Why Prerna not moving on with Anurag - Page 6

Originally posted by: chullbulli

Sorry dear..I dn't mean to say that she is a gold digger...I meant she comes across as...to someone who doesn't know her... she has actually started bossing around and seems as if she is enjoying it too...personally I don't think she is a gold digger but she is behaving like one in some scenes...🤣 also like neki kar daria mein daal.. anu pe ehsaan karke sab bhool kar moved on...how easy it was for her to move on..so fake. Somehow the connection is gone forever...wish they get someone nice and we can see some chem between anu and new girl. Bajju pitaji and Prerna mataji apne bhajan Gaye.. no worries.

Yes she has started bossing around even Mr Bajaj .yeah she enjoys .I really find her annoyingc at many places. I wish both Anurag and Bajaj leave her

Originally posted by: sanjana

Yes she has started bossing around even Mr Bajaj .yeah she enjoys .I really find her annoyingc at many places. I wish both Anurag and Bajaj leave her

The way of girls or women. They control fiance and also husbands in most of cases. Common in the society. Story is also highlighted common qualities of women..bossing.

Originally posted by: Pinot

Anurag obviously wasn't thinking clearly at the time. Ronit had just kidnapped Prerna. The police had captured Ronit but since the police in this city are so incompetent, Ronit was wondering around, just causing trouble. Anurag, if I recall, caught a glimpse of Ronit in the shadows at night, could not believe his eyes and followed him.

A natural reaction on Anurag's part, I guess. I would have called the cops, but since when the police in Calcutta is so on top of things!!! Oh yes, Ronit had suffered a major stab wound to the stomach during the kidnapping that miraculously healed within a day!

Gee, I am totally giving myself a clap on the back for remembering such minor details from months ago!!! 👏Wow just, wow!

Natural or not is a subjective thing but it was most definitely stupid and irrational and he should rather blame the choice that HE made before pointing fingers at other people. I just find it a little convenient to forget the choices one has made that has landed him where he is and keep on accusing people for any and every damn thing. I indeed find it a very crybabish thing to do. Like they say, dusro ne kya kiya ye ginane se pehle ye dekho ke tumne khud kya kiya hai. Had Anurag made a different choice which is to not go after Ronit, his life would have been different today.

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

Natural or not is a subjective thing but it was most definitely stupid and irrational and he should rather blame the choice that HE made before pointing fingers at other people. I just find it a little convenient to forget the choices one has made that has landed him where he is and keep on accusing people for any and every damn thing. I indeed find it a very crybabish thing to do. Like they say, dusro ne kya kiya ye ginane se pehle ye dekho ke tumne khud kya kiya hai. Had Anurag made a different choice which is to not go after Ronit, his life would have been different today.

For that he should KNOW how this one mistake changed everything . In his mind he thinks and prerna thinks that if a person is innocent, they will eventually be proved innocent . Neither did anurag kill ronit nor did he ignite fire in bajajs factory so why should he regret Nything ? How did the DNA reports got changed ? How was it proved in the court that ronit died when prerna proved he is alive ? when everyone is manipulating things around them , still they r foolish ones isnt it ? The lines in italics goes for all characters not just anurag.

Tell me one thing, the choices that we make , how we judge its good or bad ? Can anyone judge perfectly?

Originally posted by: _charu_

For that he should KNOW how this one mistake changed everything . In his mind he thinks and prerna thinks that if a person is innocent, they will eventually be proved innocent . Neither did anurag kill ronit nor did he ignite fire in bajajs factory so why should he regret Nything ? How did the DNA reports got changed ? How was it proved in the court that ronit died when prerna proved he is alive ? when everyone is manipulating things around them , still they r foolish ones isnt it ? The lines in italics goes for all characters not just anurag.

Tell me one thing, the choices that we make , how we judge its good or bad ? Can anyone judge perfectly?

I do not know about anyone else. I can not talk about anyone else. I believe in taking accountability of my own actions that gift me pleasant and unpleasant consequences, both. This is me. I hope, I am allowed to be myself?

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

I do not know about anyone else. I can not talk about anyone else. I believe in taking accountability of my own actions that gift me pleasant and unpleasant consequences, both. This is me. I hope, I am allowed to be myself?

If everybody knows the consequences of the choices they are making, that is present and future we will be like gods right? Anurag only thought about prernas safety. Prerna only thought about anurags life. They cant be judged like that. He is NOT being a cry baby . He does NOT know anything what transpired when he was in jail . He is totally messed up in his head trying to figure out the reasons behind prernas behaviour. He cannot connect the dots and all that , yes he can't, He is foolish. All good people are foolish 😆

Originally posted by: _charu_

If everybody knows the consequences of the choices they are making, that is present and future we will be like gods right? Anurag only thought about prernas safety. Prerna only thought about anurags life. They cant be judged like that. He is NOT being a cry baby . He does NOT know anything what transpired when he was in jail . He is totally messed up in his head trying to figure out the reasons behind prernas behaviour. He cannot connect the dots and all that , yes he can't, He is foolish. All good people are foolish 😆

You are back to the mode where you read my words to reply and not understand and it disappoints me, Charu. Anyways, I said, I prefer taking the accountability of my choices. I do not know what the consequences would be but whatever they would be, I prefer taking the whole responsibility. I hope I have made myself very clear now. The god bit is not relevant to what I have said.

I did not say he is being a crybaby or not. I said I find him being one. This is exactly why I time and again use words like, I feel/I find/I believe. There is hardly any scope of argument here because this is what I feel. I ain't passing a fact that he is a crybaby. I am stating my opinion that I find him being one.

Yes, so all good people, who act foolish, are responsible for their miseries according to me. Good day ahead!

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

You are back to the mode where you read my words to reply and not understand and it disappoints me, Charu. Anyways, I said, I prefer taking the accountability of my choices. I do not know what the consequences would be but whatever they would be, I prefer taking the whole responsibility. I hope I have made myself very clear now. The god bit is not relevant to what I have said.

I did not say he is being a crybaby or not. I said I find him being one. This is exactly why I time and again use words like, I feel/I find/I believe. There is hardly any scope of argument here because this is what I feel. I ain't passing a fact that he is a crybaby. I am stating my opinion that I find him being one.

Yes, so all good people, who act foolish, are responsible for their miseries according to me. Good day ahead!

Edit: @IAdoreYou. Hey dear. I've a feeling that I might have pushed myself into a discussion that you were having with Charu and I might have misunderstood your post by only looking at your above post. So please disregard what I've said down below and don't take it to heart. I thought of editing it out totally, but then Charu has already quoted me and from her response I'm feeling that that I did not get the point of the discussion between you two at all...Sometimes I can get overzealous and I don't want to offend someone who has always discussed the show very respectfully with me. Sorry again. 🤗

@Bold: sorry but I totally disagree here. People who are foolish also have their rights and just because they were foolish does not mean someone who is smarter gets to go and snatch it from them anyway they want and be absolved of their wrongdoing and call the foolish responsible for their miseries due to that.

Thats blaming the victim in a very callous manner in my pov. This is classic excuses that bullies use. Someones foolishness is not your ticket to abuse them and their rights for your own benefit. And under no circumstances do the victim of such bulling is to be blamed for the misery they have to experience.

Anurage or Prena being foolish does not give Bajaj the right to abuse that and manipulate them to snatch their own rights. Bajaj is fully responsible for what he did to them. Anurage being a unable to let go of Pre does not make him responsible for what Bajaj has done to him.

OK lets look at this in another way. Lets say Pre and Anu in love and were dating and Bajaj wanted Pre. He knew fully well that Pre loved Anu, but just because he wanted her, he told lies about Anu and taking advantage of how easily she believed those lies he was able to make her date him instead. And Anu fell into serious depression because of that.

I have watered down the whole scenario between them. The point is even if such a mundane thing happened, what Bajaj did here in no way absolves him of his wrong doing. Nor does it make Anu responsible for his misery due to that break up. Bajaj here is nor go getther that needs to be hailed for being smart nor is Anu responsible for the misery that Bajaj caused here.

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

You are back to the mode where you read my words to reply and not understand and it disappoints me, Charu. Anyways, I said, I prefer taking the accountability of my choices. I do not know what the consequences would be but whatever they would be, I prefer taking the whole responsibility. I hope I have made myself very clear now. The god bit is not relevant to what I have said.

I did not say he is being a crybaby or not. I said I find him being one. This is exactly why I time and again use words like, I feel/I find/I believe. There is hardly any scope of argument here because this is what I feel. I ain't passing a fact that he is a crybaby. I am stating my opinion that I find him being one.

Yes, so all good people, who act foolish, are responsible for their miseries according to me. Good day ahead!

That's what I am saying no. Just let it happen first...he will hold himself accountable for his actions when he knows where it led him to. 😊 he is being a cry baby because prerna married bajaj and he does not know why. All he says is he must have done something wrong but he doesn't know what. He said it must have been her majboori but he doesn't know what. When he will know the complete truth , we will be in a better position to judge but may be then it will be too late to sort out everything.

Originally posted by: SheAish

@Bold: sorry but I totally disagree here. People who are foolish also have their rights and just because they were foolish does not mean someone who is smarter gets to go and snatch it from them anyway they want and be absolved of their wrongdoing and call the foolish responsible for their miseries due to that.

Thats blaming the victim in a very callous manner in my pov. This is classic excuses that bullies use. Someones foolishness is not your ticket to abuse them and their rights for your own benefit. And under no circumstances do the victim of such bulling is to be blamed for the misery they have to experience.

Anurage or Prena being foolish does not give Bajaj the right to abuse that and manipulate them to snatch their own rights. Bajaj is fully responsible for what he did to them. Anurage being a unable to let go of Pre does not make him responsible for what Bajaj has done to him.

OK lets look at this in another way. Lets say Pre and Anu in love and were dating and Bajaj wanted Pre. He knew fully well that Pre loved Anu, but just because he wanted her, he told lies about Anu and taking advantage of how easily she believed those lies he was able to make her date him instead. And Anu fell into serious depression because of that.

I have watered down the whole scenario between them. The point is even if such a mundane thing happened, what Bajaj did here in no way absolves him of his wrong doing. Nor does it make Anu responsible for his misery due to that break up. Bajaj here is nor go getther that needs to be hailed for being smart nor is Anu responsible for the misery that Bajaj caused here.

Yes. What i said was.in a very generic sense that those who are simple naive and basically good are tagged as foolish in today's world..because they cannot see through people's manipulations or they are just lazy to take any action, they just let it go without fighting back. I have seen real life example around me. However their goodness doesnt absolve the sins of the people who use them , take advantage of their goodness and then blame it on them only. Yes the real world is very ruthless and this gray paint is called "being practical " These days.

Everybody is a cry baby here in kzk..prerna..mr bajaj..anurag..who isn't? Everyone in real life also loves to pass on the blames for their misery to others. However prerna is taking full accountability of her actions and trying to move on her way, and anurag isn't because he is still in dark .