Mother ki daughter ko pakar bhi nahi payin gay: ajao saray - Page 20

Originally posted by: inlieu

Sabse pehle koi HS ko therapy ke liye bhejo.

Since the wedding day usko sadme pe sadme mil rahe hain.

Actually poori family so therapy ki zaroorat hai... 😆

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

May be babita is behaving weirdly as she said if u want me full u have to be father of Minni.. So if she ignores him obviously it will upset him and he may try to speak to Minni to sort out things...

I know thoda zyada lag raha hai but aaya dimag me to so have post kardoon...

I think she is afraid of the proximity, of feeling happy for her own self, of wanting her husband without guilt as a mother, and most importantly of no longer having a reason to put boundaries with HS. She has always enjoyed power plays in this relationship and so it continues.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think she is afraid of the proximity, of feeling happy for her own self, of wanting her husband without guilt as a mother, and most importantly of no longer having a reason to put boundaries with HS. She has always enjoyed power plays in this relationship and so it continues.

@bold.. Bingo even I had this thought....

I really hope she won't worsen the situation beyond repair...

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

It's definitely gonna happen someone will end up reading it hope it should be HS... Babita padhegi to ulta hi sochegi...

Aaj lala uncle ki baari thi so who's next in line? 😵

I hope it's not NB as she's the wisest character in the show, I really won't be able to see her character getting butchered to victimize Minnie even more 🥱

But won't be surprised if it happens cuz CVs can do anything for Minnie 😡

I am wondering why they showed HS starting to talk about his mother.

Was it because he wanted to talk about the only thing he was sure about at that stage? Was it because he was feeling low as a parent and wanted to refer to the parent that he loved and missed? Was he wanting to talk about new beginnings and fond memories of his mother? Was he wanting to share a bit about his bond with his mother and touch upon how he saw glimpses of her in Babita? Or was he simply trying to talk about an "unrelated" subject and come back to the one at hand?

I really really want to know what was on his mind.

I also want to know why it is so important for him to be Minnie's father. Why was he so devastated by the thought of not being accepted by her? What was it that seemed to make him think it would never happen, as opposed to thinking that it's something he could eventually work towards and build up over time? That would have happened in an arranged marriage, would it not?

What's the major trigger here? I think it has to do with his childhood trauma. I am dying to know about this and I really hope his reaction on the wedding day will be dissected later on in some emotional conversation with Minnie.

The only other thing I can think of is that he wanted to marry Babita mainly because of Minnie and then he found out (or so he thought) that she didn't want him to be her father after all. So he found himself in a situation where he was thinking 'what was all this for?' Could that be it?

I really am looking forward to this being explored. The CVs owe us that much at least.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I am wondering why they showed HS starting to talk about his mother.

Was it because he wanted to talk about the only thing he was sure about at that stage? Was it because he was feeling low as a parent and wanted to refer to the parent that he loved and missed? Was he wanting to talk about new beginnings and fond memories of his mother? Was he wanting to share a bit about his bond with his mother and touch upon how he saw glimpses of her in Babita? Or was he simply trying to talk about an "unrelated" subject and come back to the one at hand?

I really really want to know what was on his mind.

I think it was safe. His relationship with Babita was new grounds for him, and he has no idea what's going on with Minnie. But that room was his mother's and that sindoor ki dhabbi as well. She may have died tragically but she was a safe subject for him to talk about because she's history. There are no question marks to her, it's all periods. Babita and Minnie on the other hand, have become highly unpredictable.

Or, now that I think about it, she could also be the representation of loss. She was the first major element in his life that he lost. Then it was Imarti, and now Minnie and even Babita is on the verge of not being his.

I don't know what was running through his mind but the fact is that he tried to share something deeply personal to him and Babita just squandered it. Now I doubt he'll want to open up to her again about this.

This is what I was referring to yesterday when I said, the son in him is also going to be pushed aside / neglected.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I think it was safe. His relationship with Babita was new grounds for him, and he has no idea what's going on with Minnie. But that room was his mother's and that sindoor ki dhabbi as well. She may have died tragically but she was a safe subject for him to talk about because she's history. There are no question marks to her, it's all periods. Babita and Minnie on the other hand, have become highly unpredictable.

Or, now that I think about it, she could also be the representation of loss. She was the first major element in his life that he lost. Then it was Imarti, and now Minnie and even Babita is on the verge of not being his.

I don't know what was running through his mind but the fact is that he tried to share something deeply personal to him and Babita just squandered it. Now I doubt he'll want to open up to her again about this.

This is what I was referring to yesterday when I said, the son in him is also going to be pushed aside / neglected.

I wonder if he would have told her more about his mother but now he won't bring this topic up for ages. If he was talking about it because of the notion of loss in his life, then OMG his mind was in a worse state then I though. Your line about the son in him being pushed aside broke my heart. Uff!

Interesting that he chose to close the room to himself too instead of sleeping there alone. Why do you think? Is it because he wanted to make a new start there with his wife or because he didn't want to sleep in that room and feel the loneliness even more without Babita there.

I can't help feeling it was on some level related to the fact that Minnie had set the room up for them, but I guess we might never know. I am still dying of curiosity, though.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I also want to know why it is so important for him to be Minnie's father. Why was he so devastated by the thought of not being accepted by her? What was it that seemed to make him think it would never happen, as opposed to thinking that it's something he could eventually work towards and build up over time? That would have happened in an arranged marriage, would it not?

What's the major trigger here? I think it has to do with his childhood trauma. I am dying to know about this and I really hope his reaction on the wedding day will be dissected later on in some emotional conversation with Minnie.

Just like HS, despite having a father, Minnie didn't really have a dad. So rather than having her wander around lost like he might have, he supplied her with guidance and hope like a father should. Like, their fathers should have.

Given everything they have been through, a strong emotional bond was created. It was also given a name when they kept referring to each other as baap-beti. The only thing that stopped it from being official was the marriage or legal status. Besides, if Minnie never wanted him in a fatherly capacity, then she should have spoken up about it during the Puja. But she didn't, and she continued to encourage his thinking with her own words and actions.

Oh there's definitely a lot more going on in his childhood that we haven't delved into yet. We're only touching the surface of his trauma with his mom, but we haven't even talked about all the stuff that went down with his dad.