Kitchen politics & Bajaj-Prerna!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: intruderfast

I am exhausted. Sanjivani is starting today. Will jump ships now.

Story kachra ho rahi hai

Me too. I can't take this anymore. It's a serious headache from plot to dialogues to everything.

Count me in Sanjeevani ship. I am keeping my fingers crossed for that one.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Prerna did not take responsibilities of Kuki with her marzi. We really have to get that out of our heads. She just resorted to compromise in the situation she was stuck in.

As for Prerna engaging in every damn thing, what was Bajaj thinking when he decided to live in BB or allowed Basus to stay. Did he not expect constant melodrama under one roof? Did he think Prerna wouldn't involve in any of it knowing by her history? Or did he think that Prerna should just behave like a robot & a professional nanny despite knowing she shares the history with Basus & Anurag. Does he not understand the behavior or human dynamic at all? Did he think under one roof, Prerna-Anurag & Basus will never talk at all, there will be no issues & all will live & dance merrily like Hum sath sath hain?

He can't tolerate anything when it comes to his daughter, yet he subjects his child to a toxic environment of Basu Bari. Seriously? What does he think that a child of such impressionable age wouldn't get affected by the toxic mattets of elderly?

Prerna is an individual with her own thoughts & she can involve herself in ghar ke matters as a wife & what she thinks is necessary to be done as per her own understanding. That's how she has always been, no matter how stupid her past actions have been. And subconsciously Bajaj wants Prerna to behave as his wife in public. I am damn sure, he or his maasi wouldn't like it a bit if Prerna took a stand for Basus publicly at this stage.

Sneha as a child needs many care takers & not just one because Bajaj can't see her in any trouble at all & she keeps on getting into trouble. He himself should be on the duty by her side 24*7 considering the case & his reaction. He blasted at school teachers with all the donation lecture just because his daughter got hurt in some task, which by all means is quite a normal thing and teachers did provide the first aid.

What was his massi doing? Does she not have any responsibility for the child? If Sneha isn't in the house, what were guards doing? Or maybe, he should consider buying a tracker for his daughter now considering her special case instead of relying on one woman cum wife cum nanny.

she even dint take for a sec to accept kuki . ofcourse it was her marji , she easily could deny to go against taking kuki's responsibilities. she showed extra affection towards her without a second thought . toh it is obvious she has no problem. and the way she has behaved as mother from day1 , she never felt for her own child for a once. so in kuki's matter it was not forced.

and duty comes first . as now she is kuki's mother her first priority should be kuki only more than anything . and bajaj married her only for that , not for as a wife. he was full clear on that in last week , now it is prerna's choice how to accept , how to be behaved. and bajaj is a busy person , he could not be with kuki 24/7 and that is why he married prerna as prerna kuki bonded well.. yah it sounded rude but from bajaj's perspective it is completely right to be a possessive and super protective father ,cos her daughter is deaf and dumb , so her condition is more sensitive than normal .. any of parents will behave the same who will be on bajaj's place n whom has special child

and bajaj dint give responsibility on masi and Tanvi , he was only trust on prerna , that is why everything. if massi and tanvi would so much responsible then bajaj never had to marry .. it is not like nanny , cos nanny will never do anything like mother.. and bajaj brought mother for kuki ...

Originally posted by: opsora2090

she even dint take for a sec to accept kuki . ofcourse it was her marji , she easily could deny to go against taking kuki's responsibilities. she showed extra affection towards her without a second thought . toh it is obvious she has no problem. and the way she has behaved as mother from day1 , she never felt for her own child for a once. so in kuki's matter it was not forced.

and duty comes first . as now she is kuki's mother her first priority should be kuki only more than anything . and bajaj married her only for that , not for as a wife. he was full clear on that in last week , now it is prerna's choice how to accept , how to be behaved. and bajaj is a busy person , he could not be with kuki 24/7 and that is why he married prerna as prerna kuki bonded well.. yah it sounded rude but from bajaj's perspective it is completely right to be a possessive and super protective father ,cos her daughter is deaf and dumb , so her condition is more sensitive than normal .. any of parents will behave the same who will be on bajaj's place n whom has special child

and bajaj dint give responsibility on masi and Tanvi , he was only trust on prerna , that is why everything. if massi and tanvi would so much responsible then bajaj never had to marry .. it is not like nanny , cos nanny will never do anything like mother.. and bajaj brought mother for kuki ...

Prerna is a woman with issues first & then a mother to Kuki. If Bajaj thinks that motherhood for Sneha would magically make Prerna a woman without issues & that too in Basu Badi with constant presence of Anurag, then he is wrong.

Bajaj literally keeps on ranting that you are here for Kuki. He keeps on equating her to being a nanny by his own words & how her only job is to take care of his daughter. Yes, he makes it look like a job the way he mentions it all the time as if reminding her that your life from now on should be all about this & nothing else.

Bajaj brought a woman who he expected to mother his child by revealing it on the right time. Even nannies are given a choice before they are given the responsibility, which he did but after marriage. Prerna took the responsibility gladly but that doesn't give Bajaj the license to berate her whenever something goes wrong with his daughter. Only nannies are berated like this when child they take care of gets into trouble because their only job is to do that. Bajaj is acting like husband cum employer here.

Originally posted by: hasini009

kitchen politics, bedroom politics, living room politics and study room's........ kuch bhi achha nahi lag raha hai mujhe. ye maasi ko kya ho gaya achanak. she's behaving like mohini. kya machhi mandi mein aate hi inka bhi rang badal gayi. and Bajju ka toh main, what's this 'main tujhe kuki ke liye laya hoon?'😡

Sabko viral infection ho gya hai. Isko dekhne se better hai, banda kzk1 hi dekh le. 😡

Bajaj wese apni Kuki se itna pyaar krta hai, wese usko macchi mandi me shift kr diya taki wo din-raat kich kich sune. Koi bi sensible banda apne bacche ko toxic environment se dur rakhta hai aur yahan ulti ganga beh rhi hai.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Prerna is a woman with issues first & then a mother to Kuki. If Bajaj thinks that motherhood for Sneha would magically make Prerna a woman without issues & that too in Basu Badi with constant presence of Anurag, then he is wrong.

Bajaj literally keeps on ranting that you are here for Kuki. He keeps on equating her to being a nanny by his own words & how her only job is to take care of his daughter. Yes, he makes it look like a job the way he mentions it all the time as if reminding her that your life from now on should be all about this & nothing else.

Bajaj brought a woman who he expected to mother his child by revealing it on the right time. Even nannies are given a choice before they are given the responsibility, which he did but after marriage. Prerna took the responsibility gladly but that doesn't give Bajaj the license to berate her whenever something goes wrong with his daughter. Only nannies are berated like this when child they take care of gets into trouble because their only job is to do that. Bajaj is acting like husband cum employer here.

Think on rishab's side... he never behaves as his husband. he dint expect anything from her as wife. he only considers prerna as her daughter's mother .. even today he concerned about prerna's health due to his daughter's sake.. yah Rishab is behaving here as selfish whom world only revolves around his daughter , so on his position he was right as a special child father .. Still now that feels does not grow up in his mind where prerna is a woman , she has her own world on beside to be a mother.. where she has her own choices .. but it is high time RB should consider prerna as his wife also .. cos prerna also has expectation from his husband... and right now this is one of the biggest flaws of RB's character...

but Prerna also is a irresponsible lady as well as.. she stucks herself always on unnecessary tension and problem where she does not need to involve.

Originally posted by: opsora2090

Think on rishab's side... he never behaves as his husband. he dint expect anything from her as wife. he only considers prerna as her daughter's mother .. even today he concerned about prerna's health due to his daughter's sake.. yah Rishab is behaving here as selfish whom world only revolves around his daughter , so on his position he was right as a special child father .. Still now that feels does not grow up in his mind where prerna is a woman , she has her own world on beside to be a mother.. where she has her own choices .. but it is high time RB should consider prerna as his wife also .. cos prerna also has expectation from his husband... and right now this is one of the biggest flaws of RB's character...

but Prerna also is a irresponsible lady as well as.. she stucks herself always on unnecessary tension and problem where she does not need to involve.

Prerna has a past she hasn't dealt with & now she is in Basu Badi. The entire mess is because of her & she knows that she can't escape the reprucussions of it.

She will not be free from it unless she makes a peace with it. It has nothing to do with being irresponsible but about how she feels the urge to protect everyone she cares about even if she has to resort to do stupid things for that.

Bajaj is a 44 year old man who was supposed to be sensible & understand people's minds & emotions after he takes certain decisions. He made his entry where he asked his assistant to immediately give advanced salary to the workers of vompany he was taking over, so that they don't suffer. Last thing I expect from him is to be a typical narcissistic man when it comes to woman in his life.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Prerna has a past she hasn't dealt with & now she is in Basu Badi. The entire mess is because of her & she knows that she can't escape the reprucussions of it.

She will not be free from it unless she makes a peace with it. It has nothing to do with being irresponsible but about how she feels the urge to protect everyone she cares about even if she has to resort to do stupid things for that.

Bajaj is a 44 year old man who was supposed to be sensible & understand people's minds & emotions after he takes certain decisions. He made his entry where he asked his assistant to immediately give advanced salary to the workers of vompany he was taking over, so that they don't suffer. Last thing I expect from him is to be a typical narcissistic man when it comes to woman in his life.

anyway let the episode air at first .. and bajaj's character will have to open up more.. he does not trust anyone, may be he lived in that situation ..he does not trust on woman , ofcourse he has brutal experience.. he is here for kuki , otherwise in 44 years old he could get a lot of woman in his life .. but he never accepts any offer... that means he has bitter turn for woman from his past experience. so in this situation we could not expect anything extra ordinary behave for prerna from bajaj .. whatever prerna is getting everything for kuki only ..

Hmm

Jo bolna hain hum bole and react before actual episodes and the real reasons behind it. No offence. One thing for sure is -

This track is also meant for

1. Prerna and the audience to see the difference between Bajaj, the man and Anurag, the boy. How the man handles a situation vs the boy who has failed in past (even now).

2. This track was indeed needed as audience to see the difference between Anurag-Komo-Prerna under ekchath vs Bajaj-Prerna / Anurag.

Both are so different from each other and a conclusion was needed to be given to Anurag and his dialogue of saying tu mere ghar ayi thi

3. Mohini to realize what Prerna has got in the form of marriage with Bajaj. All her shraap to vanish and to acknowledge she is no more Prerna Sharma. She is now Prerna Sharma Bajaj. Even if she denies to acknowledge it, she will be shown regretting.

RB will make this happen.

Daily soap hain, drama toh rahega na. Its not something we never saw in serials.

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Finally someone (RB) will correct the mistakes of the immature/childish girl Prerna and make her more being responsible, realise her self worth,etc which no one has done so far.

I agree, we should wait for the actual episode to air, rather than depend on the precap which can be misleading. But as of now, Prerna and Rishabh both are being shown to be extremely irresponsible.

Bajaj- How can he get his daughter into such a toxic environment? He is cognizant of the fact that it will be difficult for Prerna to be caught between him and Basus, but doesn't think how is will affect Kuki? Or Maasi for that matter? And shouting at Prerna was an absolute no-no. If within a month of whisking her away almost from her mandap, you bring her right back to her lover's home, she is bound to be troubled and distracted. Kuki cannot be the sole responsibility of Prerna - Maasi, Tanvi and more importantly RB himself have to step up.

Prerna- Darling, you do remember that your daughter cannot speak, don't you? Then how can you play hide-n-seek with her in an unknown place, in presence of people who hate her bcoz of her father? Please do keep in mind that she likes carrom also...next time please chose an activity which does not involve her roaming the house alone.

I'm loving the way how everyone is trying to justify their favourite. One day prior it was all about respect for Prerna by her husband and tday suddenly its about Prerna being irresponsible Nanny for Sneha. While her besr father got the best Nanny for his special child by whatever way ... no point arguing on that it's been done repeatedly. So that means now Prernas only identity is that of a Nanny and she is labelled as irresponsible for everything that goes wrong with the child.

Prerna you have no chance dear just leave both of them. 🤣