Bajaj & Prerna's respect [DT Note page 16] - Page 2

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

I would like to know from your viewpoint that what you wished that he would have done at that point ???...like how you feel the scene should have been. He saw a women pushing his wife, the wife who was there to help the same women's son with all her heart. A wife whom he knows has married him just for the same family, a wife who is the reason that he stopped from destroying the same family. He shouldnt have reacted at all ????.....Though i dont agree with all the points you have stated of bajaj disrespecting prerna ....and i wont justify that because i know that convo will just go nowhere......but i personally would have not liked to see bajaj standing silent and tolerating it. Prerna didnt deserved that humiliation at all....she has been humilated by the same family before too when their son was not in a critical condition. Mohini has a habit of insulting prerna and yes somebody needed to give her that dose and tell prerna that she needs to learn to respect herself and not bow down to the family wants/demands always.

First of all, isn't he the reason of Prerna's humiliation in both ways - first by snatching her from Anu right before their marriage thus making her being hated by the Basus and secondly by being a reason behind why Anu is now in critical condition. So, when that is the case, him giving that gyaan really seemed like a joke to me. Also, he knowing the whole story, in no way justifies him taking a stand for her; instead it makes him look like a hypocrite more, as he himself doesn't want that story to come out. Also read my reply to IAdoreYou, to know why he sounds again like a hypocrite.

Coming to Pre's selfrespect & Mohini's insults, I am one of those who didn't want Pre to return to BB after Anu mercilessly humiliated her in public. She came back, exposed Komo and started cuddling with Anu even without questioning him for a second. Even now, after Bajaj gives gyaan on selfrespect, what we see in precap is she crying out for Anu to come back to life. Whether it will be the same in future, i don't know. But, as per what is shown till know, Anu's life is above everything for Pre; not even her self respect can stop her from being so. So, it's better we leave this matter until we see a change in her with this regard.

Coming to giving it back to Mohini & Nivi, our Pre has cooly & sassily done it many times in the past. When she wanted to show them the mirror, she didn't need anyone's help in that. She was enough to stand for her and her family. And it is that Pre we are missing now.

Originally posted by: prb4eva

She did it post her marriage with bajaj. Tried her best to make him believe that she married bajaj for money. But anurag is not leaving her any time soon. I know he is yet not aware of the truth behind her marriage.

But at least I expected him to find out that by now. But he didn't.

I'm damn sure from prerna side there is not going to be any love feelings towards bajaj so soon, whatever it will be that's going to be from his side only.

But she has already started respecting him so much that now she falls in that 1% category.

That trust and respect will slowly but surely will start turning into love with time. I can see thats coming later.

She has already started developing those feelings my dear or else we wouldn't have got such episodes over the last 2 weeks. Respect for what ? Helping her mother like seriously.... where was the same good man when he dealt with her to marry him in return for saving Anurag from a crime he never committed? If she can't see and understand his true identity then I can never connect with her ever now. Romance with him will start much much sooner this time just wait and watch 😆 Mata is in a hurry to do that 😛

Regarding Anurag he is able to see that she is hiding something from him and he believes that she won't do anything for money so he isn't ready to accept her lie and I support him in this.

Regarding Anurag following Prerna I would say that she came to BB with her husband not the other way round so Anurag is no longer responsible for this action of her husband.

Anurag always took stand for her.... biggest eg in this scene

https://www.instagram.com/p/B2bKOVlgvKZ/?igshid=f752lay0ovhz

Respect and Prerna dont really go together !!!!!

Prerna is such poorly written character that the I don't even feel pity or empathy for her in any scene.

I don't know why would anyone respect ( even mohini) respect someone who doesn't hv any self worth or self esteem. She is the one responsible for her own plight. She lets people talk to her like garbage, she lets people treat her like commodity ,walk all over her and she pays them back wid tears and respect. You need to stand up for yourself and your own respect for others to feel that for you.

Also when Mohini already knows Bajaj is responsible for the accident and Her dearest son who has lost himself in love wid Prerna ......when the same Prerna is standing wid the man responsible for her son's condition......what else can you expect ???.

In her eyes she left her son and now her husband almost killed her son.

Originally posted by: grace4317

First of all, isn't he the reason of Prerna's humiliation in both ways - first by snatching her from Anu right before their marriage thus making her being hated by the Basus and secondly by being a reason behind why Anu is now in critical condition. So, when that is the case, him giving that gyaan really seemed like a joke to me. Also, he knowing the whole story, in no way justifies him taking a stand for her; instead it makes him look like a hypocrite more, as he himself doesn't want that story to come out. Also read my reply to IAdoreYou, to know why he sounds again like a hypocrite.

Coming to Pre's selfrespect & Mohini's insults, I am one of those who didn't want Pre to return to BB after Anu mercilessly humiliated her in public. She came back, exposed Komo and started cuddling with Anu even without questioning him for a second. Even now, after Bajaj gives gyaan on selfrespect, what we see in precap is she crying out for Anu to come back to life. Whether it will be the same in future, i don't know. But, as per what is shown till know, Anu's life is above everything for Pre; not even her self respect can stop her from being so. So, it's better we leave this matter until we see a change in her with this regard.

Coming to giving it back to Mohini & Nivi, our Pre has cooly & sassily done it many times in the past. When she wanted to show them the mirror, she didn't need anyone's help in that. She was enough to stand for her and her family. And it is that Pre we are missing now.

My thing is why prerna needs to take all this..???...why basu family has to react like that....???..she was about to marry anurag right.....she had saved anurag life before too.....why dont the great basu's feel and think of the reason why she would have married bajaj ? In season 1 also, prerna dint informed basus about the reason of marriage.....they were in a horrible state but the very next day when they saw how bajaj backed off and is not into overtaking the company....they got it all by themselves .....here nobody cares. Anurag businesss was about to doom due to bajaj before he was jailed ...and after he came back, he was in a situation that he could overtake a business....but he doesnt care to think that why bajaj backed off......i mean if somebody is hell bent on destroying you, why will he suddenly back off, especially when anurag's family considers bajaj no less than a monster.....what reason they have given to themselves for ignoring such a big thing. What they thought....why bajaj backed off. And unlike the last season.....this season has actually given another clue to basus......anurag was about to get punishment....there were no proofs which could save them.....and achanak se one day they had a video which proved him innocent.....nobody bother to think that where that video came from......it was bajaj factory video.....why dint they question themselves that howcome bajaj helped them ......why would he ????.....nobody thought that all......unlike last season....they had two clues this time .....bajaj backing off and bajaj helping them.....still they choose to ignore both. Prerna had sacrificed for them and now to find about sacrifice was atleast their job.

Now bajaj being the reason she is being insulted.....no as i said before.....mohini has a habit if insulting prerna and it was from before....before bajaj entered the show even. And if you feel that bajaj is responsible for the humiliation she faced.....then toh its good na that he choosed to stand up and protect her .....if he is the reason....then he should definitely not let her suffer.......whatever should come.....should come on him and not her in my openion. If anurag's life is above everything for pre ....then isnt the same thing known to anurag family tooo .???....then why are they doubting her intentions.....why are they humiliating her. If she has stood by them without questions.....why cant they now do the same.

Its not about prerna needs someone or not.......the thing for me is she doesnt deserve the humilation thrown at her.......If she is not stopping it herself ......its good bajaj is doing that for her.....aakhir they are husband wife.....its his duty to protect her.

I would call it a character development, Isn’t thats how it’s suppose to be? Starts on the bad note but slowly they change their ways.

Bajaj was suppose to be ruthless jerk who will get what ever he wants, that’s what the memo was. Now his growing affection for Prerna is changing him, Do you expect him to treat her the way he treated her before?

You mean just because he did something wrong in the past he has got no right to do right things now?

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Respect and Prerna dont really go together !!!!!

Prerna is such poorly written character that the I don't even feel pity or empathy for her in any scene.

I don't know why would anyone respect ( even mohini) respect someone who doesn't hv any self worth or self esteem. She is the one responsible for her own plight. She lets people talk to her like garbage, she lets people treat her like commodity ,walk all over her and she pays them back wid tears and respect. You need to stand up for yourself and your own respect for others to feel that for you.

Also when Mohini already knows Bajaj is responsible for the accident and Her dearest son who has lost himself in love wid Prerna ......when the same Prerna is standing wid the man responsible for her son's condition......what else can you expect ???.

In her eyes she left her son and now her husband almost killed her son.

Bold - Since she is not the Best Mother, according to EK, and has sixth sense to understand Pre did a sacrifice for Anu, she is supposed to worship Mr. & Mrs. Bajaj then & there.😊

Another thing you mentioned that bajaj doesnt want the truth out.....why will he not want the truth out ???.....prerna doesnt want it out because she cares for anurag, dont want him to suffer all his life in guilt......but bajaj has no reason to hide. Its not like they are putting an act of lovey dovey husband wife that the revealation would hamper anything for him. Their relationship is same what is visible to outsiders....except the sleeping thing. Bajaj has no reason to hide anything.......he never asked prerna to hide either. He even asked prerna to talk to her mother about that.....so that she could accept them

Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

She has already started developing those feelings my dear or else we wouldn't have got such episodes over the last 2 weeks. Respect for what ? Helping her mother like seriously.... where was the same good man when he dealt with her to marry him in return for saving Anurag from a crime he never committed? If she can't see and understand his true identity then I can never connect with her ever now. Romance with him will start much much sooner this time just wait and watch 😆 Mata is in a hurry to do that 😛

Regarding Anurag he is able to see that she is hiding something from him and he believes that she won't do anything for money so he isn't ready to accept her lie and I support him in this.

Regarding Anurag following Prerna I would say that she came to BB with her husband not the other way round so Anurag is no longer responsible for this action of her husband.

Anurag always took stand for her.... biggest eg in this scene

https://www.instagram.com/p/B2bKOVlgvKZ/?igshid=f752lay0ovhz

I'm not supporting her at all. I'm just stating the facts that she has started respecting him kuch jyada hi, too quickly than expected.

Regarding her stay at bb, it's anurag who first took over bajaj house. I know we can say he can find some other place even if he lost his own house to him but now here it's about zid for him. You took over my house

I took 50% ownership of your house.

I never saw show before, that's why I never comment anything about the first 200 episodes, because it will be a foolish thing for me to comment on anything which I never saw.

I'm just aware of the overall summary which my friends told me what happened till bajaj entered.

I'm not into any Fandom yet n thus i always posts from neutral point.

Yes I agree, Bajaj needs to face the consequences if he did that accident, which he himself admitted doing it infront of his wife. I really don't know what police said in Friday's epi. I never heard such uslesss statement from a police officer in my life.

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

Another thing you mentioned that bajaj doesnt want the truth out.....why will he not want the truth out ???.....prerna doesnt want it out because she cares for anurag, dont want him to suffer all his life in guilt......but bajaj has no reason to hide. Its not like they are putting an act of lovey dovey husband wife that the revealation would hamper anything for him. Their relationship is same what is visible to outsiders....except the sleeping thing. Bajaj has no reason to hide anything.......he never asked prerna to hide either. He even asked prerna to talk to her mother about that.....so that she could accept them

Yes, it's upto prerna what she wants. As you mentioned in your post, he is not going to lose or gain anything by hiding it. He is hiding it just because prerna doesn't want anyone to know about it.

The ball is in prerna's court.

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

From the time, i have started watching this show....prerna without any fault of hers has sacrificed big for this family.....she hears insults from everywhere which she doesnt deserve. She is one character who is ready to take everything upon herselves like she says to shivani....main le loongi....mujhe bolo....aisa nahi ki main insan nahi hoon....mujhe bhi dard hota hain....but main phir bhi sabkuch le loongi. She is personally hiding the truth also because she believes that anurag will feel guilty of what happened all his life. I was personally tired of mohini rants.....and mohini is no good person either....she is someone who choosed that veena suffers even when she had no hand in hurting her son. She has put an innocent veena in jail before too.

My thing is why prerna needs to take all this..???...why basu family has to react like that....???..she was about to marry anurag right.....she had saved anurag life before too.....why dont the great basu's feel and think of the reason why she would have married bajaj ? In season 1 also, prerna dint informed basus about the reason of marriage.....they were in a horrible state but the very next day when they saw how bajaj backed off and is not into overtaking the company....they got it all by themselves .....here nobody cares. Anurag businesss was about to doom due to bajaj before he was jailed ...and after he came back, he was in a situation that he could overtake a business....but he doesnt care to think that why bajaj backed off......i mean if somebody is hell bent on destroying you, why will he suddenly back off, especially when anurag's family considers bajaj no less than a monster.....what reason they have given to themselves for ignoring such a big thing. What they thought....why bajaj backed off. And unlike the last season.....this season has actually given another clue to basus......anurag was about to get punishment....there were no proofs which could save them.....and achanak se one day they had a video which proved him innocent.....nobody bother to think that where that video came from......it was bajaj factory video.....why dint they question themselves that howcome bajaj helped them ......why would he ????.....nobody thought that all......unlike last season....they had two clues this time .....bajaj backing off and bajaj helping them.....still they choose to ignore both. Prerna had sacrificed for them and now to find about sacrifice was atleast their job.

Now bajaj being the reason she is being insulted.....no as i said before.....mohini has a habit if insulting prerna and it was from before....before bajaj entered the show even. And if you feel that bajaj is responsible for the humiliation she faced.....then toh its good na that he choosed to stand up and protect her .....if he is the reason....then he should definitely not let her suffer.......whatever should come.....should come on him and not her in my openion. If anurag's life is above everything for pre ....then isnt the same thing known to anurag family tooo .???....then why are they doubting her intentions.....why are they humiliating her. If she has stood by them without questions.....why cant they now do the same.

Its not about prerna needs someone or not.......the thing for me is she doesnt deserve the humilation thrown at her.......If she is not stopping it herself ......its good bajaj is doing that for her.....aakhir they are husband wife.....its his duty to protect her.

Agree to almost all the matters you have written here.

I don't have a problem with Bajaj speaking for Pre. Infact he had warned Mohini on the day they stepped in BB not to take his wife's name unwantedly. That didn't give me any awkward feeling. Infact as a husband he was doing his duty.

This time what made it awkward is the timing & situation he was giving the gyaan on respecting Pre. And in such a situation, when it is shown that Mohini has gone to the extent of challenging God, you can't expect Mohini to behave sanely. And i am completely on Mohini's side in that. This has nothing to do with AnuPre or PreRish. Because, this time i can only see a mother who is scared of loosing her only son's life and that too because of the person who snatched her son's happiness from him.