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@ suwas: yes JM is similar to JB but not exact, i never said it was exactly the same...as for meera...we dont know the story behind why she married jai, and why jai married her...what was the reason, was there a majburi...and mohan dumped here on jw b4 JM got married...so maybe she has no choice...maybe she doesnt have anywhere to go...as for his feelings...meera hasnt gotten sick for jai to take care of her...meera isnt jasoos #1 so she didnt get stuck in a burning house..but jai did show his feelings for her...he stopped her from leaving naa...if he truly hated her, he would have let her go...he'd be able to get rid of her, but he didnt...he changed his mind on letting her adopt ganga only when she threatened to leave him...that alone....speaks volumes...


I don't think he changed his decision to stop Meera from leaving. Otherwise they would have shown him thinking about various times Meera has been there for him not about KW/AW. Actually thats why his decision didn't bother me. What got him was her statement that he feels bad for not being able to save his kids & now he has chance.So don't get wrong massage.HE was just surprised tat she will threaten to leave something which she hasn't done in spite of all abuses she has to face.

I agree Meera was never sick but he has never said to MEera that I wish I didn't treat you like thi but I can't help it. Its the circumstances which has made me the way I am. Something he would do lots in few months he was with bani. The thing is he is been like this with Meeta for yrs & only times he shows civility is to make bani jealous or for GAnga's sake unlike his behaviour with bani.

And I don't think JB & Jm are similar. I said it may look similar apparently who is not too familiar with KS.BTW her sister doesn't live with her so she does live somewhere else unlike Bani who really didn't have any other place so that her sister had to live with her too.
Bani wasn't educated, she had to stop college to run her home. As far as we know when MEera came to JW she had a rich brother was already married which indicates had a basic degree as any indian girl in a well to do family. Why does she need Walias to give shelter? At least rano has a kid to take care of But I still don't like her staying in WM. Meera doesn't have that excuse too.Look at bani isn't she taking care of Ganga & maasi?

👏 this is for writing what you and how you truly feel .
I would like to see JM since PD has decided to do Rock on .always loved JB till the chemistry went skittering down hill .i thought after the present leap , and the emerging of the earlier chemistry ,J will be my JDD.but PD isnt going to be around anymore ...
I like Meera and can almost see a a tiny spark of chemistry blowing into a huge flame if the creatives are treading on that path .
agree with all the points you have stated and explained .
THANKYOU i thought i was the only one who will be for JM .

Klue

Originally posted by: klueless

👏 this is for writing what you and how you truly feel . thank u ji...thank you 😳😳
I would like to see JM since PD has decided to do Rock on .always loved JB till the chemistry went skittering down hill .i thought after the present leap , and the emerging of the earlier chemistry ,J will be my JDD.but PD isnt going to be around anymore ... jai will always make our jiyas go dhadak dhadak...😉😉...no question there 😳
I like Meera and can almost see a a tiny spark of chemistry blowing into a huge flame if the creatives are treading on that path . oh man...i love the way you worded that...tiny spark to full flame...👏👏...thats what i was trying to say...didnt quite come out that way 😆😆
agree with all the points you have stated and explained .
THANKYOU i thought i was the only one who will be for JM .

Klue

thanks klue yaar...you are not the only one to feel that way...i clearly do...😆😆😆...we are a small group...the JM supporters...but still...chota hua toh kya hua...we will make your presence known 😉😉...ladne ke liyeh hum bhi tayar hai 😛😛
JAZ

Originally posted by: jnawaz

thanks klue yaar...you are not the only one to feel that way...i clearly do...😆😆😆...we are a small group...the JM supporters...but still...chota hua toh kya hua...we will make your presence known 😉😉...ladne ke liyeh hum bhi tayar hai 😛😛
JAZ

Your welcome dear ,

😆 Jaz filhaal hum dono hi JM supporter hai .. er correction .. masterp too 😆

bechari meera ..JW ki bashing to pad rahi hai ,plus forum waalon ki 😕

Prachi leaving is not reason to like JM. If some one other than Prachi has to be with Ram then I would prefer Prachi's replacement Prachi na sahi bani to hai. But never other woman in Jai's life.

Originally posted by: suwas

Prachi leaving is not reason to like JM. If some one other than Prachi has to be with Ram then I would prefer Prachi's replacement Prachi na sahi bani to hai. But never other woman in Jai's life.

Its one of the reasons to like JM , the other reason is lack of chemistry between JB ..it was nil long back .. finally after bthe leap saqw a some hope for the old JB spark ..until PD decided to do rock on . meanwhile Meera has been slowly growing on me ..unless she turns a a * itch.at this point i dont care for a replacement .ie if there is going to be one ..ansd whether the future storyline will bring about JB (replacement )chemistry .

Ahh, Jazi!! How have you been??😛

Haven't talked to you in a while, what's up??😊 Ok so about your post, I have to admit I don't agree with you, but I understand what you're saying😛

Well, let me just add that the reason I would prefer JB over JM is because JB clicked since day one... And I didn't feel the same way about JM

I guess you can say that it's because I am so used to JB that I refuse to accept JM... But to be truthful I don't think I even like Meera🤢 Like when she talked about adopting Ganga because Jai started to smile because of her, I just thought that was selfish because she wanted to adopt Ganga for her own well being, she didn't even think about Bani and what she would go through she just went on and asked Massi... (This was all before Bani "hated" Ganga)

I don't, I'm like out of it. I hope you understood what I was trying to say😛

Love,

Pooja😊

Originally posted by: klueless

Its one of the reasons to like JM , the other reason is lack of chemistry between JB ..it was nil long back .. finally after bthe leap saqw a some hope for the old JB spark ..until PD decided to do rock on . meanwhile Meera has been slowly growing on me ..unless she turns a a * itch.at this point i dont care for a replacement .ie if there is going to be one ..ansd whether the future storyline will bring about JB (replacement )chemistry .

One does not like a jodi or not like a jodi because one of the person in the jodi does something else. That is not how it works. There is a number of things that make u like a jodi and one of that is the pair has to click with the audience,and then their chemistry has to do its magic work and these are only two things. These things make u fall in love with the jodi. U say there is no chemistry between Jai &Bani now like before but i disagree with u on that because u can still see that chemistry between JB when they have a scene or two together. Also right now or even post the 1st leap how will u see the chemistry between them like before if most of the time the creatives decides to keep the main protagonists/jodi of the show apart. Before they reunite there is separation being shown but still one or two scenes that is shown between JB has the chemistry to make audiences hold their breath and stay glued to the television screen.

I can say that i cannot see that in Jai and Meera even after all these months or even in the future and instead when i see her she makes me want to switch channels and make me want to smack her in her face. To me all she is a selfish person who thinks only for herself and what would benefit her.

Bani has been shown to sacrifice any and everything for the people she loves so they can be happy. Do u think Meera will be able too? I do not think so and i am yet to see something like that. Instead she will go for what will benefit her and will only look at what she will gain and how she will gain it.

Sorry but this is the way i feel.

Jai&Bani will always be the jodi of KS and instead of Jai and Meera i would rather have a PD replacement if need be for Bani's role.

I love the Jai and Bani jodi. Put any other current jodi on television through all the sufferings that JB have gone through both at the hands of the creatives and also PD's other commitments(Jhalak=body doubles) and see if the other jodis keep the same chemistry!! I think for people, more than the chemistry, its the fact that after going through all the torture, this pair HAS to be together!

In real life too, the "So-called Chemistry" between couples reduce with the passage of time and other things like responsibilities and commitments come into being. This is when the couples have to hold together their faith and friendship!!

Now, coming to Meera. I Do Not agree that she is selfish and she is being good for her own benefit. To me, just because one likes Bani, does not mean that Meera has to be bashed about qualities she does not have! Yes, she wants her husband's love, she knows he is living in the past, Bani is his love, but to her, Bani is not a part of their lives now. Plus, love does not know LOGIC. No one can systematically sit down and chart out what is right and wrong in love! How come, no one writes about how Meera defended Bani, did not think that adoption and seperating Bani and Ganga is right. She even thought about this being wrong to herself. About her wanting Ganga in their lives because she makes Jai happy, how can we call that selfish. Lets think back to all the "Duffer" things Bani did in the name of LOVE!!

Of course, now the story must have already taken a definate direction since Prachi has finished shooting for KS. If they want to show JB, then I hope there is a replacement. If they want to show JM, then I wish they would do so by giving Bani a good exit and making her get a solemn promise from Jai that he would be a real husband to Meera and they would take good care of Ganga. They should not kill Ganga and Bani should know that Jai only and only loves her and Jai that Bani loves him to bits. Only a blessing from Bani and a complete exit of her character can make me like JM. If Bani does not exit completely but temporarily, then JM is a complete NO. So, to me, a good replacement is better. Who knows, things may brighten up!! 😉

Hiya..

Tomorrow if Meera is shown as JW **** in full mode i mean once she warms up his bed and becomes preggie,she as other BT herione will start doing some inanae things and if lucky 😉 gets sep from JW and a new gal walks in wearing sari's and lookn all good and have good chem,tab kya??? i mean would we want JW with her than??

Is poorae picture main JW is being potrayed as JERK na??

Meera well that char absence wouldnt have made an ounce of diff to KS,as her presence,her presence does nothing just keeps increasing BP's of many.
1. Meera has bought Ganga to WM,well ganga could still make her way into WM as Vidya's frend
2. Meera makes bani jealous,well JW flaunting any female spicies in his arms even a bar dancer is enuf to make bani jealous,but since Meera is JW's wife bani is not at all Jealous.
3.Thanks to Meear ,JW adopted ganga well had meera been not in picture probably u know Adi,Rano and Co would have played a role in ganga gettn full time into WM

So for me Meera is totally redundant char.

Differences between Meeera and Bani:

1.Meera is an abusive marr for 6years and still expecting love where her husband never behaves with her civilly and bani offered divorce to JW the very next day.
2.Bani was alone,neither was she rich to turn against JW and at that time there was ounce of guilty in her which made her stay calm and but she never took all his abuses she gave him back many times.She had gutts to get PP married in his own house.
3.Bani walked over JW even when she loved him adn carryn his child when she came to know he accidentally bumbed off St.KD
4.Bani never took jigs hauling all time,she at times gave back jigs but thankfully never answered ques like who came first Hen or Egg nor responed to name calling like Ghaddi.

5.JW being mean to bani at KS beginning was cute wanting to ask more and chem was at peaks,the screen was on fire and my eyes used to glue to TV and even now in this waitress phase when he is mean its all mixture of many emotions meaning he is jealous,he is amgry,he is concerned and alot more but whe he is mean to meera he is simple plain mean no more emotions.

Finally the concrete point JW loves Bani but not Meera.
In future if he falls for Meera,then that day JW dies for me and after that if they show him sleeping with anyone fathering thousands doesnt make much difference.

Prerna& Anuraag ,Neev and Prachi are very diff cases comapred to JB i mean JB are miles ahead,NP loved but when thy got sep they werent marr to each other nor had batallion of kids in tow,coming to Prerna moving with bajaj after havn two kids with anu,all know what role bajaj played in AP split up and again i really dont want to see JB meetn as souls after death ala Anu-Prerna are to meet nor that stupid track where after havn grown up married kids bajaj suspects prerna for havn affair with Anuraag at age of 50's yaar JB ko tho baksh do.Since MP are marr now,tomorrow if they split will people be happy if thy show NP tog again😕

Everyone can have their own choices,likes and dislikes so lets see what KS has in store maybe in future we have JW moving ahead ,sep ganga from bani ,furthur killing her and falling in love with meera Meera preg and then it comes out that meera was behind KW/AW kidnap and death,😉 who knows,maybe u see bani will be with a new guy and JW alone and maybe even sidelined.

Finally anyday i love JB as JW is no saint and bani is no angel,i like JB with there defects and for what they are .