कसौटी ज़िन्दगी के ২ LIVE UPDATE/Episode Discussions 29 Aug 2019 - Page 4

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Atleast anurag isn't pregnant.

When anurag dumped pre, she was pregnant and he publicly humiliated her by calling her a gold digger. Yet she didn't kill herself.

I don't think blaming pre for his suicide makes sense. Anurag is a weak character.

Definitely ppl can be frustrated with Pre for her stupid sacrifice and dumping Anurag like a hot 🥔 potato.

But blaming her for suicide? Really?

Exactly Sneha. Prerna if I compare had all the more reason to commit suicide. She was even publicly humiliated. Anurag was never . Prerna has always told off Anurag in private.

If Anurag is such a weak character, then one cannot blame other person.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Did Pre love Anu at all? Did she ever know who Anu was as a person ever? Her behavior since becoming Mrs. Baj makes one doubt if she ever did.

What was her sacrifice worth? Zilch! nada! Ziphor! zero! She continues to spin the same married Baj for his wealth story. Anu heard her and didn’t buy her story then. Does she believe if she said it often enough he’d go for it eventually? Then she didn’t know the man she claimed to love at all. He saw through her lies always and he senses she’s not telling him the truth.

If the man she claims to have loved isn’t buying her story why drag on adding to his misery. Why string him along withholding the truth? If she truly wants him to find someone else and move on then shouldn’t she just tell him about her so called sacrifice and let him move on. Her sacrifice is worthless given how she’s torturing him with her pack of lies.

If she an ounce of respect for the man she once loved she wouldn’t have walked into his house even if her sadistic husband wanted to move into Basu house. Is Baj broke that he can’t afford to buy his new wife a decent condo if not a mansion?

Btw, where is Kuki these days...yet another day and the kid is ignored yet again. Baj’s getting all the attention instead.🤔

It just sum up in my my pov. Bajaj and his family is soulmate and soul family for her. With Anurag it was just.. infatuation and attraction..that's all. Otherwise she would have mention about a baby to him ages ago when she was living with him..

I clearly remember in komo time people bashing Anurag that she might do suicide lol... because of him. So y this hipocrisy. I mean Pre is victim on komo time but Anu is not lol.. I dont support suicide but please have balance and valid argument plz.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Hey bhagwan aur kitna pyar dekhna hai? It's because of this goddamn love which he is seeing from behind her mask which is driving him insane 🤢 i wish he could see the foolishness and indecisiveness inside her too..how well this woman can act ..wah ! We're still unable to see what's inside her.

Why the hell is she asking "anurag" to keep her mom away from all this ? What did he do? Go and vomit out this shit on ma jaisi masi who filed a case against her mom .

Bingo! He always said he could read her eyes for the truth. She is leading him on when they look at each other. She’s also warming up to pati admiring him these days.

Can’t help but ask what pleasure does she get lying to the one she still loves though she claims to have moved on and yet warming up to the man who ruined her life so readily? Makes her come across as a cold hearted fish.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Did Pre love Anu at all? Did she ever know who Anu was as a person ever? Her behavior since becoming Mrs. Baj makes one doubt if she ever did.

What was her sacrifice worth? Zilch! nada! Ziphor! zero! She continues to spin the same married Baj for his wealth story. Anu heard her and didn’t buy her story then. Does she believe if she said it often enough he’d go for it eventually? Then she didn’t know the man she claimed to love at all. He saw through her lies always and he senses she’s not telling him the truth.

If the man she claims to have loved isn’t buying her story why drag on adding to his misery. Why string him along withholding the truth? If she truly wants him to find someone else and move on then shouldn’t she just tell him about her so called sacrifice and let him move on. Her sacrifice is worthless given how she’s torturing him with her pack of lies.

If she an ounce of respect for the man she once loved she wouldn’t have walked into his house even if her sadistic husband wanted to move into Basu house. Is Baj broke that he can’t afford to buy his new wife a decent condo if not a mansion?

Btw, where is Kuki these days...yet another day and the kid is ignored yet again. Baj’s getting all the attention instead.🤔

Did Pre love Anu at all?

A really good question.

I honestly feel both AnuPre never loved each other but they feel they are deeply in love.

What they feel towards each other is extreme attachment which their mind assumes is Love.

I am an ardent fan of Sister Shivani and am going to bhramakumaris centre since last four months for their Rajyog meditation and Murlis. During last few months I have learnt a lot.

There is one thing - attachment to someone. Second is love. They are not same.

When there is attachment, there is feeling of receiving something from others, getting their love, acceptance, support and time. One will feel as a dependent on them for happiness.

Second is love. Love means to give and JUST TO GIVE. Not to accept any returns. Nor a feeling of pain when someone else is in pain. Who is a good doctor?

1. Doctor who feels pains and injury of their patient and become a patient himself.

2. Doctor who heals the pain while remaining stable.

Love is when two beings find a feeling of being more complete when they both are together. But when separated, they will not feel pain, because they are connected from inside, in their deep feeling and thoughts. This is love and purely a love in which there is no vice or weakness.

Originally posted by: intruderfast

To all those bashing prerna for forcing anu to suicide.

Even darling anu dumped her once. She cried , was heartbroken but never committed suicide.

It's not prerna fault if Anu is such weak, coward and selfish. Suicide is an act of ultimate cowardness and selfishness. Prerna cannot be blamed 4 that.

He isn't pausing to think abt his other family members. Whole family is dependent on him right now. Prerna prerna prerna .

Ek ladki kaa pyaar baaki sari family ke pyaar pe bhari pad gaya.

I hope in real life no one does this kind of pyaar. This is madness

And don't worry anurag won't commit suicide...

I m confused with prerna's main ye ghr chhor k chli jaungi dhamki...like seriously women..have some shame..u r not at all ashamed of living under the same roof with ur ex husband and on top of it threatening him to leave that house..😕 did basus invited her n her family to live there. That they would mind or be heartbroken with her leaving...🤷 No wonder ppl aren't able to connect with her...

Originally posted by: pallawi1803

I m confused with prerna's main ye ghr chhor k chli jaungi dhamki...like seriously women..have some shame..u r not at all ashamed of living under the same roof with ur ex husband and on top of it threatening him to leave that house..😕 did basus invited her n her family to live there. That they would mind or be heartbroken with her leaving...🤷 No wonder ppl aren't able to connect with her...

even I did not understood that Dhamki .....😆 Like LOL ...Anurag himself wanted to leave BB when she and her husband was coming to stay there and didn't she wanted Anurag to move on ?? toh daily showing her face to him how can he move on ?? Should have taken this decision long back and more than that should have asked conveyed her husband long back ....😆.

That Dhamki was Hilarious ....😆

Originally posted by: pallawi1803

I m confused with prerna's main ye ghr chhor k chli jaungi dhamki...like seriously women..have some shame..u r not at all ashamed of living under the same roof with ur ex husband and on top of it threatening him to leave that house..😕 did basus invited her n her family to live there. That they would mind or be heartbroken with her leaving...🤷 No wonder ppl aren't able to connect with her...

mtlb dhamki kya thi😆 ja bahan tero ko kisi na roka hai

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Did Pre love Anu at all?

A really good question.

I honestly feel both AnuPre never loved each other but they feel they are deeply in love.

What they feel towards each other is extreme attachment which their mind assumes is Love.

I am an ardent fan of Sister Shivani and am going to bhramakumaris centre since last four months for their Rajyog meditation and Murlis. During last few months I have learnt a lot.

There is one thing - attachment to someone. Second is love. They are not same.

When there is attachment, there is feeling of receiving something from others, getting their love, acceptance, support and time. One will feel as a dependent on them for happiness.

Second is love. Love means to give and JUST TO GIVE. Not to accept any returns. Nor a feeling of pain when someone else is in pain. Who is a good doctor?

1. Doctor who feels pains and injury of their patient and become a patient himself.

2. Doctor who heals the pain while remaining stable.

Love is when two beings find a feeling of being more complete when they both are together. But when separated, they will not feel pain, because they are connected from inside, in their deep feeling and thoughts. This is love and purely a love in which there is no vice or weakness.

Anu has a savior complex when it comes to Pre. He has been saving her from one impulsive trouble after another.

If Pre had the guts to trust him with the truth how would he have behaved? Love doesn’t mean a thing if trust isn’t the foundation.

Love is what you give unconditionally without expecting anything in return. Anu is still caught in his belief that he and Pre are made for each other and belong together.

When two people claim to love each other what they are really saying is “I love who I am when I’m with you”. Even our understanding of another person’s experience is through the lens of our own experience. Is Anu struggling to come to terms that the Pre he knew could so easily drop him like an old sock and walk away?