Mother ki daughter ko pakar bhi nahi payin gay: ajao saray - Page 17

Originally posted by: Jiarao

He has already started retracting. He will continue to drink all the poison until one day he starts spitting venom. That day he will be again blamed for hurting mother daughter.

One thing that hit me hard in today's episode was while writing diary Minnie mentioned about venom and how every relation will be at stake but never thought of HS drinking all the poison . This alone shows the relationship between her and HS is not what he/ us think. Blood relations are always stronger than dil ka rishta.

Minnie and HS will get stronger after this but with lots of ups and downs along the way. They barely know each other a few months. I will cut them some slack.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think he was afraid of talking about Minnie because to him it would mean coming to terms with the fact that his Veer Balika doesn't love him or want him, and considers him a third wheel. I don't think he wants to face this pain of his so he's trying to shut it out. Minnie's doing the same thing in many ways, and that may be why she didn't mention him in her diary. I find it hard to believe she would remain unaffected by his words. They are so alike!

Oh, she's definitely affected by his words. Her memories with him were the only things running through her mind when the phere were happening. Right now, she's too overwhelmed with the idea of losing Babes that she's not able to focus on HS. Losing Babes or even the idea of it, has completely shattered her. If she thinks about how she doesn't have her Hanuman Uncle either, she'll be devastated.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Did Babita give HS the chance to speak? What did you want him to do? Start talking about Minnie the moment he walked into the room? Babita wasn't civil towards HS while he was. He understood what she was saying and even agreed with her, but the way Babita was laying down conditions, and putting the entire responsibility of the marriage being a success on him, was not right.

Ya she did.. Which is why he started with the Sindoor ki dabbi talk.. There is absolutely no relation between Sindoor ki dabbi and Mini so of course Babita would assume he is not thinking about Mini at the moment.. She cannot read his mind..

I said Babita's tone was a problem but this time, its Hanuman who started with the wrong move.. Her laying the condition is understandable since Hanuman himself is unsure if he could ever be Mini's father after the CD fiasco.. He questions it and does not mention it again? And Babita is expected to listen to his wedding talk? No the talk would have been excellent if everything was fine.. But it wasn't and Hanuman tried to make it like it was which actually would lead to Babita wondering if Hanuman is rethinking Mini's role in this family.. Hanuman doubted Mini in a second.. Why can't Babita doubt him too?

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

And Babita should have guessed that? No.. HS and Mini had a major showdown.. HS questioned his position in Mini's life as a father.. Mini was not visible throughout the wedding proceedings.. and yet Hanuman does not even mention Mini when he and Babita start talking? That is not something I would expect Babita to understand.. Her tone was definitely wrong but not her reaction.. if Hanuman wanted to avoid that conversation, he should have made that clear to Babita before starting his talk about the sindoor.. they are not yet in that place in their relationship jahan ek banda bina kuch kahe doosre ki baat samajh le.. Not babita and not Hanuman

I never said she should have guessed it. I am only talking about HS' state. It's fine if she wants to clear her point of view, that's good. At least he will know what she thinks or expects, but she did not wait to hear what he had to say.

Now we'll never know.

Anyway, I personally don't want Babita to mend HS and Minnie's relation. I want them to find their wa back to each other themselves, it's much better that way.

As for understanding each other, I always said the wedding was too rushed. Now I will view it as though they had an arranged marriage and are learning about each other.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

this i agree. this post was made in a bit of anger at the episode.

but i will still say now is not the right time to give her the sindoor dani. she is still the mother. she also needs time to become the wife and there is a lot of tension and turmoil going on.

moreover HS has never shared anything about his mom with babita before, except that she was abused.

babita's actins might seem wrong, but she was just a worried mother, and a worried mother never sees anything beyond her child.

i have seen this personally and i cant argue with it. Maybe God has hard wired women in a way that when their child needs them they forget everything. - again personal opinion.

Ok Shruti....we both are correct here so no point to discuss this further....

But I seriously love your positivity towards Minnie and babes.....ha you like ha b but Minnie and babes jyada I think...

Mere case me reverse hai....

But I actually enjoyed interacting with you....

Keep up the positivity girl❤️

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I don't even mind HS reading her diary and figuring out what he means to her (where she had mentioned that she trusts HS to set everything right and give her the perfect family). Cliched it is but desperate times, desperate measures.

I'm only okay with the therapist reading Minnie's diary. That way, he can see exactly what's running through her head and help her out better. If Hanita read it, they won't be able to give her the appropriate help as they will incorporate some of their own bias into it.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Exactly. This is the first step of him retreating. And while he was trying to talk to her, she ignored him, didn't even look at him.

He's your husband for goodness sake, at least start the day in a nice way.

Even in the morning she ignore him....

I'm seriously upset....

Frankly, I think Hanuman and Mini both are on a self victimized mode in this track which is why neither of them would be willing to take the first step

Originally posted by: inlieu

Minnie and HS will get stronger after this but with lots of ups and downs along the way. They barely know each other a few months. I will cut them some slack.

Originally posted by: rivaanvira

Just managed to catch the episode and had to view it twice (minus babita scenes - couldnt tolerate her idiosyncratic behavior) and only one word comes to my mind BRUTAL .. FAK

Honestly, Babita is giving me a major headache.