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Posted: 7 years ago
Happy weekend folks. This is going to be one of the better weekends for me I think .
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

She giggled... "Gunehgar ko neend aa gayi? she taunted him for hanging up

Ha ha. Good one .She is getting better at throwing subtle punches... reminded me of II here this taunt 😊 🤣


Those exact lines cracked me up to !
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

Happy weekend folks. This is going to be one of the better weekends for me I think .



For all of us also if there will be few updates here and there...
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Posted: 7 years ago
Nisha, hope your work week went well and your weekend is looking good. Here we have gone straight to summer skipping spring. No complaints though!
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Posted: 7 years ago

Happiness & Self-sacrifice

"It's a very complex situation Ma Vibhu spoke softly

"Bache se shuru hokar ab hamari Teeku lives in a family that is embedded within the pages of a 1950s UP fiction novel Himani lowered her gaze

"Humne Dilli shaadi karne ke kayi options diye unko Himani Shyam sorted fennel cany from plain seeds in his palm

"If she was in love with him and wanted this life, this all would make sense Meeta whispered

"I am hoping that will eventually happen, I cannot imagine Teeku living in a love less marriage for 40 years for the sake of Chandu Himani was defensive

"We put her there ma, the guy is great! He is articulate funny, has tons of friends, is full of mischief Vibhu chuckled his eyes gazing faraway

"How can we talk to the Vaidyas, without prying or interfereing to make it known that they need to loosen the grip on Teeku? Meeta asked

"Inhoney ek din Lakshmiji ki data suni dupatta ko lekar beta, don't jump to conclusions, may be it was a festival day or some pooja Shyam waved a finger

His DIL sat in front of him in a calf length lounge dress, in her bloated state and inside a centrally airconditioned house that was the attire that kept her most comfy

"But Shyam 2018 mein to insist a bahu wear a dupatta and not touch her brother etc, is insanely archaic Himani was not happy

"I get it Hum sun rahe hain Shyam was helpless causing him to be frustrated

"don't get aggravated Himani admonished shaking her head

"You are causing it Shyam shouted helplessly

"daddd Mommm meeta rolled her eyes

"Vibhu apne DAD se kehne ki kya zaroorat hai beta? Himani scolded

Vibhu looked shocked

"Haan chhupa letin aap, har baat ki shay dee hain aap beti ko, hum kahey to pursue the family connection and return the child, nahi hamari to kisi ne nahi suni, Shyam was not happy

Meeta looked nervously at her FIL "Dad she is now married to the man

"Haan hum jaante hain beta, he is a lawyer a million times more shrewd and calculating than our daughter ever will be

"She is nave Himani mumbled sadly

"Bacha bhi ab unke paas, hamari bachi bhi Shyam sighed

"She seems happy, with him, he told me how eager she is to please and how caring she is Vibhu reassured

"Haan who to kahenge hi beta, hamari Teeku hain hi aisi

"Dad, I don't think Harit has any ulterior motive, hamari back ground investigation mein koi baat nikal aati

"Who baat main manta hoon, but a trans national law grad, doing pro bono in Bareilly, lifing in a 19th century ritualistic home, doesn't add up for me Shyam crossed his legs at his knee and tapped his ankle pensively


"I was curious too, I asked him if he was going to ride on the coat tails of his Dad the rest of his life

"VIBHOOO YOU DIDN'T Meeta was horrified

"Not in so many words, but yes, I asked him

"Kya kahe who? Himani's eyes lit up

"He feels this sense of service deep down, I am unable to place a finger, he feels like he has to be there for his Dad and Mum

"Umm... baaqi aur do bete hain, yeh aur Hemant hi nahi Himani was arguing now

"But I don't know if the others feel the same way, our SIL does Ma Vibhu looked lost

"Un samdhiyon se baat Karen aap, get an opinion from Alka and Suman's parents about how much their DILs love living like that Shyam approached it scientifically

"Agar who dono khush hain to? Meeta threw a spanner in the works

"Umm... phir to... we have two problems to deal with Teeku se umeed bani rahegi Vaidyas ki who bhi khush karen apne aap ko that is she learns to adjust to that lifestyle and methods, aur Harit ki altruism Shyam said thoughtfully

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Edited by Nisha0604 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
Everyone , each member of the family be it the vaidyas or The Guptas are wanting some kind of reassurance, given the pensive situation they find themselves in.

It's starting to eat now , helpless Shyam and Himani are showing remorse to see their affluently bought up having to go thru a forced life style change. I wouldn't be sleeping tonight if I were to be in Himani's or shyam's shoes.

But if one thinks about it, all the situation needs is a bit of resolve and change in few people. If only changes his methods and finds a balance between his altruism and paid professionalism, if only Avantika gets a job that will get her going, if only Chandoo is taught to embrace people a little more, if only Lakshmi learns to let go, if only the vaidya family sits down and put their resources and might to make the home get a makeover in both its looks and the way the household functions , it would be a perfect world.

These are not non addressable issues.., all they need is an mindset ... one step at a time. If any of these people were mean or bad , it's a different proposition then. Fortunately none of them are bad and so they start working from there to make it a better deal for everyone in this kind of setups.
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Posted: 7 years ago
Can we have a marathon please? It's been a while isnt it? Thank you
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Posted: 7 years ago
A joint family cannot function like an establishment or like a monarchy especially where the eldest son has been married for 14 yrs and the youngest son married for four months. Between 14 yrs and 4 months there's at least a decade there and in the modern dictionary a generation gap is not even a decade in that sense.
If the sons together step up to make lives little more easier for the women at home, it's resolvable.

It will not be long before the younger kids like Yash step up the next decade or so. Something's got to give and it's got to give now !
Edited by Errantnomad - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
Vaidyas Kalpana probably dont even know how they are being viewed
They are so used to their ways, nothing seems odd to them about their own behavior

JV sahib and Harit have let Lakshmi go to the driver seat for obvious reasons, she has used Hemant's demise to become more rigid and this her way of coping

From a third party standpoint, this family seems very old fashioned especially for their affluent, well bred modern, Delhi based daughter to be committing the rest of her life to it


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Posted: 7 years ago
Harit immediately agreeing to marry Avantika rankles Shyam somewhere. He is sure there is more to it, he would have let go of it if Harit and Avantika had shown expression of love or attraction
Since Harit has not in any way, Shyam feels there is more to it than meets the eye

Even if they show outwardly feelings of love, Guptas do realize this is a huge ask from Avantika

To live the next 50 years of her life inside that frozen in time house married to a selfless man

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