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Posted: 7 years ago
#71
plz stop discussing shagun plz kindly request you all any idea about upcoming track?
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Posted: 7 years ago
#72
Surrogate Mother have NO right over the child they gave birth to
They just lend their womb to carry the child other wise they cannot claim over the child because the child is not of her neither biologically nor genetically
And as a matter of concern ,she brought up Pihu for 7 years for her own selfish interests ..she wanted to stay in Bhalla house n near Raman n wanted to marry Raman in the pretext of 'Sirf Pihu Keliye ' like how IshRa married 'Sirf Ruhi keliye' where Ishita had genuine reasons to marry Raman but Shagun definitely didn't had any genuine reasons to marry the same man who she cheated on with Ashok 🤢
If Shagun brought up Pihu like a mother then she killed the very same relation by brain washing a child who was brought up in a peaceful environment for her selfish interests 🤢
She literally made Pihu against her own biological parents so that she could 'Win' over IshRa 🥱
Is this how mother's are supposed to behave like just because she gets 'Insecured' ?
This very same woman left her kids to die in fire yet she gets defended ..nothing amazes me any more 🥱👏
Even if she gave birth to them , she have lost her right to be called as their mother 🤢
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Posted: 7 years ago
#73
Even Nannies take care of the child in absence of mother so Shagun was the nanny of Pihu and Raman was paying for her services by taking care of her bill of salon , shopping n all 🤢😆
So Shagun was no saint...she took care of Pihu like a nanny n in return she got paid for her services by Raman 😛
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Posted: 7 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream



I do understand the concept of surrogacy and am very well aware of the rights of a surrogate mother .


If Shagun would have given birth to Pihu and left the place, she couldn't claim any rights on her, but in YHM it was shown that Ishita left for 7 years after Pihu was born.


And In her absence , it was Shagun who raised Pihu and not only raised her but in fact was given the status of being Pihu's mother by both the family and the father of the child .


This type of involvement needs to be acknowledged (by this word I mean giving respect out of gratitude) which Ishita does by calling Pihu as "Humare Bachhe".


And coming down to Adi and Ruhi , Ishita solely cannot claim them to be hers coz they are Shagun's.


Ruhi's she can still negate but not Adi's.

That is why that "Humare bachhe".


Hope I have been able to explain my point.

That is what the original premise of YHM was all about! That you needn't give birth to a child to be his mother. Shagun only carried the baby in her womb and gave birth to Ruhi and Adi. But she never took care of them and used them only for her own benefits. Even when she had Adi's custody along with Ashok, she sent Adi to a boarding school. For her Adi was just a tool. She never cared for him even then. She was planning to do the same with Ruhi as well.

The show was all about how Ishita became Adi and Ruhi's Ishima and how the children chose their step mother over the actual. What is the big thing with the mother' tag? You need to act like one. Shagun left Ruhi and Adi for selfish motives whereas Ishita left Pihu due to guilt and not for luxurious lifestyle unlike Shagun.

I don't entirely support Ishita abondoning baby Pihu though. But then the woman was traumatised so much. She just had to make a choice between Ruhi, whom she loved immensely, and Pihu, who was her very own daughter. The guilty of in a way being responsible for Ruhi's "death killed her from the inside which was exacerbated by Raman's harsh words. The circumstances in which Ishita left her child and Shagun abandoned Ruhi are very different.

Never will I agree that Shagun is the mother of Adi/Ruhi/Pihu/Aliya. Yes, as you said she can brag with the birth mother' tag but then she is not worth it. She has used all the kids only for her benefits and disappeared when they were in trouble.

Ishita on the other hand risked her life and saved Ruhi and Adi from fire. The woman almost died saving "her children. That is what is motherly love. The same woman took the blame of Ananya's murder upon herself just to save Pihu (the hiding was stupid, agreed).

Ishita always craved to experience pregnancy. But then the same woman cared to hoots about her own safety when she was pregnant. She lost her baby in her attempt to save "her family.

Ishita is is the mother of all the four: Adi, Ruhi, Aliya and Pihu, not biologically/legally perhaps, but emotionally at least.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#75
Divyanka Tripathi
Accused Of Blatantly
Copying
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Tiger Belt Design
Television's favourite
Divyanka Tripathi is the
latest to be accused of
copying a belt design of
Sabyasachi. We wonder
what are her thoughts
over it.

Read the full article in below link,

https://www.spotboye.com/television/television-news/divyanka-tripathi-accused-of-blatantly-copying-sabyasachi-s-signature-motif-tiger-belt-design/5c4d9ed4eec9926004b355ba
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Posted: 7 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: ght_shona_4evr

Divyanka Tripathi
Accused Of Blatantly
Copying
Sabyasachi's
Signature Motif
Tiger Belt Design
Television's favourite
Divyanka Tripathi is the
latest to be accused of
copying a belt design of
Sabyasachi. We wonder
what are her thoughts
over it.

Read the full article in below link,

https://www.spotboye.com/television/television-news/divyanka-tripathi-accused-of-blatantly-copying-sabyasachi-s-signature-motif-tiger-belt-design/5c4d9ed4eec9926004b355ba


I have read some comments there posted by DT fans on the verified insta account that pointed out DT's blunder, those are so childish and immature. DT's comment was polite but she acted like she's been victimized. Well, as a celebrity she should know, how the copyright in creative field works. If she copied a foreign designer's work, it would not have meant much. Because they are not bothered outside their domain. But she copied a celebrity Indian fashion designer's work and they (DT and Sabyasachi) both work in the same domain, it's a big deal. Being ignorant or playing victim card like this could be fatal for a celeb's career in the west. But it's India and here fans are blinded.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#77
She might disappear again...
Back to snake form...in snake series
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Posted: 7 years ago
#78
In that segment, the way puttar was gazing biwi leaning to the wall☺️
Goozies☺️

Something else was running in his mind when he was gazing her at the door, but when he came inside his expressions changed and was talking other way in front of Pihu😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
#79
Ruhi Adi are Ishita's kids only. She saved them from fire when their own mother left them behind to die.
She has raised them and the person who raises the kids always has more right over the one who gives birth.

This show will remembered as IshRaRu show. Ruhi along with Ishra is the backbone of the show which is why I hope they focus more on their bonding.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#80

Originally posted by: IshRaian

That is what the original premise of YHM was all about! That you needn't give birth to a child to be his mother. Shagun only carried the baby in her womb and gave birth to Ruhi and Adi. But she never took care of them and used them only for her own benefits. Even when she had Adi's custody along with Ashok, she sent Adi to a boarding school. For her Adi was just a tool. She never cared for him even then. She was planning to do the same with Ruhi as well.

The show was all about how Ishita became Adi and Ruhi's Ishima and how the children chose their step mother over the actual. What is the big thing with the mother' tag? You need to act like one. Shagun left Ruhi and Adi for selfish motives whereas Ishita left Pihu due to guilt and not for luxurious lifestyle unlike Shagun.

I don't entirely support Ishita abondoning baby Pihu though. But then the woman was traumatised so much. She just had to make a choice between Ruhi, whom she loved immensely, and Pihu, who was her very own daughter. The guilty of in a way being responsible for Ruhi's "death killed her from the inside which was exacerbated by Raman's harsh words. The circumstances in which Ishita left her child and Shagun abandoned Ruhi are very different.

Never will I agree that Shagun is the mother of Adi/Ruhi/Pihu/Aliya. Yes, as you said she can brag with the birth mother' tag but then she is not worth it. She has used all the kids only for her benefits and disappeared when they were in trouble.

Ishita on the other hand risked her life and saved Ruhi and Adi from fire. The woman almost died saving "her children. That is what is motherly love. The same woman took the blame of Ananya's murder upon herself just to save Pihu (the hiding was stupid, agreed).

Ishita always craved to experience pregnancy. But then the same woman cared to hoots about her own safety when she was pregnant. She lost her baby in her attempt to save "her family.

Ishita is is the mother of all the four: Adi, Ruhi, Aliya and Pihu, not biologically/legally perhaps, but emotionally at least.


If we talk about worth then all 3 - Ishita, Raman, Shagun are worthless .



Shagun left Ruhi for materialistic pleasure


Raman left Ruhi and later on Adi as he was in self - pity mode.


Ishita left pihu and Adi as she felt herself to be useless.


Not only have they abandoned but each one of them has given all 3 kids mental stress in some way or the other and hence All 3 are worst set of parents and I wouldn't pray for any child in the world to get parents like these 3.


Coming down to Shagun abandoning her kids in fire and so should not be considered as mother by IshRa then let me tell you IshRa has no such right to decide whom the kids should consider as parent and whom not. It is solely a child's decision and I guess the kids did take a good decision.



Adi abandoned her after that fire incident . He abandoned her to an extent that although he stayed with Shagun for another 7 years , but he couldn't bond back with her.


Let me also remind you, after earthquake itself Adi accepted Ishita as his mother and started calling her Ishima And looked at her as his mother Figure.


At the time of Pihu , it was Ruhi who brain washed Ishita and asked her to claim her rights on Pihu as a mother as she hadn't accepted Shagun as her mother and neither beloved in the fact that Shagun could ever love any child. She had scoffed at Shagun when Shagun asked her to help in getting Pihu. In fact , she also used her influence on Pihu and manipulated her to take decisions which would take her away from Shagun.


I think all those actions are proof enough that whom does kids take in as their mother and who is called as mother only for birth reasons.


So YHM has stuck to its original format.


Coming down to Pihu, she had not been witness to that extreme side of Shagun Which Adi and Ruhi had seen. She was neglected for sometime but not a lot. She was happy in her life but then in Ruhi's influence decided to give a chance to Ishita , she liked the environment better than she got in Shagun's and so decided to stay back.


But even today she looks up to Shagun as her mother. After jail term when she wasn't allowed to meet Ishita, and she was craving for motherly love , she asked for Shagun which shows she still takes Shagun as her mother and IshRa cannot negate it coz every person makes their own relations.


Coming down to IshRa giving her respect out of gratitude while she has been bad innumerable times with them, then that's the difference between a good human being and selfish human being.


I have myself seen how my parents still help and are good to those people who had helped them once upon a time when they were in troubled times , even though they have taken advantage of it few times . This shows that they are good souls and same is with IshRa.



If everybody starts giving tit for tat then what will be the difference left between good people and bad people.



Edited by abhilasha_dream - 7 years ago

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