Mother ki daughter ko pakar bhi nahi payin gay: ajao saray - Page 13

Finally cvs also come out into senses that from Reality holic to daily soap holic 👎🏼

Thank you so much 🙏 ruining all the characters.

Incase if they show any romantic moment also can’t make any sense neither enjoyable 😭

If Babita talk normal also feel like she is talking like Brool bhulaiyaa Vidya balan character Avani only 🤣

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

NB is needed for an intervention in trio’s life ASAP.

Yeah, where is she????

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

ashok was not even there when mini was born. i think i remember in 1 episode it was said he came back a few years after mini was born.

babita wouls have surely made mistakes. she was only 18, but how many mistakes could she have made in 1 month of marriage?

mita clearly said that she did not know ashok was married and had a child for 3 years. so that means mini was atleast 2 years old by the time mita and ashok came together. and ashok did not visit till mini was 2 or 3 years old. so that means he already had met mita and was in another relation technically a month after marriage.

Nope, Meeta met Ashok when he had already been married for 7 years.

Babita wanting to make sure Hanuman knew he was taking the role of father is not off the mark.. Hanuman, in his anger, did kind of back off from the same role when he said socha tha.. Socha tha might mean that now that Mini is not ready, he too will not try to be her father.. However, all of this could have been said in a calm manner too

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

You have wrong timeline.

Babita and Ashok were married for 17 years.

Meeta and Ashok were in relationship for 10 years. First 3 years Meeta didn’t know about Babita and Mini. She got to know afterwards. She wasn’t strong emotionally so she couldn’t leave Ashok. And they continued for 7 more years before coming to India and breaking it to everyone.

So Babita and Ashok did have married life for first 7 years. Now we don’t know how it was. Babita May have been ingrossed in her motherly duty and bahu duties to give time to Ashok whenecer he came home. She was young and she wasn’t mature. Plus away from her husband. So it’s understandable. Also she was under lot of pressure to be this good bahu. So might have acted accordingly.

I will still say Ashok takes a bigger share of blame coz he fell out of love with Babita and hide that from her for 10 years. That is a bigger dhoka than small mistakes Babita might have done or not.

i didnt know that mita and ashok were together for 10 years.

but still in total babita has only spent a few months with ashok.

@Bold - absolutely agree

Originally posted by: inlieu

It's fine if she wants to stay with Minnie, HS would never stop her. She could have said it in a nice way instead of being so aggressive. She didn't even listen to what he had to say.

The way she locked the door, as if to shut Minnie and her in her own world. She is having trouble letting go of her past, and of her role as only a mother. It will take time but she can't use Minnie as a crutch - it will create more misunderstandings in the family.

Exactly.. hS will never stop her of being mother of Minni but she need to understand that he is her husband and she can speak to him anything.. But she can't hurt him always...

That locking the door was weird.. Why the hell. U need to. Lock the door first thing...

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

he said i though i will be your father, but now...

i would assume the underlying feeling is that he doesnt think he can be her father.

Because he doesn't think she wants him to be. He won't ever force her to accept him as her father no matter how much he wants to be that.

Originally posted by: tantal

I don't find Babita to be that wrong today, unlike most of you.She had witnessed the ugly confrontation between HS and Minnie before the wedding. She saw how HS ignored Minnie pointedly throughout the wedding and in the hours after wards. SHe was ruminating on this and HS comes in, happy and nonchalant of everything htat had happened between him and Mini. If he had even said a sentence like 'Mini arranged this room for us' or something I think she would have taken it that HS is still the old dad self to Mini. But his continued ignoring of the show down scene and his accusation to Mini have made her feel insecure about the changing dynamics and she blurted out her innermost fears to him.

A second marriage will always have the children as the focal point and most of the conflicts and misunderstandings will also come because of that. It's not a clean slate, rosy goggles first wedding where nothing matters except the husband and the wif for the inital phase

Exactly HS not thinking about how he hurt mini & not discussing about her would have made babita say all that.

i supported HS when he said those insulting words to babita & when babita made him apologise, i felt she was wrong. but here HS intentions were to doubt mini & blame her for getting the cd at the mandap. Here what intentions is babita supposed to understand.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

This is really upsetting.

I guess it's another level of painful and she didn't want to think about it at the moment because she was already so disturbed by what's going on with her mother. And if she opened that can of worms, then she'll have to think about him as a father, and Ashok, and what kind of dad does she want. If she wants one at all, that is.

But she will have to confront her feelings one day. She needs therapy and hand holding right now. I really hope the opening scene meant that Mickey would go talk to HS about her one day.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

it may sound annoying, but it is a fact. mini is a part of babita. she is a part of her heart and soul. if a part of your heart and soul is not happy then how will you be happy? most importantly how can a mother be happy if her child is sad?

HS himself said something siilar when he and babita went to the doctor. that when mini is said his heart feels heavy and when mini is happy and laughs he feels happy himself.

Babita is totally right to worry about Minnie and her comfort, happiness, wellbeing above all else. That doesn't mean she can't care about HS or herself. It's not mutually exclusive.