Love's a B... - Page 101

Originally posted by: ishruhi

YAHAPAR?” neeru asked accusingly

😇😇

WHY NOT!!!

Exactly. Celebrations should be done where the event is celebrated not at an unwelcome place.

Neeru should know to accept that Avi is moving in with his so called family. She shouldn’t push where his dad and brother are not ready to welcome him or his baby. Either she tries to convince her husband or go with Avis flow.

I think Agent was the title couple of updates bk. Not sure if Neeru is her husband’s agent but definitely Avi is asserting his agency and communicating that it’s his freedom of choices in life and his accountability for his actions, he’s up for it whether anyone thinks it’s in his capacity or not.

While that’s the way it should be he should be mindful of another person’s choice and wish in this equation so as not to feel fugitive about the whole situation.

The last time he checked she was on the same page with him about love and relationship. Mind you ! that was last time. Perhaps there is no harm in just checking the balance sheet again with her given that there is so much noise about unmentionables like marriage and stuff anyways . Hidden figures in business balance sheet is still okay . But We don’t want to be caught unawares in the balance sheet of relationships . Do we?

Also I’m a 1000 percent believer that only marriage gives you the supreme liberty to take your spouse for granted and not check with your spouse if he or she’s on the same page .😉🤪. Since Avi doesn’t have that special license yet, it’s imperative to compare notes with her on the touchy topic😀😀😀

Overbearing help

ToSamidha Neeru appeared very moody all of next day, but wanted to hold the babyall the time

This wasnot a time to argue she realized she let her

Avi hadto go to work for a few hours starting the 5th day, it was around 10days since the baby was born

She gavehim a list of things she wanted from the stores

“Hameykeh sakti thin aap” Neeru accused

“I amsorry, he knows what I like”

“To hameybatayen hum bhi jaan lenge”

“Ma….”Avi was irritable

Newparents, the lil monster stayed up all night, just STAYED UP, refusing tosleep, and slept all day

He criedtoo at night randomly

“Beta humaap dono ki help ke liye aaye hain”

“We knowthat and thank you”

“But aap dono hamesha apne kamre mein baatein karterehte hain”

“We arenot talking about you, we are trying to figure this thing… its new to us”

“I knowthat, aapki kaam waali achha kaam nahi karti, hum kyon nag har se Raji ko kehdein who apni beti ko bhejegi”

“No, I don’tthink so” Samidha panicked

“Ma Samidha akele karna chahti hain”

“Kab tak,abhi woh hilne lagega to kaise ho paayega”

“Ma usme6 mahine hain”

“Plan karlo aap”

“Maplease hafta yoon hi relax kar lein?” he begged

“Hum rukjaayen 6 mahiney?”

“Umm” Aviwas stunned

“Wahan Dad naraaz hain hum yahin reh lein”

“Ma thatsnot a great idea”

“Kyon?”she looked at Samidha

“I thinkwe will be OK”

“To Dadsahi keh rahey they, YEH nahi chahti”

“Ma…pleaseee I am begging you” he folded hands

“Namkaranwahan nahi karenge, kaamwali nahi lane denge, hamey rukne nahi denge”

“Its notpersonal Ma… he doesn’t sleep all nite”

“TO? Kaamwaali rahegi dono so paayenge”

“No.. no…I cant allow that, what if she hits him?” Samidha was teary at the mere thoughtof it

“AISEkaise hit karenge beta, they are good people”

“That’s notthe point ma”

“She isso fussy”

THERE!!

FinallyNeeru came out with it

“What dou mean”

“Inko sabwaisa chahiye jaise inhoney plan kiya hai”

“I amsorry… the house is small how can we have someone live here?” Samidha cudntunderstand what was being said

She wasdisoriented after her nap

“U shudnot be so rigid beta” Neeru ended up translating for her

“Ma… thisis totally not right” Avi hissed

“I amtelling for her good only”

“I am notrigid, I just want some things from that store in Khan Market” Samidha was halfangry half confused

“Its notabout khana beta, but about the kind of clothes he will wear which blanket toput him on, how to swaddle him”

“I havetaken classes”

“Ghar parbade kis liye hain beta”

“Ma… letsgo for a drive” Avi almost shoved his mother out the door

“Toast,keep an eye on them bud”

“Sure… Ibet we both will be tasty” she chuckled

Toastwent back and sat by her feet as she rocked the lil guy to sleep

This is exactly how it happens in real. Wow! I remember my Maasi wanting to go about handling the baby a certain way and my Nani complaining about it to my mom “Hum ne kitne bache paal ke bada kiya hai hume Pata hai bache kaise paalte Hai but she acts as if we don’t know how to big up a baby”. I used to be so confused on whom to support.

Lol

Hah! Try stopping the new gran Neeru from putting her two cents in now ! This compelling need to nurture and care whether it’s welcome or not is a situation all by itself! They mean well but sometimes one has to put one’s foot down to say ki times have changed in the way newborns were raised in their time and now.

Like how we all like unlimited data for better connection new grans are insatiable wanting unlimited time with newborns trying to edge even the new moms out giving the baby to bond with their moms only while feeding!

It happened with me too...i used to get really mad sometimes. I was really moody for first 5 months. My gal always was fussy and wanted feed. Lack of sleep drove me crazy and everyone was saying only breast feed. Finally my aunt intervened one day and said one feed if u feed expressed nothing gonna happen she needs atleast 3-4 hours. After 6 months i was able to cope

Can Neeru just get out. I have faced this too....

Me. Singh aap apni patni ko leke jayein

Claims

“For no tan actual mother in law, you are being too demanding” he barked pressing on gas

“For not being a husband you are too over protective” Neeru lashed out at him

“Ma, you promised you will not turn over bearing”

“I AM NOT, I am helping her, she seems so rigid”

“She is NOT. Totally not, she will eat French fries as potato curry with her dal chawal, do u know that?”

“Umm”

“Ma, she is simple and funny, and kind”

“She is not an expert at child rearing”

“Its her FIRST, please let her try”

“Try karne ke liye koi toy to nahi na, BACHA hai”

“We know that Ma:

“Her parents don’t seem to care, you don’t know anything, none of your friends have kids”

“So you just appointed yourself?”

“I am here to help you two”

He parked in front of Samidha’s favorite snack shop and slammed the door

She satin the car

“Utriye”

“Nahi chillaane laaye aap shaayad”

“I am not yelling, I am just telling you you are being unreasonable”

“I just told her not to hold him vertically” she sulked

“And then how to give him a bath, and how not to put a diaper, how to hold him after a feed”

“You tube generation hai aap logon ka”

“Ma she cares for him too”

“Hes my grandson too”

“Thank u for claiming him” he was getting impatient as she wouldn’t budge from her seat

“She isangry Dad accused her”

“NO SHE IS NOT, she doesn’t have a clue why you are mad at her”

“I heard heard Kannada people are a little slow and not quick on their feet”

“Oh great! You went ahead and blamed an entire state”:

He started walking towards the store

He picked out a bunch of things

She proceeded to pay much to his chagrin

“I am not broke Ma” he hissed

“U need to save your money”

“When did u become mean and annoying?” he stared at his mother dumbfounded

“I am NOT…”she said sincerely

“Aap ko maloom bhi nahi chal raha aap kitni hurtful ho rahi hain”

“she doesn’t work, your business is still recovering or still struggling, Dad never checks my spending”

“Are u angry Sarvansh hasn’t had a baby?” he looked at her deeply

She lowered her gaze evasively

“You are frightfully hurtful Ma”

“I love you betaaa”

“Its like urging me to forget Charu and move on with life the day she broke up and announced her marriage”

“Dekho aapne kya kiya phir” she was upset

“U came here to remind me of everything I did wrong?”

“No”

“I love my baby… I love my life with Samidha… too bad it’s a financially unstable,driven by Samidha’s finnicky rules and impulsiveness acc to you”

“You don’t even know what you are saying”

“Ma mysideburns are grey I am 30, I KNOW”

“Can we atleast have a ceremony in GK?”

“No Ma…he just accused Samidha of plotting to destroy his family I refuse to bring her there”

“To aap aa jao do ghanta ke liye baby ko lekar?” Neeru urged

“Umm” he felt like he was ready to explode

“Umm… Uh…umm” he sighed trying not to incinerate

She touched his arm

“U just asked me to leave the mother of my child and take the first step to abandoning her… umm.. NOPE”

To aap aa jao do ghanta ke liye baby ko lekar?” Neeru urged

Mean lady! 😠😠😠😠😠

“U just asked me to leave the mother of my child and take the first step to abandoning her… umm.. NOPE”

This man is a gem...... He really knows how to deal with his mom..... Its not about hurting ur mom by supporting ur partner as his mom interprets. Sometimes we need to tell our loved ones that they r hurting someone in the holy namesake of caring....

So sorry for u sam.... U hav to b stronger to deal with those caring people around u..... After delivery, every women will get sooo many 'helping hands'.... upar se ur hormones.....This rollercoaster rides will b there till u get on ur feet all by urself... They will give u advices about anything and everything about ur baby,. And according to them, ur very way of even holding ur baby is wrong..... Diet advices are another saga... My grand mom was really nice to me during my days that she kept all those helping hands away from me☺️☺️