Originally posted by: Fari_15
I am gonna be honest. From a practical POV, yes Vedika is not wrong to feel insecure and threatened. She does have a right to question her husbandās whereabouts.
Few things which I find wrong in her character:
1) She married Kartik knowing fully well he was still in love with his dead wife. Even if he had made promises and what not, how is she expecting him to move on or stop loving Naira, now that sheās back?
Her dialogues that everything would be normal once Naira leaves, but whom is she kidding? Kartik hasnāt spoken to her once since they got married. She has seen him running after Naira, leaving her behind, but she still expects him to forget Naira?
I am not saying her expectations are wrong given the fact that they are married but sheās just coming across as delusional right now. She hasnāt even had a conversation with Kartik about where they stand.
2) Sheās blaming Naira and everything, but shouldnāt her questions be directed towards Kartik? Heās the one ācheatingā on her, heās the one who married her, not Naira. Why does she expect Naira to walk away, shouldnāt her husband be the one to draw the lines?
3) Itās not about the marriage but her character. Sheās extremely weak, which is what annoys me the most. She canāt take a stand for herself. Her father died, the Goenkas accepted her, but if that wasnāt enough, she fell in love with a man who was grieving his wife. She guilt tripped Kartik into marrying her because of her own unrealistic expectations. Now she wants to hold on to him forever because of her one sided love and the fear of whatās gonna happen to her if Kartik leaves her. She doesnāt have any self-respect which is what irritates the hell out of me.
From a non-practical POV, I simply hate her. I donāt even know why. Itās something to do with how her character is portrayed, her expressions, her dialogue delivery. I have been brought up to be an independent, confident girl, so to a see a girl being this desperate for marriage, irks me I guess. I hate it when girls canāt stand up for themselves, talk in this timid, bechari voice.
Also, obviously from a fangirl POV as well, sheās the most annoying third wheel ever. I canāt enjoy Kaira scenes as well because thereās always this looming thought about Vedika.