Pooja/Shrenu Parikh AT#4 Ladaai hona, toh barabari ki honi chahiye - Page 30

Originally posted by: AnnStyles

Hmmm kya meaning.. Elaborate please 😆😆

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The AT is silent today, but our spirits are low 🙁

Originally posted by: AnnStyles

Hmmm kya meaning.. Elaborate please 

Kabir showed mirror to Rani , she cannot be trustworthy , he was right about rani

Kabir is mocking pooja about her childhood bcs pooja provoked him by ruining his food

What’s the point explaining to him about her horrible childhood , kabir is protecting Sr mittals , what can we expect from him but at least he appreciates pooja motive for revenge n how dedicated she is

I liked today’s episode

Originally posted by: Sumita18

Kabir showed mirror to Rani , she cannot be trustworthy , he was right about rani

Kabir is mocking pooja about her childhood bcs pooja provoked him by ruining his food

What’s the point explaining to him about her horrible childhood , kabir is protecting Sr mittals , what can we expect from him but at least he appreciates pooja motive for revenge n how dedicated she is

I liked today’s episode

I liked how Pooja handled the workers, smart way to do it

https://twitter.com/jaanebhidoyaron/status/1149153221312536576

Originally posted by: SRKisLove

Yes her loss is the biggest loss, but what the majority fail to understand is that others too have feelings, they also found themselves in a situation they were not responsible for, betrayed by a person they loved and genuinely considered as their own, Pooja is not even making it easier for the junior Mittals to be empathetic to her, I mean everyone expect them to show empathy when she didn't show it either, in life everyone focuses on their pain first, and though they might try to understand the reason behind what others did (Pooja here), it can't change the way they feel (Jay, Sonali, Dhruv, kabir), feelings are stronger that logical reasoning at times, just the way we can not expect Pooja to feel for any Mittal. Yes Dhruv was supposedly her husband who loved her, but others also loved her albeit in a different way (brotherly, sisterly love), does that make the feeling of betrayal any less, she was their best friend someone they trusted, their confidante, only a betrayal in love is called betrayal, what about friendship and other relationships!!!

If someone is constatly mean to u even if they had a reason and were wronged by someone close to u, do u think u would be able to show sympathy even if u really wanted to when u are constantly humiliated

And if we will always see things from Pooja's point of view and her loss then we will never be able to understand others' feelings as of course someone who lost their father and had a painful childhood would always have the sympathy but does that mean that others should stop expressing their feelings, keep quiet if humiliated, should they spend the entire life paying for something PK Mittal did!

Copy pasting from my reply in another thread:

As regards the Kabir v/s Pooja debate:

Till yesterday l was annoyed by both, but now the writers are reminding audience why Pooja is doing what she is doing.

Surprisingly I really liked today's episode.

I don't think Pooja was mean to the workers. They riled her by siding with Kabir. Even though, she fought back smartly. And Pooja has always been like this, l mean she was fooling the Mittals by her sarvgun smpanna act, and now she is doing the same with workers. She always a shady gal.

Like someone pointed out in another thread that Pooja is neither a good person nor a bad person. She does what needs to be done. She is not the hero of the masses, to genuinely care for workers. As long as she's following union laws and not downright torturing them, l am fine with her.

As regards her pettiness, she has twenty years of trauma as a child.

20 years of trauma versus one week of poverty, which is worse?

I don't support her actions, but l see where she is coming from, after today's episode.

I see really less justification for Kabir and even lesser for Jai.

What Pooja needs is therapy. What Kabir needs is to examine his conscience and see what, not just his father, but his grandpa mother and aunt did to her. At least Pooja didn't sent them to jail like she should have for keeping quiet about murder. 😠

Again, I am saying all this on the basis of today's episode. It might change tomorrow when writers forget the plot 😂

The only one who has just cause to be angry with Pooja, is Dhruv. I don't like him and he has as much personality as my fingernail, but he didn't deserve to be made fool of.

The only thing about Pooja that annoys me now, is that why take over the business at all? She should have sold it off to build a hospital with that money. That's what Jahnvi said she'll do, in the initial episodes. That would have made her father happy.

But writers have forgotten this because they want to show petty tussle for which they need to make Pooja as capitalist and Kabir the messaih of the masses 🙄

Originally posted by: Lolita30

Yes her loss is the biggest loss, but what the majority fail to understand is that others too have feelings, they also found themselves in a situation they were not responsible for, betrayed by a person they loved and genuinely considered as their own, Pooja is not even making it easier for the junior Mittals to be empathetic to her, I mean everyone expect them to show empathy when she didn't show it either, in life everyone focuses on their pain first, and though they might try to understand the reason behind what others did (Pooja here), it can't change the way they feel (Jay, Sonali, Dhruv, kabir), feelings are stronger that logical reasoning at times, just the way we can not expect Pooja to feel for any Mittal. Yes Dhruv was supposedly her husband who loved her, but others also loved her albeit in a different way (brotherly, sisterly love), does that make the feeling of betrayal any less, she was their best friend someone they trusted, their confidante, only a betrayal in love is called betrayal, what about friendship and other relationships!!!

If someone is constatly mean to u even if they had a reason and were wronged by someone close to u, do u think u would be able to show sympathy even if u really wanted to when u are constantly humiliated

And if we will always see things from Pooja's point of view and her loss then we will never be able to understand others' feelings as of course someone who lost their father and had a painful childhood would always have the sympathy but does that mean that others should stop expressing their feelings, keep quiet if humiliated, should they spend the entire life paying for something PK Mittal did!

Looking in different way they considered her best friend if they had come to know about tragedy of best friend wont they feel bad and say u right do what u r doing now suddenly when u come to know that the same tragedy was caused by ur family u say that her betrayal was bigger and she shouldnt have done that.

Looking all together on the other side they hate her accepted but dont u all think they should have question to their family for betrayal they had done to other family who has not yet came to seek revenge or seek justice even that families have lost their family member but they didnt lost their reputation, their childhood, their shelter, thier only source of living hood

I know that betrayal is not good but till the time sr mittals dont suffer badly and dont feel pachtava i wont feel bad for Juniors because the least thing is they are matured to know between right and wrong

Shru, leave it.

I remember in the DBO forum, when Shrenu was playing a positive character, I'm fans used to bash her for crying all the time. When she lied and faked her pregnancy to save his life, they bashed her for being dark or something like that.

The point is they would always bash her. In the end, Gauri fans gave up, and started chanting 'Sab Gauri ki Galti' 😂

Here also people are not satisfied. If Jahnvi tries to kill PK and make his family homeless, then she is too dark and does not deserve happiness. If she doesn't do these things, then she is weak and childish. People forget that she ruined PKs political campaign and then resurrected it to make PK grant land for poor people's hospital. She has been manipulating him for a year or more, which is in itself big thing. But she is not evil enough, she is not good enough, she is not grey enough 😂

Maybe we should start chanting here also, 'Sab Pooja/Jahnvi ki Galti 😂

This is what I was saying in the internalized misogyny post, that whatever a female does she will be criticized. Because we internally hate female characters. 😂

I think l will stick to this AT or make my own posts. There is too much of Jahnvi hatred in the forum