Felt bad for Bajaj {DT Note Page 9] - Page 5

Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

It's not about you not phrasing your post correctly. The replies you got reflect our opinion that we didn't feel bad for him bcoz he is responsible for this mess. He is lonely bcoz of his past experiences. So even if he is hurting Anurag that won't fill up the void in his life while that is surely causing so many people to suffer. So if one feels that by punishing so many people who may or may not be responsible for your bitter past you can get what you want .... and then at the same time expect sympathy from us.... Probably these two things cannot happen at the same time.

I hope I could explain what I'm trying to say and what you were trying to ask when you said that the replies don't correlate to your post. But the fact is these are related.

Exactly ..to love somebody one needs emotions . If he could leave a bleeding man on the road to die and doesnt have the gall to apologize even, didnt feel a single emotion for him which is sympathy , who would like to love such a man?what's so special about his love for kuki or prerna ? Everyone loves their people and does their best to protect them. But with this kind of behaviour those who love you will also stay away. He is cent per cent responsible for his own mess.

What big mistake did he do? He needed to save his child and the only solution is to bring the mother she saw in Prerna! By asking that he also managed to help her with saving her bf!

That is deal and a smart one that is helpful for both parties for that time. Ppl shud stop calling it forced marriage which is a disgrace to real ppl who get stuck in forced marriages. It is not like Pratigya case or Khushi case.

Originally posted by: kalank

Anyone with a heart would feel bad for Bajaj. KSG is nailing the role, KSG is playing the character so brilliantly that no matter what he does most people will continue to root for him! Especially now that his eyes show nothing but pain and indescribable anguish!

That scene is clearly either a huge misunderstanding or a trap by someone. He didn't escape. He moved since people are flocking him and he did return and saw no Anurag.

True! KSG is always brilliant. Always knew that since Qubool Hai. He is the other actor that i felt as gem along with Barun. I used to treat TV world as Barun and Karan world. But kinda disliked offscreen during that phase. Now i can't help but relike him and also getting to know he is a nice person in real and not what is told.

Originally posted by: kalank

Mr Bajaj made his own money, and has risen like the phenix, he didn't have a father who splurged on him, he has had a hard life!

Yes, also business is a mind thing. It is not an NGO to consider ppl's feelings and well being. Smart ones rise. He is the smartest one. He thinks mostly with mind but that doesn't mean that he don't have a heart at all or has a bad heart. He is a misunderstood person. He had no one in his life apart from Kooki who is also going somewhat distance from him! So he has to shut down his heart. Also in business and surgeons ppl are used to use so much mind that their feelings take backseat even to the effect of personal space.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Did I not phrase my post correctly?

Post - I felt bad for Bajaj and the reason I felt bad for him

Replies - His past doesn't give him a right to hurt people 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

You did!

It is not ur mistake.

Though it is Bajaj's ''redemption'' track, i don't think he needs any redemption but realization and awakening of few things just like every other character needs too.

Should it be fine for people had he left a small child to die????

Would Prerna marry him had he not put that deal?

Do ppl want to watch a small child die for the sake of an attraction based friends?

He is a business man so he took it to the deal way. He must have realized at a very young age that this world doesn't run on heart and feelings but only mind.

So ppl have no right to even feel bad for Bajaj now?

Also Prerna shu not even try to understand Bajaj?

Originally posted by: TeenRose1

So ppl have no right to even feel bad for Bajaj now?

Also Prerna shu not even try to understand Bajaj?

Thank you for the post. Missed you. The thread is GOLD 😆

Originally posted by: _charu_

That's what I am saying. If money is the only parameter then those who earn it with struggle also value it and imo they are more priveledged than the ones who inherit it . And as we can see he was quite successful in his efforts too..so how is his life a hardship? It's a success story no irrespective of his dark past ?

If family is the parameter, for that one has to be loving..and if they are loving everyone is like a family.

He called anurag a cry baby , he is being worse than a cry baby and why? It's his misconception that anurag doesnt value anything in life..that is a separate thing but this suffering of his is also forced . He did a mistake just come out of it and move on . Since when did he feel the need to prove anything to anyone..he only said this ? It means only one thing.he loves prerna. Now for this he is entirely responsible .

Anurag had a cushioned and secure life, socially and economically, hence he is privileged. It is easy to be good, when life is good to you. Example is anu himself, when circumstances turned against him in the slightest and he lost prerna, he started changing for the worse, losing his reason, being suicidal etc.

Now, Bajaj we dont know what exactly his past is, but it is indicated that it was a bad one, lost his mother at a young age etc. His actions at present cannot be justified, but empathized. He had to become ruthless, coz the world was ruthless to him. Whatever happened in his past has damaged him to such an extend, that he cannot be a normal, loving, good human being. Infact, he is scared of being nice. But prernas niceness, is softening him and making him act nice. Ofcourse, he has to take full responsibility of his actions, that is his cross to bear. But he cant help envy anurag, who has everything he covets. Bajaj thinks anu is extremely lucky, and wishes he had what anu has. Maybe he always craved for these things, for love. And here is a man anurag, who gets it so effortlessly.