriage👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Again i am not saying her happiness is kartik...But more in what makes kairav happy and that being having kartik in his life...

Hence naira deciding for the greater good to separate him from kartik pisses me off

This stems back off into her past of her choosing to hand over things that make her happy for others when does this stop? When will she realize she just causes more pain by doing this?

Originally posted by: Raxya

Kaira’s divorce will legalize vekar’s marriage👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Who is Vekar?....Vedika and Kartik are separate entities...Kaira's divorce alone can't legalize second marriage...Kartik and Vedika will have to remarry to legalize their marriage after divorce...I mean if Kartik was still married to Naira when he married Vedika...how can the second marriage be legal than?....even if they divorce each other...Vedika and Kartik's marriage won't be legal...

Originally posted by: CaptiveFreedom

Who is Vekar?....Vedika and Kartik are separate entities...Kaira's divorce alone can't legalize second marriage...Kartik and Vedika will have to remarry to legalize their marriage after divorce...I mean if Kartik was still married to Naira when he married Vedika...how can the second marriage be legal than?....even if they divorce each other...Vedika and Kartik's marriage won't be legal...

IBF is now saying that people who has problem with bigamy shown in tv will be relieved as kartik and Naira will divorce each other and they are very clear as well that if you dont like the track dont watch it... so i guess there is more nonsense to come.. as they are not giving any hopes