Tale of Aditya's Dosti and Aditya's Love - Page 2

Agree with you, he hasn't experienced anything like what he is going to feel for Zoya. I can already see the passion in him for Zo lol. For him to move on, he has to forgive Pooja eventually and I think Zo is going to make him do that.

Originally posted by: SatoshiNakamoto

Agree with you, he hasn't experienced anything like what he is going to feel for Zoya. I can already see the passion in him for Zo lol. For him to move on, he has to forgive Pooja eventually and I think Zo is going to make him do that.

But how will Zo forget Yash??

Originally posted by: Santiago24

Why do we want Zo to forget Yash? There is no need.. People can fall in love again..

Dont break ups happen for reasons other than lack of love? Dont spouses die? People dont spend rest of their lives single right.. Their memories are always with them but they move on in life..

In fact, Yash neednt have cheated too.. but he is no more.. With all the love Zo felt for him, she has to move on.. fall in love again.. which is not impossible.. Coz there is no rule that only if the other spouse was at fault that can you forget and move on..

Thats the premise of the show too - Life gives you a second chance.. Reminds me of the tamil movie Raja Rani too

Adi's memories of Pooja are so colored by her apparent cheating that he refuses to remember any of the good parts. Contrary to that, Zo remembers NOTHING but the good parts.

Of course its not necessary for Yash to have fallen for Pooja too. He could have been totally faithful to Zoya. He could've been in love with her until his last breath. But that does not mean that they had an ideal marriage.

I think we need to give some credit to these writers, because even from what little we are shown of Yash and Pooja through the flashbacks, we can read between the lines and glean a lot from their interactions with their spouses.

The Adi-Pooja dynamic seems like it went straight from best friends to husband-wife. It's like they mistook the comfort, familiarity and ease of their relationship for love. Because if this isn't love, then what is, right? And Pooja realized she wanted more a bit too late. And Adi's yet to realize it.

Now let's come to Zo-Yash. While they might have had all the passion and spark in their married-life, and I'm going off of what I've seen from Zo's POV, their dynamic seems like it lacked healthy communication. RE: The business was Yash's baby, then how is it that Zo knew so little or cared so little about it? Why in the world would Yash not tell her about his financial troubles? Also, from what we've seen of them as a couple, do Yash-Zo feel like they've had one good healthy yell-at-each-other, call-each-other-names kind of a fight, or even a mild argument, during the entire time they were married? Nope. I don't see it.
It seemed like Zo's entire world before Yash's death revolved around him. She was always eager to please, he treated her like a glass figurine. They put each other on pedestals, Yash never shared any of his troubles with her because he thought she wouldn't be able to handle it. Just like he says she can't handle a big city life in Mumbai, and he wanted to buy her a big house there before getting her to move with him so that she isn't lacking in comfort.
Didn't I just say Zo only remembers the good parts with Yash, is that because their marriage was filled with them? No. It's the only thing Yash chose to let her be part of.

So, to those of you worried about what Adi can offer Zoya in a relationship if Yash turns out to be the ideal non-cheating husband.. A WHOLE LOT.

The thing that I totally love and admire about Adi is he is not only loyal to people he love but also loyal to his every emotion.

Originally posted by: Ianoconic.

If pooja felt their relationship was lacking that ishq wala passion what effort she put to it? none at all.

I don't know if we can say that she didn't when it's canon that she did. And I don't know how it translates to passion-filled love, but it was shown that she tried to like the things that Adi liked, or at least made an effort, when Adi couldn't be bothered to do the same.

As for the rest of your post, ITA. AdiYa's personalities complement each other so well, it's definitely going to be an epic, real journey and I can't wait! 😳

ps: i dont justify cheating

Originally posted by: Santiago24

Hola guys,

Most of us have been debating the other half - Pooja, Yash, Arjun, infidelity et al..

But we are still debating if Arjun is the googly or the no ball, with the extra run on the scoreboard going to Yash's credit.. no no.. I swear am not watching IPL.. 😛

Amidst all the wides and blind swings, one aspect has me all excited.

That Aditya was one of those who went by the adage of Pyar Dosti Hai.. our hero Shah Rukh Khan does his job on yet another fertile mind.. pata nahi.. uss 1998 mein SRK ke kitne nazook dilon ke saat ye khilwad kiya tha... Pyar dosti hai..

Never mind that now.. But what has me all excited about that is the fact that Adi has never truly loved loved.. You know what I mean?

That all consuming, all encompassing, one touch and I will burn into embers wala, passionate ishq wala mohabbat - he is yet to experience that.. and that is reserved for Zoya..

And the day he realizes that is the day he will understand Pooja and her expectations and her feelings and truly forgive her..

In many ways, for me, Bepannah is Aditya's journey - from friendship and dosti wala love to understanding passion, Love with a capital L, the kind of love where one the other is not around, you go blind with worry and god forbid that the partner dies, the least of your concern is who she is holding hands with and the feeling of your irreparable loss leaves you wanting to die with her.. that kind of love..

Am waiting to see Adi fall... fall in love! ❤️

What do you all think?

Originally posted by: SatoshiNakamoto

Yeah forget isn't the right word but I meant like would she even think about second chance? I don't know how will her mindset change. Abhi to she is like Yash-Yash all the time.

Originally posted by: Roonil_Wazlib

Adi's memories of Pooja are so colored by her apparent cheating that he refuses to remember any of the good parts. Contrary to that, Zo remembers NOTHING but the good parts.

Of course its not necessary for Yash to have fallen for Pooja too. He could have been totally faithful to Zoya. He could've been in love with her until his last breath. But that does not mean that they had an ideal marriage.

I think we need to give some credit to these writers, because even from what little we are shown of Yash and Pooja through the flashbacks, we can read between the lines and glean a lot from their interactions with their spouses.

The Adi-Pooja dynamic seems like it went straight from best friends to husband-wife. It's like they mistook the comfort, familiarity and ease of their relationship for love. Because if this isn't love, then what is, right? And Pooja realized she wanted more a bit too late. And Adi's yet to realize it.

Now let's come to Zo-Yash. While they might have had all the passion and spark in their married-life, and I'm going off of what I've seen from Zo's POV, their dynamic seems like it lacked healthy communication. RE: The business was Yash's baby, then how is it that Zo knew so little or cared so little about it? Why in the world would Yash not tell her about his financial troubles? Also, from what we've seen of them as a couple, do Yash-Zo feel like they've had one good healthy yell-at-each-other, call-each-other-names kind of a fight, or even a mild argument, during the entire time they were married? Nope. I don't see it.
It seemed like Zo's entire world before Yash's death revolved around him. She was always eager to please, he treated her like a glass figurine. They put each other on pedestals, Yash never shared any of his troubles with her because he thought she wouldn't be able to handle it. Just like he says she can't handle a big city life in Mumbai, and he wanted to buy her a big house there before getting her to move with him so that she isn't lacking in comfort.
Didn't I just say Zo only remembers the good parts with Yash, is that because their marriage was filled with them? No. It's the only thing Yash chose to let her be part of.

So, to those of you worried about what Adi can offer Zoya in a relationship if Yash turns out to be the ideal non-cheating husband.. A WHOLE LOT.