~*~ EJF/Prerna AT #3 - Girengi Nahin, To Sikhengi Kaise [Note 117] - Page 34

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A person's rightful due is to be treated as an object of love, not as an object for use.

Pope John Paul II, Love and Responsibility

I venture out and see so many justifications given for Anurag’s behavior. Though I sympathize with his plight I for one cannot agree with it.

Anurag and Prerna were in Love and with love comes great responsibility.

A responsibility to understand the true essence of your partner. If their mere actions are used to judge them then where is the Love?. Non actions speak as loud as words especially when you are in tune with your partner. Here Prerna says she married for money and he believes it ? Then why did he not believe her during Naveens phase that time they were not even in Love! So I don’t believe this is true. And why is it the responsibility of only Prerna to be understanding all the time ? Isn’t Love a joint decision to stay together for better or worse? So when the worse comes you lash out? .

I see so many posts stating Prerna has to give closure and to some extent they are right she did try to give closure by saying she married for money because if she had said I married to save your life what will be the impact in Anurags life Guilt that is all. Guilt can kill!.

Here I don’t have problems with Anurag going after Bajaj business , but I do have a problem as to the Why. Is he going after his business to destroy Bajaj or acquire Prerna? If it is the latter then how can he be excused ? Then why was he not questioned as a gold digger when he married Komo? Does Gold digger only apply to Women?. People asking for closure from Prerna now did Anurag give her closure or did Prerna seek closure or rather answers.

So instead of glorifying this behavior of the Male lead and holding the female responsible for all actions they should strive to Make Anurag get answers after all she is the Love of his life!

With Love does come great responsibility!

Originally posted by: Truereview01

Dont know what's wrong with people saying prerna that how can she laugh 😏 she just smile after long time that also because of that little girl she didn't enjoy her married life with bajaj now questioning her about her dressing Clothes never describe your character for me prerna is clear in her thoughts she knows what she did what she choose regarding anu I have nothing to say about it how can he say this if he will earn money prerna will be his in this matter Bajaj understand prerna more infact bajaj know her worth that's why he choose her for his daughter but anu failed in this 😢 in all this no one is trying to understand what prerna want she has also life she is not a toy here for Anu there is no value of prerna he just want her by any hook and crook

Haayeee🤗 I can understand how you feel about all this blame game on Prerna.. The very same reason when applied for others it gets a justification but on Prerna it gets a accusation. And with the hatred built for her everything she does and anything she says gets criticized and yeah her dress including😉 What to do when nothing else is discussion worthy all these things get the attention😆.. So let's not waste our energy and sacrifice our peace trying to point out someone's true colors. 😊

Originally posted by: Truereview01

Dont know what's wrong with people saying prerna that how can she laugh 😏 she just smile after long time that also because of that little girl she didn't enjoy her married life with bajaj now questioning her about her dressing Clothes never describe your character for me prerna is clear in her thoughts she knows what she did what she choose regarding anu I have nothing to say about it how can he say this if he will earn money prerna will be his in this matter Bajaj understand prerna more infact bajaj know her worth that's why he choose her for his daughter but anu failed in this 😢 in all this no one is trying to understand what prerna want she has also life she is not a toy here for Anu there is no value of prerna he just want her by any hook and crook

Hey..

Poo is absolutely right.. Our ladki has always been the centre of attention.. she cant be ignored..

The day Mr Basu understand Miss Sharma’s true worth, it will be too late..

Prerna once said something to nivi..

“I dont need what I desire”

Always remember this... Love alone isnt enough for any relationship to sustain in the long run..

Either they will learn to value, respect and trust each other or they will grow apart..

Originally posted by: gemini54

A person's rightful due is to be treated as an object of love, not as an object for use.

Pope John Paul II, Love and Responsibility

I venture out and see so many justifications given for Anurag’s behavior. Though I sympathize with his plight I for one cannot agree with it.

Anurag and Prerna were in Love and with love comes great responsibility.

A responsibility to understand the true essence of your partner. If their mere actions are used to judge them then where is the Love?. Non actions speak as loud as words especially when you are in tune with your partner. Here Prerna says she married for money and he believes it ? Then why did he not believe her during Naveens phase that time they were not even in Love! So I don’t believe this is true. And why is it the responsibility of only Prerna to be understanding all the time ? Isn’t Love a joint decision to stay together for better or worse? So when the worse comes you lash out? .

I see so many posts stating Prerna has to give closure and to some extent they are right she did try to give closure by saying she married for money because if she had said I married to save your life what will be the impact in Anurags life Guilt that is all. Guilt can kill!.

Here I don’t have problems with Anurag going after Bajaj business , but I do have a problem as to the Why. Is he going after his business to destroy Bajaj or acquire Prerna? If it is the latter then how can he be excused ? Then why was he not questioned as a gold digger when he married Komo? Does Gold digger only apply to Women?. People asking for closure from Prerna now did Anurag give her closure or did Prerna seek closure or rather answers.

So instead of glorifying this behavior of the Male lead and holding the female responsible for all actions they should strive to Make Anurag get answers after all she is the Love of his life!

With Love does come great responsibility!

Give a closure to her or him in either of the track then end of story.. 😆 The CVs can't afford to lose Anu-Pre madness and the craziness they bring to each other😉

Missed to add.. well written..👏

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Give a closure to her or him in either of the track then end of story.. 😆 The CVs can't afford to lose Anu-Pre madness and the craziness they bring to each other😉

Missed to add.. well written..👏

Thats why they will always be class as immature, toxic and teenage love type compare to the previous AnuPre where they both got their closure they deserved.. Both break ups were done decently and respectfully..

Grace I have several problems from this serial and lack of communication is up there. The writing for Prerna has been dismal and that is my worst gripe.

Now she is supposedly torn between loyalty and love. What Loyalty and what Love? The loyalty was bought in an underhanded manner and the Love is trying to buy hers in a spiteful manner.

In my opinion the best option for Prerna is to leave both Toxic environments and mindsets.

Love without respect is no love and loyalty without respect is no loyalty.

If the CV have guts they will show her walk away because her self respect is much more important than all of this but this is when they try to be so called sanskari and show her swing like a pendulum between two men who really don’t deserve her!

Originally posted by: grace4317

Sabi....i have no problem with selfless Prerna. Infact, i am of the opinion that if we have to maintain a good relationship with our dear ones, at one time or the other, either one of the party or both will have to be selfless. Then only a relationship can work. So, i am ok with her selflessness. My problem is with her lack of communication which was there from the beginning itself about which she has not improved a bit. That is where the CVs are getting to my nerves of not giving her a character growth, especially in this area. 😔

Wow thanks for these beautiful pictures it is so soothing to the soul especially today for me when I am so riled up.

Thanks and hugs 🤗

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Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

Prerna-Sneha ❤️ I want to hate the CVs for making me love this duo 😆

Originally posted by: gemini54

Now she is supposedly torn between loyalty and love. What Loyalty and what Love? The loyalty was bought in an underhanded manner and the Love is trying to buy hers in a spiteful manner.

In my opinion the best option for Prerna is to leave both Toxic environments and mindsets.

If the CV have guts they will show her walk away because her self respect is much more important than all of this but this is when they try to be so called sanskari and show her swing like a pendulum between two men who really don’t deserve her!

If only the CVs can get some special writer for Prerna.. Maybe Erica should pay from her pocket to get some proper writing done for herself😆 Looks like nobody from the uncreative team is bothered to even try and see what they're making this character look like..

Now that ladka has got his golden brain put to use for doing business, Pre should use her golden heart to make an emotional deal with Mr. B .. I will take care of Sneha and you take care of my Anu. And Pre take Sneha to a far away land leaving the lions to enjoy their jungle book story time.. 😆