Suno Chanda 2 (Hum) Farhan Saeed, Iqra Aziz - Page 38

Originally posted by: maha786

Hey welcome to this thread, keep sharing your opinion and you wrote really well, I do agree with you that, Arsal is an emotional person and how he thinks from an emotional perspective, but I feel he needs to understand Jia's emotions also, for Jia, this opportunity is really important

I agree he is scared to loose Jia, I can understand that part really well ad sometimes when he sees her and then feels bad about not getting to spend more time with her makes me think that, he is genuinely in love with her, but then will Jia be happy to sacrifice her dreams, will she be happy with him while staying here, it is better for her to go and fulfill her dreams, in the meantime, he can try for visa again, why is he giving up so easily, he can still appeal again, but then his ego does nto let him do that

Ab bachha na sirf Bhook se kulbula raha hai balki ye soch raha hai ki iss mor ki khubsurati ki wajah se koi meri bhook par dhyan hi nahi de raha... Wo mor ke pankhon se Phir bhi nahi jal raha kyuki uski hasrat khoobsurat pankhon ki hai hi nahi...

Originally posted by: Aazeen02

Maha, that's exactly what I am explaining, I am betting this, if all he is made felt secured and wanted, he won't let her sacrifice her dreams at all. What is put before him is that his existence is collateral to her dreams. He is made to think that he should feel happy and thankful that he has Jiya who is more aspiring than him and his thinking is not to her level. Balki uske dimaag mein competition hai hi nahi... Usko Sirf itna chahiye ki jiya usse sabse zyada pyar kare, uska intention Jiya ke pankh kaatna hai hi nahi. Ye toh wohi baat ho gayi ke bachha ro raha hai ki mujhe Bhook lagi hai, aur sab usko keh rahe hain ki peacock ke pankh dekho, kitne khoobsurat hain, sharm karo tumhare paas toh pankh hi nahi hain.. tumhari khushnaseebi hai ki tumhein mor ke pankh dekhne ko mile...

Ab bachha na sirf Bhook se kulbula raha hai balki ye soch raha hai ki iss mor ki khubsurati ki wajah se koi meri bhook par dhyan hi nahi de raha... Wo mor ke pankhon se Phir bhi nahi jal raha kyuki uski hasrat khoobsurat pankhon ki hai hi nahi...

I feel Jia is trying hardtop do whatever he says like it was difficult for her to call him aap yet she does it for his sake, she even goes tot he kitchen to make tea for him, make nuggets, iron his clothes

All this , she never did for anyone yet she changed her behavior and action for Arsal, butAral should also respect her choice and Jia got angry yesterday because Arsal as soon as he entered the room started unpacking the clothes without asking Jia if she wants to go or not, he should have been more patient and asked her fi she wants to go because she was already going

Jia was telling him that, they will reappeal, she also wants him to come with her, but Arsal just made the decision for himself and Jia without consulting Jia what she wants, he justwants to do what eh thinks is right, but Jia is also hyper, she equally reacts then aggressively

He thinks Jia is selfish, but Jia still wants to apply for him, she is nto leaving him alone at all, butArsal cannot live withiout her that is why he sis topping her also without thinking about her happiness, he also promised her in season 1 that, he will allow her to go to London

Nonetheless, I do understand your opinion and I agree with it , Jia just needs to be more polite and talk softly rather than getting loud always , Jia just ahs to control on the way she talks as she talks in direct tone which can sound offensive I agree , she says the right thing, but it gets conveyed in an aggressive tone

The example you gave is really nice, please keep writing such posts in other episodes as well and what you feel about the other characters, you say it in a poetic way which is creative!!

Originally posted by: Aazeen02

Maha, I totally understand your point and somewhere you not wrong also. Even Jiya went to Arsal's parents to howl and scream into crying, even faked crying, to make his parents on her side, even Arsal did it in return when Jiya did that, so it's not a big deal when even Deejay did that and that too without any malignant intention.

But into the practical day life, there are further more criterion to see that despite our good intentions, the repercussions are way too severe than even thought. In the first season ArJiya did that to make the families divide, which led to severe Situations of the house on the threshold of being broken and sold, had it not been for Beejaan's astute behaviour; let alone ArJiya marriage, both the brothers would have refused to see each other's face.

In the second season though, Arsal and Ajiya complaining to each other's parents was only to a limit of getting their sides stronger and didn't intend to ensue a fight, while Deejay's complaining at the middle of the night in full anger led to the situation being way worse than it ever was. Brothers and sisters are very protective of one another, I totally understand how it feels when someone continually keeps hurting your sibling. But going and creating a ruckus at the middle of the night and taking the new marriage of your elder sibling in one's own hand is never a very good option. Everyone is dealing their own battles, and they should let them fight the battle on their own and should intervene only when asked for help.

And if Deejay is always snubbed in the house is because he acts the way, that is not a very good behaviour. Children being so nosy and cheeky at this age is very detrimental for their own self. Bachhe jab bachho jaisa behave karein, tabhi achhe lagte hain...

And I feel it is very wrong to consider Arsal totally wrong taking Deejay lightly, last night. If Jiya can snub Deejay being his elder sister, so can Arsal snub him being the eldest of all the three cousins. Just because ArJiya got married, that doesn't eliminate the relationship of two brothers, but add another relationship of brothers in law. And never to forget that whenever Deejay is in need of anything, he has always approached Arsal and not Jiya. All the Easy Loads have been done out of Arsal's money, not Jiya's. And that's exactly what Jiya also scolded him, "ghussa aa gaya? Paise maangte waqt ghussa nahi aaya tumhein?"

Arsal's way of showing his love to Deejay might not be the most desirable but he has loved Deejay like his baby. Remember when Deejay was getting emotional about how is he going to live without them, he hugged him and said that they are just videos away and he'd be waiting for his videos whenever he misses them. If he ever scolded him it was for Deejay's benefits only. If yesterday Arsal was angry and he snubbed his baby, so does Jamshed also gets angry on Arsal and snubs him many a times... Does that make Jamshed a less loving father? If that doesn't, so doesn't Arsal's love for his baby brother cum son cum brother in law... Let's not be so judgemental...

Yes Deejay is otherwise more comfortable in approaching Arsal as he gets convinced by him easily than Jia, but I feel Jia was constantly getting ignore dbyArsal, he tried hard to tease her by not asking her to sit in the rato go to valima,. he was purposely spending time with Maina to make Jia jealous, Maina is nto at fault here as for her ,Arsal is like her brother and I enjoy the bonding of Main and Arsal, butArsal is creating unnecessary doubts in Jia's mind about her position in his life he loves her a lot, but why create unnecessary misunderstandings id what I don't understand about him

Arsal does love Deejay a lot I agree, but sometimes he needs to be more polite and listen to what is Deehay saying like yesterday he wa sgenuinely upset and broken, Arsal should nto be so harsh when Deehay is feeling low and nto being himself , if eh is misbehaving punish him like Naeema did right by hitting him, but also be soft if Deejay is just venting out his emotions

I really like Maina's character a lot, I wait for her scenes, her sens eof humour is a class apart, she ahs adapted into the show really well despite being the newest entrant in the family

Her scene with Mitthu and calling him mental pieca and how he should stop asking his bebe for everything and use his won mind

Deewae tum nahin hum hein tumhe yahaan bulake

The ya she asked Mitthu why is he getting so shy, she did nto call him for dastan e mohabbt , Maina talks directly , she does not twist words,she says what she feels , a true sassy girl she is, she is so honest about everything LOOL

The way she was supporting Jalal over JoJo and threatening him that, she will bring her 6 brothers form Pekahwar, thatwa sso hilarious, JoJo was also scared for a while ahahhahaa

Mitthu is the shy one and she is the sassy one who is more rebellious

The actress show plays the role of Maina does deserve appreciation, she is doing a flawless job , her expressions and sassy way of talking is very entertaining , the way she talks in patani and then combines it with Urdu

Maina considers mItthu as her friend, she does have feelings for him, but she needs to realize it yet, she still does not take him that seriously 😆

Tumko Allah ne dimaagdiya hai suka istamaal karo ahhahaha, thatw as so funny and the way Miana said it ina very serious tone, she was erious yet she was hilarious ahhahaaa, she si fe dup of Mitthu asking Pari for everything, she wants him to make his wondecisons and learn the differenc ebetween right and wrong

Mitthu is so innocent though, he asks Pari for everything and then tells Maina that, he asks Pari for permission 😆

Jia's character reminds me of Maanvi's character from Ek Hazaaron Mein Meri Behna Hai ,both are loud, strong , independent , real, and sassy

Nia Sharma is also a great actress like Iqra!!

They were forcefully taking pictures, all Jia wa sworried about is Arsal is taking selfies with Maina , here she is still worried about Maina , poor Mian does nto even think of ARsla in thatway hahah, Arsal is just doing it to make Jia jealous and paymore attention to him. Huma was right, she would eventually sort out the differences between them

Miana is only worried about bringing her 6 brothers to break both hands and eyes of JoJo Mama 😆,she won't spare him at all hahahaha

Shahana brought these two together, Shahan is playing cupid for both of them and trying to bring them close, Arsla should let aside his ego, he constantly ignored Jia t the wedding and also gave her juice to Jalal, that was too much haha

Maina is fed up of Mitthu also, how can he ask Pari to talk to Miana who wa sjustfew steps away from him hahahahaaa

JoJo and Jalal are such kids though, they are fighting like how little kids fight in school, Shahana and Pari were laughing at how both of them beated ecahotehr, thes etwo enjoyed the whole drama, Shahan and Pari are partners in crime in being rebellious and gossiping

Shahana and Pari fight , but then patch up too, Pari and Shahana's sisterhood is really nice to see , they gossip just like sisters hahahaha

Itwa shialrious how Shahan wa stellign Arsal yeh gunkaari mere satah nahin chale gi, she knows his ways and how he does things to tease Jia, he purposely put the caron brake so that, it does not move, Shahan cannot be unaware of anything, she is aware of every action of her Sallu Puttar😆

How she told Miana to sit at the back, poor Maina did not even know what happened between these two, she did get some indication as she ahs bene observing everything especially after what happened in the car and the way Arsal was behaving with Jia throughout the valima

Can I saw Shahana is Mother-in-law goals❤️ How she shut everyone out and supported Jiya. She has my heart ❤️ Hands down, Shahana is the kind of MIL every girl would desire for.

Originally posted by: Octothorpe

Can I saw Shahana is Mother-in-law goals❤️ How she shut everyone out and supported Jiya. She has my heart ❤️ Hands down, Shahana is the kind of MIL every girl would desire for.

True True, she is mother in law goals for sure, you said it correct , how she told ARsla that, I am nto the kind of mother in law who would saveher son to put her daughter in lawin trouble, she will support who si right even if its her daughter in alw, she is nto the one to spoilher son and tolerate hi tantrums

Shahan stood for what she felt was right , Shahan si such an understanding mother in law and she cannot Jia crying and she cares about he rjust like a mother as she said kyunki saas bu kabhi bahu thu hahahaa, she cannto see Jia in pain and having ARsla tretaher badly, Shahan never supports Arsal blindly and she enver expects anything from Jia like other mother in laws do ahhaa which is good to see

What's with the shameless brand promotion??