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blue-ice.

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: anonymous39
^Don't most middle-class families do that anyway? My aunt lives with both her mother and husband's mother together. The two moms actually really like living together because they have a built-in friend now that their husbands have passed away.

Nah still doesn't happen that much...may be here and there...its not that the girls don't want to take care of their parents...but most of the times it the parents who don't want to stay with their daughters...ki duniya kya kahegi...apni beti ke paas rehte hain...abhi bahut mindset change hona hai...but I am really surprised by what HKP told...its amazing👏

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Posted: 8 years ago

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I am from North Kerala n in our area it's usual for old parents to stay with daughter... infact parents are also more comfortable in staying with daughter than daughter in-law.

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Thats nice but her brother is there too to take care. Seems like Ash's PR.

I have heard that Bunts follow matriarchal inheritance. The inheritance is passed on to daughters I think, so parents usually live with daughters.

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Pehchaan.Kaun

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: HawasKaPujari
Aishwarya is a Bunt and in our caste, it is custom that the parents move in with their daughter in their old age, or after the death of one parent. If she's living with her in-laws they might have to adjust, although the house is large enough for everyone.

Really !! 😲 It's amazing custom and should be promoted more at least in our country. 👏 The urge to have at least 1 son because they will be their last straw of hope in their old-age will drastically reduce if this is indeed taken into regular custom across all states/caste. 😊 Hope for a brighter India. ⭐️

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Mimi_

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Maybe she doesn't want to lose her independence. When you're used to having things your own way it's very difficult to live in someone else's house and not have any say in running the house.

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ponymo

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: HawasKaPujari
Aishwarya is a Bunt and in our caste, it is custom that the parents move in with their daughter in their old age, or after the death of one parent. If she's living with her in-laws they might have to adjust, although the house is large enough for everyone.

That's such a progressive custom. Wish it gets followed elsewhere too. 👍🏼

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Seig heil

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Do they live in seperate home ?

Coz i cant imagine her living with jaya.

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Jhanvi

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Posted: 8 years ago

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I hate our culture where guys parents are able to live with kids like free loaders but girl's parents even hesitate to visit

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blue-ice.

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: desigrl05
I hate our culture where guys parents are able to live with kids like free loaders but girl's parents even hesitate to visit

Free loaders??? Really?? These free loaders are the one who raised the guy...kuchh bhi🥱

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Whether it's guys parents or girls they should be treated equally. No parents from either gender should be termed as free loaders @ desigirl this I do not agree with.

My nani stayed with us after my nana passed away, it took us lots of persuading to make her stay with my mom as she belonged to a different generation mindset.

Mindset needs to be changed and should be applied, this does not happen only in our culture but others too.