If you are in love with one person and fall for other

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Posted: 6 years ago
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There is phrase that if you love a person and fall for another person. You should stay with second person because you never loved person 1.

Anurag never falls in love with Komolika despite marrying her. So he loved Prerna with all he can have.

Prerna will fall in love with Bajaj means she never loved Anurag with all herself. Anurag is part of her life but never her life. She never loved him, if she did she had done anything to do with him. If she loved him she choose to divorce Bajaj and reunite with Anurag.

What is stopping you lady?

Your kid and his biological father has all right to be each other.

Who are you to decide who will be official father of child?

The kid is growing in your womb, doesn't give you absolute power to decide everything.

Atleast tell kid's father about existence of the kid. Bajaj may be turned out great father for the kid but he is not kid's father. There will be question in kid's mind.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Prerna feels secured with bajaj & she might be feeling bajaj has taken care Of special child all alone.

She is feeling her kid in womb will have great father bajaj in his life.

I think bajaj will be great father to anurags child.

She is feeling insecure around anurag, a woman seeks secured life and good companion rather than love.

So prerna found maturity in bajaj and the way he cares ppl and protects his family and the ppl associated with him.

So obviously she has to turn to bajaj rather than anurag who cant give her security to herself and her child

Bajaj has experience of fatherhood so he will take care of prernas child better than anurag

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't believe in this phrase. I believe, one can fall in love again, despite having loved someone else prior to that person without this thing of you didn't love the first if you fell for the second.

While I don't know, what stops Prerna from revealing her pregnancy to him, I do not find it beyond redemption for apparently, the kid's biological father who is also a genius in Chemistry, Biology and what not - did not, even once, put forward a genuine query - that after doing what they did - was she, by any chance, pregnant? Come on, who doesn't think about it after getting intimate?

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Parijatrocks

Prerna feels secured with bajaj & she might be feeling bajaj has taken care Of special child all alone.

She is feeling her kid in womb will have great father bajaj in his life.

I think bajaj will be great father to anurags child.

She is feeling insecure around anurag, a woman seeks secured life and good companion rather than love.

So prerna found maturity in bajaj and the way he cares ppl and protects his family and the ppl associated with him.

So obviously she has to turn to bajaj rather than anurag who cant give her security to herself and her child

Bajaj has experience of fatherhood so he will take care of prernas child better than anurag

agree with u 👍🏼👍🏼😛
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: AryanSahil

agree with u 👍🏼👍🏼😛

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Parijatrocks

Prerna feels secured with bajaj & she might be feeling bajaj has taken care Of special child all alone.

She is feeling her kid in womb will have great father bajaj in his life.

I think bajaj will be great father to anurags child.

She is feeling insecure around anurag, a woman seeks secured life and good companion rather than love.

So prerna found maturity in bajaj and the way he cares ppl and protects his family and the ppl associated with him.

So obviously she has to turn to bajaj rather than anurag who cant give her security to herself and her child

Bajaj has experience of fatherhood so he will take care of prernas child better than anurag

If you met an orphan or kids who are away from their one parents you will get my point. No matter how bad biological parents are, a kid most of the time want to know them. There is carving to explore relationship with biological parents. May be Bajaj great father he is not biological father. Its not justified to alienate the kid from one parent.

Prerna can do anything she want to do with her life but a kid has right to be with his both parents.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I only agree with the fact that she should have told anurag by now about her being pregnant with his child.

But what you mentioned about "falling in love again with someone else means not truly loved the first person "is what I also don't believe in.

One can fall in love again.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: yurimehta11

If you met an orphan or kids who are away from their one parents you will get my point. No matter how bad biological parents are, a kid most of the time want to know them. There is carving to explore relationship with biological parents. May be Bajaj great father he is not biological father. Its not justified to alienate the kid from one parent.

Prerna can do anything she want to do with her life but a kid has right to be with his both parents.

no anurag molested prerna dumped her post having physical relationship

Prerna has.more rights on child now, she has rights to abort the child too.

Child must be thankful to prerna that she dint abort & giving life to it.

Anurag dont deserve to know too

He forced her to have physical relation when she denied once too with promise of marrying her but he dumped her.

Whatever happened that day was act of harmones high, which any teenagers who trust the opposite partner will do. It was one afternoon stand which dont have any value.

Moreover prerna never loved anurag and she is giving secured life to anurags child by choosing bajaj as father.

Bajaj will never make child even at once feel that he is not childs biological father. He will give same love what cookie is getting.

Child will never get to know anurag is reason for his life too.

Prerna de rahee hai na ready made experienced papa👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

Hum do hamare do family to unborn aur kya chahiye bacche ko

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Posted: 6 years ago
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In many American shows I have seen they love eachother and they fall out of love and they move on with some other. Does that mean that they never loved eachother before? I believe not.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I have watched old KZK and that was way better than this one

This one i watch rarely

I am not sure here why prerana married Bajaj, but in old one Bajaj blackmailed her saying he will take away all of Anurags business etc so she had to marry him unwillingly

Now i do not think if you love someone you cannot fall in love again. Why should not prerana fall in love again? That too with a man like bajaj? Except for age factor he is superior to anurag in everything

Anurag married komolika although he loved prerana no. So why prerana cannot marry bajaj?

Atleast she does not have to compete for love and position in husband house with komolika

Atleast with bajaj there is no other wife tag, prerana is only wife of bajaj

Is that not reason enough for her to want to marry bajaj

Which woman want to be second wife or compete with another wife for lovers love or husband love

With bajaj she is only wife of bajaj and he loves her although may not say it openly

Love is over rated factor in life. After marriage or few years when responsibilities and family pressures will startits not love that will sustain relationship its character, behaviiour, safety, security, economy etc that will sustain relationship in long term

Prerana life is more secure with a Bajaj who is 20 + years elder to her(i assume hes 45 and she 25 now) in long term than anurag because Bajaj loves her. Always marry person who loves you not one whom you love for happy life. Do not ppl say that always.

If komolika divorce anurag thats diff matter but i do not see that happening

The very fact that aurag married komolika no matter what issues means he never loved prerana at all. Why blame prerana for closing a relationship that had no future and moving on in life.

Yes anurag must know about his baby, but he has another wife and family. Why spoil that by saying about his child? Its best to avoid more fights and making child a pawn in elders game. Its best bajaja be baby's child and gaurdian. Even law says child stays with mother till big enough to decide.

Komolika will not treat baby nicely if anurag takes to his house

Edited by myviewprem - 6 years ago

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