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Posted: 6 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: shiny9911

Mishti's each & every action has beec scrutinized. Why not Veer's?
Veer was the one who told Mishti that he will apply color first & Mishti waited for him ignoring everyone.
But what happened when Veer arrived?
Mishti's family applied him colors. Wahh!! Why dint he stopped them? Kya mishti ki family samjhti nahi?
Chalo, rang lagwa v liya toh what after that? Did he went to Mishti? No, he started playing dhol & enjoying holi forgetting the girl he asked to wait. 😔
So what this incident says about Veer?
He is the one who doesn't values promise. He wants his girl to act according to him.
He can forget Mishti anytime over anyone agar baat enjoy krne ki ho.

During dumb charades, Mishti behaved weirdly but did he asked her the reason? Seeing her sad, he took her for drive. Great! šŸ‘
He told her he cudnt sleep whole night remembering her sad face.
Par sad face k piche ka reason pucha??
Strange isn't it?? šŸ˜•
So what does this incident says?
He tries making Mishti happy with gifts & long drive.
Long drive definitely thore der k liye mood acha kar deta h par problem khatam nahi hoti. Veer never goes to the root of any problem.

The most important one,
When Mishti told Veer what if she kissed someone in her Bachelorette party?
To which Veer replied,
"Not, a big deal.
Cheeks pe hi to kiss kiya hoga. Or avi to hamari shadi v nahi hui h. So relax, shadi k baad you'll be all mine. "😲

Honestly speaking, mujhe ye baat us waqt bahot ajeeb lagi thi but today I understood the reason.
According to Veer, Mishti will become the part of his world only after marriage.
Before marriage wo kisi ko date kare ya kiss he do not have any problem.
Toh fir why audience is bashing Mishti for breaking commitment before marriage jab Veer is ok with it.

Candle light dinner pe Veer dint said anything to Mishaan not cz he is understanding or he trusts her fully but cz shadi k pehle kuch v ho Veer ko farak nahi padta.

Yes, Mishti dint opened up to him, definitely her fault.
Veer is not anyaryami.
But have we ever seen Veer being interested in knowing the reason of Mish's behavior.
No, agar Veer ne kavi interest dikhaya hota toh shayad Mishti usse apni insecurities share karti. 😊

Conclusion-
Both are not in love with each other.
Mishti has mistaken the definition of love as commitment and since Mishti is not a part of Veer's world inspite of this being a love marriage clearly shows that Veer is not in love with Mishti.
Kiss cheek pe ho ya lips pe agar mera partner kisi or ko kare to definitely I will b hurt.
This marriage is just a deal between them. So, it's better to call off this marriage.
I hope they realize it soon. 😊

P. S. -
1) Both Mishti & Veer are good peoples but are just not made for each other.
2) Those who were thinking ki bechare Veer ka dil tut jayega can chill now.
Shadi k pehle kuch v ho usse ghanta farak nahi padta.

Agree šŸ‘ ... But mostly people only blame mishti 😭... I wanna she choose her happiness just like her mother mauli .
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Posted: 6 years ago
#12
Feeling sooo bad for Mishti.
The one for whom she is fighting with her feelings for Ruhaan does not considers her a part of his world. 😲
The one for whom she is changing herself does not considers her a part of his world.
The one for whom she is becoming submissive is yet to consider her as a part of his world.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: Lovelydreamer51

Agree šŸ‘ ... But mostly people only blame mishti 😭... I wanna she choose her happiness just like her mother mauli .


Someone needs to remind her of her worth. She is changing herself for the people who doesn't consider her a part of their world.
She is just worried about dusro ki khusiyAan.
Girl plz think about yourself too.. Don't prioritize others over yourself.
Your mother too suffered for this very same thing. 😭
She is Mauli's chhavi in true sense. ā¤ļø
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Posted: 6 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: shiny9911

I read that the gem-Veer has a life beyond Mishti and it's totally his decision whether he wants to make Mishti a part of his life or not!!
So, why the same benefit of doubt is not given to Mishti too?
She too has a life beyond Veer and it's totally her decision if she wants to break her commitment but then will b blamed for emotional cheating. šŸ˜•

And some are just blaming Mishti for not opening up to Veer but Veer does not seems to be interested too.

Why such partiality yaar?
Just cz Mishti is female lead and ppl want her to be submissive .

Aur bhi reasons hai našŸ˜‰
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Posted: 6 years ago
#15
Very logical post šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ¼
Since day 1 i never found any strong bond between mishveer .

With mishaan or wihtout mishaan , mishveer is going nowhere in their relationship. Definitely neither there is strong connection nor they are as per each other's expectation for life partner.

Relationship mai workout tab kiya jata hai jab strong connection ho. Yaha wohi missing hai.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: shiny9911


@bold šŸ‘ I so very agree with you on this.

Seriously ab ladki kya saardin wait karti.
The problem lies here Veer never makes an attempt or takes an interest to know Mishti and her behavior.
Islye Mishti just can't alone be blamed but sadly that's what happening!! šŸ˜•


I like Veer actually. He is a good friend to have and seemed to be good husband material too. But he didn't behave as expected of a fiance today.
I liked the fact he supported his friend and blasted Mishti. That much was expected.

The moment Mishti came down, he should have melted. By the next day morning, he should definitely have cooled off. Whatever happened the night before was seriously not significant enough to affect his relationship with Mishti , just like Ruhaan pointed out. He made a mountain out of a molehill !

What is really strange is, he felt bad he made Mishti wait. In spite of that, he was defending his actions before Pari and Ruhaan, blaming Mishti for not waiting! He is so sure he was right all along, even when he is aware he overreacted, he would rather still blame Mishti than own up.

What he went on to do- Make decisions about Mishti's business and their wedding should have been done in consultation with Mishti. There are incapable women who need decisions to be taken for them probably, I respect them, Mishti is definitely not a person like that. Doesn't he even know her that much!!!

The incompatibility is way too much, when it is clear Mishti is adjusting way too much in the name of commitment. And now it is clear why she does that. If she doesn't, obviously this is how he will behave! No wonder Pari said Mishti has changed herself so much for Veer. 😲


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Posted: 6 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: chicksoup


I like Veer actually. He is a good friend to have and seemed to be good husband material too. But he didn't behave as expected of a fiance today.
I liked the fact he supported his friend and blasted Mishti. That much was expected.

The moment Mishti came down, he should have melted. By the next day morning, he should definitely have cooled off. Whatever happened the night before was seriously not significant enough to affect his relationship with Mishti , just like Ruhaan pointed out. He made a mountain out of a molehill !

What is really strange is, he felt bad he made Mishti wait. In spite of that, he was defending his actions before Pari and Ruhaan, blaming Mishti for not waiting! He is so sure he was right all along, even when he is aware he overreacted, he would rather still blame Mishti than own up.

What he went on to do- Make decisions about Mishti's business and their wedding should have been done in consultation with Mishti. There are incapable women who need decisions to be taken for them probably, I respect them, Mishti is definitely not a person like that. Doesn't he even know her that much!!!

The incompatibility is way too much, when it is clear Mishti is adjusting way too much in the name of commitment. And now it is clear why she does that. If she doesn't, obviously this is how he will behave! No wonder Pari said Mishti has changed herself so much for Veer. 😲


@Bold - Agree with this..😃
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Posted: 6 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: shiny9911

Mishti's each & every action has beec scrutinized. Why not Veer's?
Veer was the one who told Mishti that he will apply color first & Mishti waited for him ignoring everyone.
But what happened when Veer arrived?
Mishti's family applied him colors. Wahh!! Why dint he stopped them? Kya mishti ki family samjhti nahi?
Chalo, rang lagwa v liya toh what after that? Did he went to Mishti? No, he started playing dhol & enjoying holi forgetting the girl he asked to wait. 😔
So what this incident says about Veer?
He is the one who doesn't values promise. He wants his girl to act according to him.
He can forget Mishti anytime over anyone agar baat enjoy krne ki ho.

During dumb charades, Mishti behaved weirdly but did he asked her the reason? Seeing her sad, he took her for drive. Great! šŸ‘
He told her he cudnt sleep whole night remembering her sad face.
Par sad face k piche ka reason pucha??
Strange isn't it?? šŸ˜•
So what does this incident says?
He tries making Mishti happy with gifts & long drive.
Long drive definitely thore der k liye mood acha kar deta h par problem khatam nahi hoti. Veer never goes to the root of any problem.

The most important one,
When Mishti told Veer what if she kissed someone in her Bachelorette party?
To which Veer replied,
"Not, a big deal.
Cheeks pe hi to kiss kiya hoga. Or avi to hamari shadi v nahi hui h. So relax, shadi k baad you'll be all mine. "😲

Honestly speaking, mujhe ye baat us waqt bahot ajeeb lagi thi but today I understood the reason.
According to Veer, Mishti will become the part of his world only after marriage.
Before marriage wo kisi ko date kare ya kiss he do not have any problem.
Toh fir why audience is bashing Mishti for breaking commitment before marriage jab Veer is ok with it.

Candle light dinner pe Veer dint said anything to Mishaan not cz he is understanding or he trusts her fully but cz shadi k pehle kuch v ho Veer ko farak nahi padta.

Yes, Mishti dint opened up to him, definitely her fault.
Veer is not anyaryami.
But have we ever seen Veer being interested in knowing the reason of Mish's behavior.
No, agar Veer ne kavi interest dikhaya hota toh shayad Mishti usse apni insecurities share karti. 😊

Conclusion-
Both are not in love with each other.
Mishti has mistaken the definition of love as commitment and since Mishti is not a part of Veer's world inspite of this being a love marriage clearly shows that Veer is not in love with Mishti.
Kiss cheek pe ho ya lips pe agar mera partner kisi or ko kare to definitely I will b hurt.
This marriage is just a deal between them. So, it's better to call off this marriage.
I hope they realize it soon. 😊

P. S. -
1) Both Mishti & Veer are good peoples but are just not made for each other.
2) Those who were thinking ki bechare Veer ka dil tut jayega can chill now.
Shadi k pehle kuch v ho usse ghanta farak nahi padta.




@bold


We dont know if mishti had or had not shown her true self before... The start of their relationship has not been shown... We assume she has not shown this side of her before bcoz veer said main iss mishti ko nahi jaanta, if one is to guess only on the basis of what is shown in the episodes then whenever mishti has shown her true self veer has either not understood why she is behaving in such a way or he has gotten angry and given silent treatment, maybe we can assume this has happened before also that's why maybe mishti slowly stopped showing her true self to make veer happy as she has this phobia of breaking a commitment... Veer didn't create her phobia so he is blameless in that and he also didnt do anything to help her get out of the phobia as he never understood that she had a phobia, again not his fault bcoz he is naturally not an observant person and he takes situations and people just at surface level and doesn't care about probing into the depths as long as the atmosphere is pleasant and not bothering him, thats his natural personality so not his fault

Veer is enough with Mishti just being smiley smiley before him and doesn't care for inner thought etc, but mishti seems to care for empathy and sympathy which she wont get from the guy she assumes to be perfect fiancee for herself, so she really needs to do some deep thinking and get out of her phobia, unfortunately she has to do it on her own only because her friends and family too are incapable of understanding her phobia... Not their fault also maybe...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: pranurosid

@Bold - Agree with this.. 😃


That part is also classically where Ruhaan would agree with us. He has been telling Pari over and over to be herself, obviously the rules are the same for Mishti too. šŸ˜† Just that he doesn't have the courage to tell her that . ...
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Posted: 6 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: chicksoup


I like Veer actually. He is a good friend to have and seemed to be good husband material too. But he didn't behave as expected of a fiance today.
I liked the fact he supported his friend and blasted Mishti. That much was expected.

The moment Mishti came down, he should have melted. By the next day morning, he should definitely have cooled off. Whatever happened the night before was seriously not significant enough to affect his relationship with Mishti , just like Ruhaan pointed out. He made a mountain out of a molehill !

What is really strange is, he felt bad he made Mishti wait. In spite of that, he was defending his actions before Pari and Ruhaan, blaming Mishti for not waiting! He is so sure he was right all along, even when he is aware he overreacted, he would rather still blame Mishti than own up.

What he went on to do- Make decisions about Mishti's business and their wedding should have been done in consultation with Mishti. There are incapable women who need decisions to be taken for them probably, I respect them, Mishti is definitely not a person like that. Doesn't he even know her that much!!!

The incompatibility is way too much, when it is clear Mishti is adjusting way too much in the name of commitment. And now it is clear why she does that. If she doesn't, obviously this is how he will behave! No wonder Pari said Mishti has changed herself so much for Veer. 😲



Bold: isn't that unrealistic expectation? Mind you, I'm not talking about today's events. On that day, he was legitimately angry at Mishti. And when you're extremely angry, you take a long time to cool off. You don't calm down the moment someone says sorry, that's not real.

But I agree that he should've talked to Mishti the day after.

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