Kun k aap, aap ho: ajao saray - Page 8

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Is that Tom Holland in your DP?😆

Exactly what I thought. Puraane hisaab koi settle wagera nahi karne, kyunki Babita is now a different one. Now she won't take any crap in the name of any relationship and yo ekdum final hai😎

YEESSS!!! Kari mehnat ke baad I was able to change it to him. 🤣 Btw, I was gonna ask you all if you could see the DP since I'm getting the grey icon. 🤔 Par tu ne toh dil ki baat sun li. 🤗

Haan, aur iss baar Minnie aur HS andaro andaro khush hoyenge Babita ko sun kar. 😆

Imarti nahi toh HS ke baare mein bhi chalega. Babita will tolerate shit about herself but not about HS or moreover Imarti. That is the perfect trigger.

Even if Lovely compares Ashok and HS, it shall be trigger enough for her.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

i have a question: how are we supposed to wait till tomorrow for the next episode?

i cant wait at all. i just want to keep watching HS babita and mini.

I am feeling the same...

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Imarti nahi toh HS ke baare mein bhi chalega. Babita will tolerate shit about herself but not about HS or moreover Imarti. That is the perfect trigger.

Even if Lovely compares Ashok and HS, it shall be trigger enough for her.

Hey even this is fab! Aaj hi beeji has said to lovely to not mention ashok again and again as babes is trying to begin a new life.

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

I shouldn't be saying this, but I really feel Khuranna family is jinxed. Both the kids are of no use. One has an extra marital affair, and could never help the family in terms of financing, on the other, the daughter turned out to be infertile and is not even independent. I think infertility is not a problem, but she is just so irritating. Cannot do anything without Sukhi. And Sukhi also, kept on incurring losses. I really feel bad for Babita that she was once married in such a house. So much of negativity I get, when I meet such people. 😳😖

But today's Hanita scene was amazing. I was yearning for this since so many days. And now one thing is clear, she would be calling him 'ji'. I really loved, how in a flow she told everything that was in her heart and mind. And our HS patiently listening to his Lady Love!

Aur ek baat, aap sabko ganesh chaturti ki bahut shubhkamnayein. Gannu bhaiya aap sabko humesha khush rakhe. I know, mein late hoon, but, I was not able to remain active here due to reasons. Der aaye durust aaye.... 🤗🤗❤

Ya..even I am feeling there is problem in khurrana DNA 😅😂

Btw..happy festival 😍

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

YEESSS!!! Kari mehnat ke baad I was able to change it to him. 🤣 Btw, I was gonna ask you all if you could see the DP since I'm getting the grey icon. 🤔 Par tu ne toh dil ki baat sun li. 🤗

Haan, aur iss baar Minnie aur HS andaro andaro khush hoyenge Babita ko sun kar. 😆

🤗

Bohot khush. HS toh dance karne lagega apni hone waali sherni lugaayi dekhkar

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I just loved today's episode! Just LOVED IT SO MUCH.

It was so so heartwarming to watch that conversation between HS and Babes. And how subtly yet fiercely she replied to Lovely!

I just loved the whole thing cause I can relate to whatever Babita said. I've watched it in real life and it's heartbreaking. So I totally loved whatever happened today and I can feel Babita today, like I'd been feeling HS.

There's so much bottled inside her. So much of frustration seeped into since years. It's not easy to do that.

Also, one thing that I saw was how image conscious is Babita. She doesn't want to get labelled as someone 'bad'. That I can very well identify with myself and many others. We know it's wrong that's happening but won't hit back cause what if others think I'm bad? And that somewhere comes from being low on confidence. You need constant validation of others of how good you are. You cannot unapologetically be yourself, like Mini is.

Now Babita has realised that she has flaws too, hence now this phase of 'I'm not that good as you think'.

And the next phase will be to be unapologetically yourself. <3

PS : I love how Babita is so free with HS, she can discuss almost anything with him. That's so so good! They need such talks.

PPS : How disgusting can Lovely be! When I thought I should sympathize with her, she comes up with something even more disgraceful. Ewwww.

When you think you cant enjoy anymore, CVs give us such splendid episodes. Cheers!

@bold -- That is so true. I have seen people like Lovely. Such hypocrites.

@red -- Babita's confidence has always been real low. After every decision she takes, she asks Mini, HS or Naeem Bi for approval.

She says -- Ab mein apne liye jiyungi. Next sentence she will ask -- Sahi keh rahi hoon na mein Mini?

After Mini's anxiety disorder, She called up Dadu and Beeji to meet Mini coz Mini was feeling lonely. Then she asks HS -- Sahi kiya na mene?

So far not a single decision she has taken on her own. Married at 18, Mother next and bearing all the duties of bahu, her own personality went complete missing. When Ashok betrayed her, many people told her, she couldn't keep her husband happy. So he strayed. That was a massive hit on her confidence. Then came many betrayals from her closed ones. Even her own brother.

On the first day of her job, she was clutching Mini's hand. At every new step she gets nervous. She thinks she is not good enough. When she was jealous with HS & Poonam flirting, she said, she is like this. woh dusri ladies ki tarah smart nahi hai. She was clutching Mini's hand while talking on phone coz she was scared that he won't accept her like this. But when he did, she let go of Mini's hand. Gained little confidence.

This low-confidence to confidence journey is what I am looking for. Bas ek baar give lovely bua back.. dhaain se.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

it is great that the CVs are finally tackling babita's issues. how she wanted to speak up but could not, probably due to the things her mother instilled in her from a young age. and her own fear.

but now she needs to confront those fears and answer back. she has mini and HS by her side. she has the people to support her which was lacking in her marriage to ashok. she did not have a husband's support. here she does.

we saw a glimpse of it when she says that she does not want anyone to say that she is in a live in sin (which i dont think is a sin). i think she just needs another slight push to open and and speak out. just like she spoke up to khatri when mini was in depression and HS adviced her to change herself to see a change in mini. now she needs to let go of the fear of not being called a good bahu and answer back. and moreover she is no longer khurana's bahu.

the precap was nice. tomorrow's episode is going to be super cute. cant wait.

She gave back to Khatri after eating ice-cream. HS ko use fir se ice-cream khilane le jane ki jarurat hai. On his bike. Fir dekho.. vapis aaje band bajayegi lovely ka.

Originally posted by: attiya1.3

I think it was a reason to take babes back home. And she was frustrated because it was lovely idea. Had it been NB or biji idea with the real intention of a ritual. It was forced on babita

That whole scene was off to me. Firstly, the transition to it was abrupt and then Minnie just came out of nowhere beckoning Babes to go home as if she were a kid again. I agree that Lovely's way of bringing Babes to Naeem Bi's place wasn't right. It was rude and disgusting but there was the aspect of it being necessary for the rituals to be complete.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

My heartfelt respect to Sukhiji, how he manages with Lovely, single handedly is some amazing skill.

Ek kan se suno aur dusre kan se.. shhiiii. (imagine HS saying in his style. 😆)